Understanding genetics can help reduce trial and error when finding suitable mental health medications.
Interference from toxic exes can deeply hurt a couple's relationship and negatively affect their lives.
Setting boundaries, speaking their truth, and embracing happiness can lead to positive shifts in family dynamics and inspire others to do the same.
Deep dives
The role of genetics in mental health medications
Understanding how genetics influence a person's response to various mental health medications can help reduce trial and error in finding suitable treatments. The GeneSight genetic test analyzes DNA variations to determine how genes may affect metabolism or response to medications commonly prescribed for conditions such as depression and anxiety.
Challenges with a toxic ex interfering with a new relationship
A couple is facing interference from one of their exes who is not happy about their upcoming marriage. The ex-wife is spreading negative rumors and trying to turn their adult children and family against them. This has deeply hurt the fiance, who stayed in the marriage for the children, and the relationship is being negatively affected by this constant attack.
Overcoming fear of joy and freeing oneself from the prison of guilt
The couple realizes that they are living in fear of being criticized and judged for finding happiness. They have colluded with the negative narratives created by their exes and have kept their relationship somewhat hidden, avoiding conflict and not celebrating their joy. They are advised to release themselves from this prison by speaking their truth, defending themselves, and not allowing others to control their happiness.
Breaking Free from the Jail of Shame
Lily and Nathan share their progress in breaking free from the shame and criticism of others. They have set boundaries with family members and started openly sharing their joy in their relationship. Nathan's mom is supportive, and Lily plans to introduce Nathan to her parents. They are learning to overcome their tendencies to hide and avoid conflict and are embracing the freedom to be open about their love. They are also writing their own love story and incorporating elements of celebration into their upcoming wedding.
Discovering Freedom in Truth and Boundaries
Lily and Nathan realize the impact of internalizing shame and criticism from others. They find relief as they set boundaries and communicate their truth. The response from Nathan's mom and Lily's parents is positive, indicating a potential shift in family dynamics. They recognize the need to be more open and honest about their relationship, rejecting the fear of judgment and embracing their right to happiness. By breaking out of their self-imposed jail, they inspire others to do the same and experience the freedom that comes with owning their truth.
This week we’re in session with Lily and Nathan, who fell madly in love after their midlife divorces. We help them navigate a toxic ex-spouse who’s not happy about their upcoming marriage and is making their lives miserable.
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