Balancing the ADHD Underwhelm-Overwhelm Scales with Brooke Schnittman
Aug 15, 2024
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Brooke Schnittman, an ADHD coach with a background in education, delves into the emotional dynamics of overwhelm and underwhelm faced by individuals with ADHD. She highlights how boredom often stems from burnout and the significance of breaking tasks into manageable steps. The conversation covers executive function deficits, basic self-care needs, and the importance of self-awareness in navigating these challenges. Brooke shares practical strategies to regain momentum and foster self-compassion, making it a valuable resource for those seeking balance in their ADHD journey.
Understanding the interplay between overwhelm and underwhelm is crucial for managing ADHD, as both states significantly impact motivation and emotional regulation.
Implementing effective strategies like breaking tasks into smaller steps and practicing self-care can help individuals with ADHD regain momentum and reduce anxiety.
Deep dives
Understanding Underwhelm in ADHD
Underwhelm, often overlooked in discussions about ADHD, is characterized by boredom and a lack of interest in tasks. It can occur after a period of overwhelm due to overstimulation, leading to a state of hypo-focus where individuals feel unmotivated to engage with necessary activities. This state can result from not seeing the connection between tasks and personal interest or lacking sufficient dopamine stimulation. Consequently, individuals may procrastinate or avoid tasks altogether, mistaking underwhelm for mere laziness, which can trigger feelings of frustration and inadequacy.
Overwhelm: A Common Struggle
Overwhelm frequently manifests for people with ADHD due to the perception that everything holds equal importance, creating indecision and paralysis. External stimulation, negative self-talk, and uncompleted tasks can exacerbate this feeling, making it hard for individuals to prioritize their responsibilities. The interplay between underwhelm and overwhelm further complicates the situation, as they can coexist, driving the individual deeper into a cycle of avoidance and anxiety. Acknowledging the existence of these dual states is crucial for understanding and addressing the emotional turmoil often experienced by those with ADHD.
Strategies to Combat Overwhelm and Underwhelm
Effective strategies for addressing both overwhelm and underwhelm include breaking tasks into smaller, manageable actions to create momentum. Individuals can benefit from reflecting on their needs, like hydration or sleep, and prioritizing simple self-care actions that can jumpstart productivity. The concept of blurring the bigger picture, or focusing on just one small task, allows individuals to avoid the paralysis caused by overwhelming choices. This approach fosters a sense of accomplishment, which can lead to increased motivation and renewed energy to tackle larger goals.
Recognizing Emotional Triggers Within ADHD Families
Families with multiple ADHD members often experience an 'ADHD overwhelm contagion,' where anxiety and emotional dysregulation can spread among individuals. Recognizing this dynamic requires an awareness of personal triggers and the emotional states of others, allowing for better management of difficult conversations. Practicing self-regulation and engaging in self-care can enhance communication and reduce emotional reactivity within the family. Additionally, asking for permission before starting discussions and maintaining perspective can help mitigate misunderstandings and foster healthier interactions.
This week on the show, Nikki and Pete dive into the unique challenges of navigating the emotional rollercoaster of ADHD with guest Brooke Schnittman. Brooke, an ADHD coach with a background in education, is expert in the concepts of overwhelm and underwhelm, two extremes that often go hand-in-hand for those with ADHD. She explains that underwhelm, or boredom, can result from burnout after periods of overwhelm or a lack of interest and connection to a task. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the "why" behind tasks and breaking them down into small, manageable steps to build momentum and motivation.
Pete and Brooke also discuss the role of executive function deficits in preventing individuals with ADHD from recognizing and addressing their basic needs, such as hydration, sleep, and self-care. Brooke highlights Dr. Thomas Brown's six executive function clusters and how deficits in these areas can contribute to both overwhelm and underwhelm.
Throughout the episode, Brooke offers insights and strategies for managing these emotional extremes, such as preparing for potential setbacks, attaching oneself to small actions to regain momentum, and practicing self-compassion. The hosts and guest explore the overlapping triggers for both overwhelm and underwhelm, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and developing coping mechanisms to navigate the challenges of ADHD.