Finding serenity of mind requires spiritual surrender, allowing us to relax and release resistance to whatever arises in our experience.
The disturbances in our mind are temporary and can be compared to wavelets on the water, understanding this helps in finding inner peace.
To cultivate inner peace, it is essential to stop trying to control external circumstances and instead relax and release, allowing the natural flow of thoughts and emotions.
Deep dives
Resting on the Mind
The podcast explores the analogy of a bird resting on the water to illustrate how humans rest on the mind. When the water is calm, the bird is at ease, but when it becomes turbulent, the bird struggles to stay afloat. Similarly, when the mind is calm, people feel peaceful, but when it becomes disturbed, they experience discomfort. The natural state of the mind is calm, and the disturbances are created by past experiences and attachments. The key is to realize that one is separate from the mind and can choose not to be affected by its disturbances.
The Nature of the Mind
The mind is compared to a body of water that can create ripples or remain calm. The natural state of the mind is calm and peaceful, but it can be disturbed by external forces or one's own thoughts. Thoughts are like wavelets on the water, and a calm mind is like still water. Positive thoughts create pleasant wavelets, while negative thoughts create turbulent waves. Understanding that the mind is not who you are and that its disturbances are temporary helps in finding inner peace.
Resting with a Disturbed Mind
The podcast emphasizes the tendency of humans to try to manipulate the external world to make their minds more comfortable. People seek validation and approval from others because it calms their mind, and they avoid situations that might disturb them. However, this constant need for control and comfort leads to suffering and neuroticism. The solution is to recognize that the mind's disturbances are not under one's control and to develop a sense of comfort with the ever-changing nature of the mind and the external world.
Relax and Release to Calm the Mind
The podcast episode explains that when the mind is in a disturbed state, the natural inclination is to try to fix external circumstances to find relief. However, this approach only creates more ripples and unrest in the mind. The solution is to learn to relax and release, allowing the natural flow of thoughts and emotions to pass through without resistance. By not reacting to the ripples and instead accepting them, they will naturally run their course and calm the mind. The key is to stop fighting with the mind and trying to control external circumstances, and instead find peace by simply relaxing into the present moment.
Float Above the Ripples and Embrace Joy
As one becomes more skilled at relaxation and releasing resistance, they start to float above the disturbances in the mind. By not fixating on the ripples and not creating secondary reactions to them, a sense of joy and inner peace is cultivated. This state of being allows one to embrace the natural flow of life, regardless of external circumstances. Happiness and love are no longer dependent on external factors, but rather arise from one's inner state of openness and beauty. The more one practices relaxation and detachment from the mind's disturbances, the more they experience growth and spiritual expansion, ultimately leading to a merging with the infinite.
