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133. From Good to Super: How Supercommunicators Unlock the Language of Connection

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Mar 12, 2024

Charles Duhigg, a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and the author of "The Power of Habit," discusses his latest work, "Supercommunicators." He dives into what sets supercommunicators apart, emphasizing active listening and looping for understanding. The conversation explores the neuroscience of communication, the power of storytelling, and the three types of conversations: practical, emotional, and social. Duhigg shares insights on how to cultivate deeper connections through meaningful questions, observation, and adapting communication styles.

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INSIGHT

Neural Alignment in Communication

Communication relies on connection and alignment, syncing up neural patterns.
This syncing happens through shared emotions, thoughts, and ideas.

ADVICE

Engaging Communication

Engage listeners to foster connection and empathy in communication.
Stories, vivid images, and emotions are effective engagement tools.

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Three Types of Conversations

Conversations consist of three types: practical, emotional, and social.
Mismatched conversation types lead to frustration and miscommunication.

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