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Elevating Consciousness

Bruce Tift - Psychotherapy, Relationships & Awakening

Nov 17, 2023
Bruce Tift, a psychotherapist and author, discusses the relationship between psychotherapy and awakening, levels of psychological and spiritual maturity, understanding anxiety, the cycle of struggle, acceptance, codependent dynamics, and the practice of circling for intimacy and self-awareness.
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Quick takeaways

  • Cultivating personal responsibility in couples therapy enables emotional closeness while maintaining individual integrity.
  • By developing a separate relationship with anxiety and embracing its uncertainty, we can navigate through it without being overwhelmed.

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The Importance of Personal Responsibility in Couples Therapy

In couples therapy, a crucial starting point is personal responsibility. Many individuals come into adulthood with a tendency to look to their partner as the cause of their difficulties. By cultivating personal responsibility, couples can disentangle themselves from emotional fusion and codependency. This involves acknowledging that emotional reactivity is one's own responsibility and refraining from blaming the partner for one's pain. Personal responsibility allows individuals to be both connected and separate in the relationship, enhancing emotional closeness while maintaining individual integrity. Through this process, unresolved issues can be brought to the surface and worked through in an intimate relationship, leading to personal growth and transformation.

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