

One Thing with Dr Becky on the life changing power of repair
7 snips Oct 14, 2022
Join clinical psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy, a mother of three and founder of Good Inside, as she dives into the transformative power of repair in parenting. She shares how reconnecting after disconnection nurtures healthy relationships, emphasizing that apologies alone aren’t enough. Dr. Becky illustrates practical repair strategies, encouraging parents to first address their own feelings before engaging with their kids. With personal anecdotes, she highlights the highs and lows of motherhood, showcasing how repair leads to stronger family bonds.
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Prioritize Repair Over Perfection
- Get good at repair rather than chasing perfect parenting.
- Expect to mess up and focus on coming back together after disconnection.
Repair Rewrites Relationship Moments
- Repair changes the ending of a chapter in your relationship with your child.
- It adds connection, curiosity and reflection after a reactive moment.
Say Sorry, Then Own And Connect
- Repair requires more than saying "sorry" with a blame-filled but.
- Own your behavior, assure it's not the child's fault, name feelings and reassert connection.