Reimagining Love

Your Best Relationship Begins with You: Nine Truths About Love & Self-Acceptance with Jillian Turecki

Jan 21, 2025

Jillian Turecki, a certified relationship coach and author of 'It Begins With You,' shares her insights on fostering healthy relationships through self-acceptance. She emphasizes that the key to transforming romantic connections starts within. Jillian discusses navigating complex family dynamics, especially sibling relationships, and the importance of inner safety for emotional growth. She also explores the difference between feeling desired and valued in dating, promoting deeper connections rooted in mutual understanding. Tune in for her playful yet profound wisdom!

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Quick takeaways

Establishing a strong relationship with oneself is essential for creating emotional safety, which is key to healthier romantic relationships.

Navigating complex family dynamics often requires more nuanced solutions than simple estrangement, emphasizing personal growth over avoidance.

Deep dives

The Importance of Self-Connection

A fundamental idea discussed is that the key to healthy relationships lies in establishing a strong relationship with oneself. Jillian Turecki emphasizes the concept that being the common denominator in all relationships means taking accountability for one's emotional safety. This self-awareness enables individuals to create safety within themselves, which is essential for fostering healthy interactions with others. The podcast highlights how understanding one's triggers and building inner safety can significantly enhance romantic relationships.

Intro

2min

Navigating Complexity: Love in Sibling Relationships

6min

Inner Safety and Self-Love

7min

Finding Inner Safety and Confidence

23min

Desire vs. Value in Dating

5min

The Dance of Love: Embracing Playfulness and Growth in Relationships

4min

Today’s guest is Jillian Turecki, a certified relationship coach, teacher, author of the new book It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, and host of the podcast, Jillian On Love. You’ve likely seen her wise and straightforward videos that get right to the heart of our most pressing dating and relationship questions. She’s helped thousands through her teachings, courses, writing, and her popular social media accounts to revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they can transform their romantic relationships.

One of the central tenets of Jillian’s work is the idea that the common denominator in all your relationships is you. A lot of us know in our bones that creating safety inside ourselves is the key to healthy relationships with others—but we don’t always know how to do this or where to start. Jillian and Dr. Alexandra also discuss estrangement and navigating complex relationships with family members. Tune in to today’s episode to hear all of Jillian’s wisdom!

Relevant Links:

It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths about Love That Will Change Your Life by Jillian Turecki

Jillian’s Instagram & website

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