The Real Science Behind Positive Psychology in Coaching
Sep 15, 2023
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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Noelle Cordeaux (CEO of Lumia) discuss the power and misconceptions of positive psychology. They explore the importance of holding clients' feelings, finding bright spots, and practicing positive psychology. They also highlight the role of environment and relationships in cultivating resilience and enhancing positive aspects of life.
Positive psychology focuses on what is right with individuals and can help improve overall well-being.
Coaches should avoid toxic positivity and instead acknowledge and explore difficult emotions to guide clients towards finding the positive aspects in their lives.
Deep dives
The Power of Positive Psychology
Positive psychology is a complex science that focuses on what is right with individuals and helps them achieve flourishing. It is one of the cornerstones of coaching and uses positive emotions to improve overall well-being. While some may view positive psychology as fake or hokey, it has been found to have significant benefits, including enhancing coordination, communication skills, and cardiovascular functioning. By utilizing positive psychology interventions, coaches can help clients navigate their lives and achieve their goals.
Avoiding Toxic Positivity
Toxic positivity is a common mistake in utilizing positive psychology. It involves dismissing or minimizing a client's real problems or negative emotions by offering shallow cheerleading or overly simplistic solutions. Coaches need to be aware of the importance of holding space for clients to express their pain and negative emotions before moving towards positivity. By acknowledging and exploring difficult emotions and experiences, coaches can guide clients towards finding the bright spots in their lives and focusing on what is already positive.
Using Positive Psychology as a Tool
Positive psychology should be viewed as a tool coaches can use to supplement their clients' goals. It involves increasing the experience of positive emotions, identifying and developing strengths, nurturing positive relationships, and using techniques like gratitude and savoring to enhance overall well-being. Coaches should approach positive psychology interventions by offering them as optional tools and obtaining permission from clients before introducing them. Consistent practice of positive psychology can lead to long-term changes in brain chemistry and help clients shift their mindset from negative to positive.
Debunking myths around Positive Psychology! It's not just about chasing happiness; it's the roadmap for genuine human flourishing. Discover the transformative 'Broaden-And-Build' theory and why it's more than just feeling "happy." We'll tackle the pitfalls of 'Toxic Positivity' and explore how embracing the full spectrum of emotions can lead to a richer, more vibrant life.
John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Noelle Cordeaux (CEO of Lumia) are teaming up to tackle the big world of positive psychology, meaning, and life coaching.
Everything Life Coaching is brought to you by Lumia-- at Lumia, we train and certify impact-driven coaches, making sure they’ve got all they need to build a business they love and transform lives, on their terms.
Music in this episode is by Cody Martin, used under a creative commons license. The Everything Life Coaching Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.
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