The Stress Paradox: Why We Need Stress (and How to Make It Work for Us) with Dr. Sharon Horesh Bergquist | 294
Mar 26, 2025
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Dr. Sharon Horesh Bergquist, an award-winning physician and lifestyle medicine expert, challenges our perceptions of stress. She explains the difference between beneficial and chronic stress, emphasizing how the right kind can boost resilience and longevity. With insights from her book, she reveals five stressors that enhance well-being, advocating for a shift in mindset to embrace stress as a skill rather than an enemy. Practical strategies are discussed to harness stress effectively, turning it into a powerful ally for health.
Understanding the distinction between good stress and chronic stress is vital for building resilience and improving overall health.
Recovery practices following beneficial stressors are essential to maximize their positive effects and prevent burnout in daily life.
Deep dives
Redefining Woman's Work
The concept of woman's work is reframed to emphasize personal authenticity and well-being. Each individual gets to define their version of woman's work based on what feels right and energizing for them, rather than adhering to societal expectations. This perspective encourages a rejection of the traditional narrative that equates success with stress and burnout. Instead, the focus shifts towards embracing a balance that integrates personal fulfillment and health.
Understanding Good vs. Chronic Stress
A distinction is made between good stress, which can foster resilience, and chronic stress, which is often detrimental. Good stressors, such as brief, intense physical challenges or cognitive tasks, help build mental and physical resilience, while chronic stress stems from prolonged negative experiences like toxic relationships or demanding jobs. The notion that stress can be beneficial might contrast with common beliefs about stress being harmful. This reframing of stress allows individuals to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth rather than as burdens.
The Critical Role of Recovery
Recovery is identified as an essential partner to stress—without adequate recovery, the benefits of stress are lost, and it can lead to burnout. Engaging in good stress must be followed by intentional recovery practices that can vary based on the type of stress endured. Examples of recovery may include proper nutrition post-fasting, sufficient sleep after exercise, or simple approaches like deep breathing and meditation. Prioritizing recovery is crucial for reaping the benefits of stress, maintaining overall health, and avoiding chronic stress.
Choosing Beneficial Stressors
There are five key types of beneficial stressors identified: plant chemicals, high-intensity workouts, thermal stress (like hot or cold exposure), fasting, and purposeful emotional experiences. These stressors have been integral to human evolution and contribute to health improvements when integrated appropriately into daily life. Acknowledging the positive impact of these stressors helps in the selection of activities that promote personal and biological resilience. The knowledge emphasizes the importance of actively choosing stressors that align with one’s health goals while avoiding those that create harm.
Stress—it’s everywhere, unavoidable, and, if we’re being honest, usually the enemy. But what if we’ve been thinking about it all wrong? What if stress isn’t just something to manage but something we can leverage?
Today, we’re flipping the script on stress with Dr. Sharon Bergquist, an award-winning physician, researcher, and expert in lifestyle medicine, stress science, and longevity. She’s been featured on Good Morning America, CNN, NPR, and The Wall Street Journal, hosts The Whole Health Cure podcast, and has over 6 million views on her TED talk about stress and the body. In her new book, The Stress Paradox: How to Live Longer, Healthier, and Happier with Stress, she unpacks how the right kind of stress can actually make us stronger, healthier, and more resilient—if we learn how to use it correctly.
In This Episode, We Cover:
✅ The difference between good stress and chronic stress—and why we need the good kind ✅ How stress impacts brain health, aging, and longevity ✅ Five key stressors that shape our physical and mental well-being ✅ Practical strategies to harness stress so it strengthens you instead of exhausting you
Stress isn’t the villain—it’s a skill. When we stop fighting it and start using it, we sharpen our focus, build resilience, and improve our long-term health. Let’s make it work for us instead of against us.