Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm Collins

Apologizing Makes Women & Lefties Hate You: Why?

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Aug 18, 2025
Simone and Malcolm dive into the contentious world of public apologies and their repercussions. They discuss how different demographics react, revealing that women and liberals may be more critical. Examples include public figures facing backlash, highlighting the dynamics of in-group and out-group reactions. The conversation also examines the psychology behind social media criticism and the risks of insincerity in apologies. With personal anecdotes, they explore the impact of public personas on likability and the intersection of wealth and attraction in society.
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ANECDOTE

John Carmack & BasedCon Example

  • John Carmack publicly backed out of BasedCon and apologized for feeling uncomfortable after its controversies.
  • Malcolm and Simone used that example to introduce Hanania's research on apologies backfiring.
ADVICE

Apologize Only For Real Mistakes

  • Apologize when you've genuinely made a mistake and can fix it quickly to restore trust.
  • Avoid apologizing under pressure or to appease attackers who use apologies as a weapon.
INSIGHT

Apologies Can Increase Punishment

  • Public apologies can make figures appear weak and increase desire to punish them among some groups.
  • Richard Hanania's experiment found liberals and women punished apologizers more than those who stood firm.
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