Part 5 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection
Jul 21, 2021
30:21
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Brené Brown hosts Ashley and Barrett for a deep dive into the importance of rest, play, and calmness over productivity. They share personal struggles with self-worth, shame triggers, and family dynamics. The discussion highlights the need for intentional rest and collective joy for a fulfilling life.
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Quick takeaways
Cultivating quality rest and play is vital for well-being and requires introspection and conscious effort.
Developing calmness and releasing anxiety are achievable through consistent practices like daily walks and mindfulness, leading to a more fulfilling life.
Deep dives
Letting Go of Exhaustion and Productivity as Self-Worth
The podcast delves into the importance of moving away from viewing exhaustion as a status symbol and productivity as self-worth. The speakers share personal experiences of struggling with these notions and how they impact one's sense of self. They emphasize the significance of cultivating practices of rest, play, and self-care, highlighting the journey towards embracing balance and whole-hearted living.
Challenging Notions of Rest and Play
The episode explores the complexities of defining and practicing rest and play authentically. The speakers recount moments of mistaken rest for numbing activities and reflect on the difference between true rejuvenation and activities that drain energy. They discuss the fine line between seeking comfort and indulging in numbing behaviors, encouraging listeners to discern activities that genuinely replenish their well-being.
Navigating Family Dynamics and Finding Personal Fulfillment
The conversation extends to exploring family dynamics and the impact of upbringing on individual behaviors and beliefs. The podcast reveals the struggle of asking for one's needs and coping with deep-rooted feelings of not belonging. The speakers share personal challenges with setting boundaries, expressing needs, and navigating social expectations, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and authentic self-care.
In this second-to-last episode of the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection, I have a couple of in-real-time revelations: namely that I suck at cultivating quality rest and play (a.k.a. Guidepost #7). Thankfully, on the flip side, I’ve gotten pretty good over the years at cultivating calm and stillness (thank you, 5-mile-long daily walks) and letting go of anxiety as a lifestyle (Guidepost #8). We dig in and ask the existential question: What does your ideal restful vacation look like?