The Four Agreements is a self-help book that provides a practical guide to personal freedom based on ancient Toltec wisdom. The book introduces four simple yet powerful agreements: Be impeccable with your word, Don’t take anything personally, Don’t make assumptions, and Always do your best. These agreements are designed to help readers break free from self-limiting beliefs, avoid unnecessary suffering, and achieve a happier and more fulfilling life. The book has been widely acclaimed and has become a New York Times bestseller for over a decade, translated into 53 languages worldwide.
In 'Leaders Eat Last', Simon Sinek explores the principles of true leadership, emphasizing the importance of trust, safety, and the well-being of team members. The book delves into the biological and anthropological aspects of leadership, highlighting the role of neurochemicals such as serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins in shaping behavior. Sinek advocates for a 'Circle of Safety' where leaders prioritize the needs of their team members, ensuring they feel protected and valued. He contrasts short-term, self-serving leadership with long-term, people-centric leadership, using examples from various organizations to illustrate his points. The book stresses that leadership is a choice rather than a rank and that great leaders focus on the well-being of their people above all else[2][3][4].
In 'Lean In,' Sheryl Sandberg combines personal anecdotes, hard data, and compelling research to address the challenges women face in their careers. The book encourages women to 'sit at the table,' seek challenges, take risks, and pursue their goals with gusto. Sandberg provides practical advice on negotiation techniques, mentorship, and building a satisfying career, while also discussing the importance of work-life balance and equal partnership in household responsibilities. The book aims to change the conversation from what women can’t do to what they can, and it recognizes the structural and internal barriers that women face in achieving leadership roles[2][4][5].
Radical Candor by Kim Scott offers a practical approach to management by emphasizing the importance of caring personally and challenging directly. The book argues that effective managers must find a balance between being empathetic and providing clear, honest feedback. Scott draws from her experiences at Google and Apple to provide actionable lessons on building strong relationships, giving feedback, and creating a collaborative work environment. The book introduces the concept of 'radical candor' as the sweet spot between obnoxious aggression and ruinous empathy, and provides tools and strategies for managers to implement this approach in their daily work[1][2][5].
In 'The Untethered Soul', Michael A. Singer explores the nature of the self and how to achieve spiritual growth by recognizing and releasing the inner blockages that prevent us from experiencing true happiness. The book emphasizes the importance of accepting reality as it is, rather than trying to control or resist it. Singer provides practical advice on how to manage negative thoughts, cultivate a positive mindset, and live in harmony with the natural flow of life.
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Melissa Tan is an advisor, investor, and growth expert. She’s worked with fast-growing startups like Dropbox, Canva, Grammarly, and Miro, and for the past 2.5 years has been the Head of Growth at Webflow. There, she led the company's self-service business across Product, Marketing, and Growth, in addition to leading the charge on pricing and packaging. Prior to Webflow, she was Head of Growth for Dropbox’s B2B product, where she played a pivotal role in propelling their growth. In today’s episode, we discuss:
• Attributes of high-performing teams
• Tips for developing talent and seeking a mentor
• How to create a strong culture of ownership
• Frameworks for hiring PM and growth talent
• Common pitfalls companies face when implementing growth strategies
• Lessons from scaling Dropbox
• The DACI framework for increasing team velocity
• How to actually embrace first-principles thinking
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Find the full transcript at: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/building-high-performing-teams-melissa
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Where to find Melissa Tan:
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/melissamtan
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissamtan/
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In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Melissa’s background
(04:12) What’s next for Melissa
(06:45) Lessons learned from Dropbox
(11:49) When to add sales to product-led products and vice versa
(14:28) Managing people with a people-focused and results-oriented approach
(17:14) An example of people-focused leadership
(20:26) The importance of talent development and why Melissa invests in it
(22:26) Tips for finding a mentor
(24:58) Specific questions to ask when you are interviewing for a role
(27:49) Companies Melissa has worked with
(28:33) Attributes of high-performing teams
(31:38) Creating a sense of ownership among team members
(34:36) Building a team-first culture
(36:54) Avoiding burnout by knowing your limits
(39:24) Developing talent and unlocking potential within your organization
(42:45) Melissa’s hiring practices and what she looks for in a product manager
(44:40) The exact interview sequence Melissa utilizes
(49:58) Common pitfalls when creating growth teams
(53:43) “Flying formation” and the DACI framework
(56:48) Who should own revenue
(58:19) When to invest in growth
(1:01:06) What to look for in your first growth hire
(1:04:35) When it’s appropriate to hire an advisor
(1:06:19) First-principles thinking
(1:09:50) Lightning round
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Referenced:
• Jiaona Zhang on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jiaona/
• Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead: https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Women-Work-Will-Lead/dp/0385349947
• Tim Ferriss: How to Find a Great Mentor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVo1aZCyfO4
• Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Candor-Revised-Kick-Ass-Humanity/dp/1250235375/
• How to Monetize a Freemium Business: https://www.ycombinator.com/blog/how-to-monetize-a-freemium-business
• DACI framework: https://www.productplan.com/glossary/daci/
• Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't: https://www.amazon.com/Leaders-Eat-Last-Together-Others/dp/1591848016/r
• The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Untethered-Soul-Journey-Beyond-Yourself/dp/1572245379/
• The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319
• Winning Time: The Rise of the Lakers Dynasty on HBO: https://www.hbo.com/winning-time-the-rise-of-the-lakers-dynasty
• ChatGPT: https://chat.openai.com/
• Webflow: https://webflow.com/
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