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Reclaim Your Mind: How to Build a Healthier Relationship with Technology with Jay Vidyarthi

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Jan 6, 2026
Jay Vidyarthi, a designer and mindful tech advocate, shares insights on evolving our relationship with technology. He explores the duality of tech as neither inherently good nor bad, advocating for mindful engagement and setting personal boundaries. Jay introduces the 'two wolves' parable to illustrate attention management and discusses using meditation for clarity. He emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional needs behind tech use and offers practical family rituals for healthier digital habits, marrying intention with creativity in a tech-driven world.
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INSIGHT

Attention Feeds Inner Forces

  • Attention is the currency feeding our inner 'wolves' and determines which parts of us grow stronger.
  • Befriending shadow elements and directing attention skillfully lets their energy be harnessed rather than consumed.
INSIGHT

Clarity Reduces Suffering

  • Clarity—seeing emotions and motives clearly—often reduces suffering without solving external problems.
  • Focus on accurate perception before rushing to fix or escape discomfort.
ANECDOTE

Poem Turned Koan Led To Emptiness

  • Jay described writing a poem during a retreat that a teacher turned into a koan, triggering a brief nihilistic collapse.
  • From that emptiness he rebuilt a more precious, textured practice.
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