

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Eric Zimmer
Build resilience. Cultivate self-compassion. Live with purpose. The One You Feed brings conversations with leading thinkers — James Clear, Susan Cain, Tara Brach, and more — to help you navigate life’s challenges and feed your good wolf. No perfection, just direction, insight, and the small, consistent actions that make a meaningful life.
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Oct 20, 2026 • 1h 5min
What to Remember When You’re Forgetting: Living Well with Memory Loss | Dr. Zaldy Tan
Dr. Zaldy Tan, a neurologist and memory specialist, explores what it means to live meaningfully with memory loss and dementia. They discuss distinguishing normal forgetfulness from warning signs, Alzheimer’s biomarkers and genetic testing, midlife brain health, early planning after diagnosis, and compassionate ways to support loved ones. Caregiving, routines, delusions, and building sustainable support also take center stage.

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Oct 16, 2026 • 50min
Are You Playing a Game You Actually Want to Win? | Seth Godin
Seth Godin, bestselling author and influential marketing thinker, explores whether you’re pursuing a life you truly want. He discusses how everyday strategy, family and educational systems, misleading metrics, and community shape our choices. They also examine persistence, adapting after rejection, the difference between good decisions and good outcomes, and becoming someone your future self can respect.

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Oct 13, 2026 • 50min
The Mattering Effect: Finding Your Way Back to Meaning and Connection | John R. Miles
John Miles, author, speaker, and former technology executive, explores why success can leave us feeling unseen and disconnected. He discusses the slow fade into emotional absence, the layers of mattering, belonging and autonomy, and how everyday actions and meaningful relationships can restore connection. The conversation also examines reclaiming authorship of your life and protecting time for what truly matters.

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Oct 9, 2026 • 1h 6min
How to Stop Feeling Bad About Feeling Bad | Mariana Alessandri
Mariana Alessandri, a philosopher, professor, and author of Night Vision, explores why difficult emotions don’t mean you’re broken. She examines the shame created by positivity culture, how anger can reveal unmet needs, and the difference between feelings and actions. The conversation also looks at supporting people through grief without platitudes, cheerleading, or trying to fix them.

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Oct 6, 2026 • 1h 10min
The Quiet Age: How to Find Calm When Life Won’t Slow Down | Cory Allen
Cory Allen, a meditation teacher, writer, and author of The Quiet Age, explores staying calm amid relentless pressure. They discuss chronic tension, workplace stress, acceptance versus resignation, and making room for rest. The conversation also examines low moods, self-worth, emotional awareness, and how to relate to thoughts without treating every mental story as truth.

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Oct 2, 2026 • 1h 7min
Enough as You Are: How to Grow Without Shaming Yourself | Scott Stabile
Scott Stabile, author of Enough as You Are and Big Love, explores self-love without shame. He discusses recognizing everyday self-care, accepting yourself while still growing, and having your own back through failure and rejection. They also unpack emotional overwhelm, numbing, envy, difficult conversations, and how the past can inform the future without defining it.

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Sep 29, 2026 • 1h 1min
How the Words You Choose Shape the Life You Live | Mark Nepo
Mark Nepo, poet, teacher, and bestselling author of The Book of Awakening, explores how language shapes our experience of life. He discusses wholeheartedness, making room for difficult feelings, and finding meaning in ordinary moments. They also explore fear’s distorting lens, the difference between acceptance and action, and how relationships and rituals can restore presence when pain narrows our world.

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Sep 25, 2026 • 56min
How to Start a New Chapter When You Think It’s Too Late | Sari Botton
Sari Botton, a writer, editor, and founder of Oldster, reflects on beginning again when life takes an unexpected turn. She explores aging with both acceptance and defiance, navigating career setbacks, and balancing comfort with new experiences. They also discuss self-criticism, persistence through rejection, creative community, and finding your direction without having all the answers.

18 snips
Sep 22, 2026 • 54min
How to Find Joy Even When Life Is Hard | Diane Shiffer
Diane Shiffer, author of The Smallest of Joys and a creator of intimate, home-centered videos, explores finding beauty amid anxiety, grief, and uncertainty. She discusses tiny moments of joy, preserving meaningful memories, and letting pain and beauty coexist. They also explore her “sit and stare” practice, accepting a seven-out-of-ten life, and discovering what genuinely lifts you.

31 snips
Sep 18, 2026 • 49min
Why We Fight the Changes We Know We Need | Jonah Berger
Jonah Berger, Wharton marketing professor and author of The Catalyst, explores why we resist changes we know we need. They discuss social influence, the hidden costs of “good enough,” turning obligations into genuine wants, and why small steps can outperform dramatic transformations. Berger also examines how guided choice and awareness of our influences can make change more sustainable.


