Jillian on Love Why Good Men Still Cheat: Stefanos Sifandos
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Jul 21, 2025 Stefanos Sifandos, a relationship coach and former sex addict, shares his transformative journey of overcoming sex addiction. He discusses how trauma shapes compulsive behaviors and emphasizes the importance of inner work and relational honesty. The conversation dives into the complexities of self-worth, emotional duality in relationships, and the struggles of self-sabotage. Stefanos highlights how commitment can redefine personal freedom, while community support plays a crucial role in healing. Get ready for an insightful exploration of intimacy and self-discovery!
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Stefanos' Sex Addiction Journey
- Stefanos experienced sex addiction rooted in childhood trauma and late sexual development.
- His addiction manifested as compulsive pursuit of sexual novelty to mask deep emotional pain.
Validation through Sexual Conquests
- Stefanossaw validation through sexual conquests as proof of worth.
- This compensatory behavior attempted to heal childhood wounds related to self-esteem.
Cycle of Intimacy and Withdrawal
- Stefanos described an ongoing cycle of closeness followed by emotional withdrawal and cheating.
- His fear of intimacy triggered protective, destructive behaviors toward relationships.