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Great First Date That Actually Clicked
- Joe described a surprisingly good first date with a quirky woman who matched his personality.
- They connected over travel, Austin, and shared vulnerabilities which made the date feel effortless.
Early Interest Triggers Insecurity, Not Reason
- When someone shows strong early interest, insecure people often assume something is wrong.
- That projection stems from fear of vulnerability, not from rational assessment of the situation.
Go To Dates To Discover, Not To Perform
- Reframe dates as opportunities to discover what's fascinating about the other person.
- Enter expecting to have fun and draw out interesting details instead of rehearsing judgments.