Do You Want to Be a Turtle on a Shell?

"This is about emotion exactly this is about connecting with who the fuck you are and what your problem is those connected actions and emotions," he says. "If you just following it if you could just follow a checklist and it worked then why aren't you following the pickup artist advice because that's just a fucking checklist of actions totally divorced from any emotion or understanding of self?" He adds: "I don't want to live life that I don't want To be an introvert well then."