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Mentioned in 21 episodes
Boundaries
When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
Book • 2017
In this book, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide biblically-based answers to help readers set healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves.
The authors discuss how to establish clear personal property lines, manage digital life, and address common questions about setting boundaries.
The book aims to help readers achieve a balanced lifestyle by understanding and implementing healthy boundaries in all areas of life.
The authors discuss how to establish clear personal property lines, manage digital life, and address common questions about setting boundaries.
The book aims to help readers achieve a balanced lifestyle by understanding and implementing healthy boundaries in all areas of life.
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Mentioned in 21 episodes
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as a book that explains boundaries as a defensive tool, not an offensive weapon.

Mike Schmitz

132 snips
211: The Focus MOB
Recommended by 

as a resource on setting healthy personal limits.


Gerry Crete

53 snips
Is "Therapy Culture" Toxic? (Dr. Gerry Crete) | Ep. 541
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as a book he has in mind but hasn't read, related to boundaries.

Matt Fradd

40 snips
The Church Today, The 7 Deadly Sins, & Healing Spiritual Wounds (Fr. Boniface Hicks) | Ep. 497
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as sharing insights on the victim, persecutor, rescuer triangle.


Erwin Raphael McManus

27 snips
#086 Never The Victim: Crafting Internal Narratives
Recommended by 

to help listeners with setting boundaries with people in their lives.


Tan Pham

25 snips
Who’s In Your Five? (And Why It Matters) (TPS578)
Recommended by 

as a helpful resource for understanding and setting personal boundaries.


Fr. Mike Schmitz

22 snips
5/11/25 Move On: Boundaries
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as one of 

's 46 books.


Carey Nieuwhof


Henry Cloud

22 snips
CNLP 688 | Henry Cloud Unpacks His Traumatic Past, Offers Advice on Combatting Depression and Panic Attacks, And Outlines The Problems with The Dominant Models of Psychology In the Church
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, crediting Henry Cloud as the author of Boundaries and the source of the rescuer, persecutor and victim triangle.

Erwin Raphael McManus

22 snips
#087 Aligning With God: Intimacy, Generosity, Humanity
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while advising Devin on his marital issues, highlighting Cloud's expertise in psychology and relationships.


John Delony

14 snips
I Fell for a Guy at Work . . . But He’s Married
Recommended by 

to help Pamela understand boundaries in relationships with family.


Dave Ramsey

13 snips
Protect Your Wallet From Other People’s Chaos
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, referring to Cloud and Townsend's book as his wife enjoyed it years ago while discussing personal boundaries.

Geoff Holsclaw

13 snips
Attachment Theory, God’s Presence, & The Image of God: How God Heals Us (Geoff Holsclaw) Ep. #220
Referenced by 

as a book that contains a story about setting healthy boundaries.


John Delony

11 snips
Should We Stop Coddling Our 33-Year-Old Son?
Recommended by 

as a helpful resource for Gary to understand and establish boundaries in his relationship with his stepdad's son.


Ken Coleman

You Don’t Have to Stay Broke
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as a fantastic resource in relational health, co-authored with Henry Cloud.


Steve Cuss

Spiritual Growth and Emotional Resilience with Carla Harding, Brian Heasley & Alicia Britt Chole
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to help manage the challenges of being a Scrum Master in complex environments.

Deniz Ari

Security Team Breakdown—The Devastating Impact of Poor Product Ownership | Deniz Ari
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as a classic work on boundaries, which he has been personally critical of.

Dale Johnson

TIL 510: Boundaries in Counseling (feat. Jim Newheiser)
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as a book on setting boundaries in relationships.


Preston Sprinkle

The Theology of Paul and His Affections for Christ: Dr. Nijay Gupta
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in relation to boundary issues and guilt.


Amanda Lauder

Episode 243 - Masturbation Within Marriage
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as a helpful resource for learning about boundaries.

Rhoda Sommer
Codependency: Losing Track of You in Relationships & How to find yourself again
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to a caller struggling with family interference in her marriage.


Dave Ramsey

Big Debt Requires Bigger Discipline




