Shantal Jovia
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219. How to Make a Friend & Find a Date with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things

Finding Love by Focusing on How Someone Makes You Feel

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When looking for love, the speaker initially chased after a guy who was not a good fit for her. She realized that she was too focused on getting him to want her, even though he was not very nice. Seeking help from a dating coach, she identified what she truly wanted in a partner and how she wanted to feel. Comparing her feelings with the guy from Burning Man and a guy from work, she realized that the guy from work had all the qualities she desired. She took the initiative to let him know she was interested, and they eventually developed a relationship that has lasted for eight years. The speaker highlights the importance of focusing on how someone makes you feel rather than adhering to preconceived notions or societal expectations. Despite initially swiping left on her now-husband on Tinder, he turned out to be the person who made her feel happier than anyone else she had been with.

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