Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication

How does attraction change throughout a relationship?Have you ever experienced a loss of attraction towards your partner?How important is communication about attraction in a relationship?In this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah dive into the topic of attraction in long-term relationships and how it evolves and fluctuates over time. Drawing from their own personal experiences, they share a vulnerable moment from their own relationship that sparked a deep conversation about attraction. They discuss the importance of open communication and empathy when facing moments where one partner may feel less attracted to the other. They also explore how different priorities and values within a couple can impact attraction and offer guidance on navigating these challenges. Tune in to gain valuable insights on the ups and downs of attraction in long-term relationships.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How can military spouses cope with feelings of loneliness and isolation during their partner's deployment?What are some common challenges faced by military couples during and after deployments, and how can they navigate them effectively?Why is it important for military families to seek therapy and support, and what resources are available?In this thought-provoking episode of "Relationship Renovation," hosts EJ and Tarah delve into the challenges faced by military spouses with the help of guest Elaine Maher, a licensed clinical social worker and former army civilian. From the loneliness and isolation experienced during deployment to the difficulties of reintegrating post-deployment, Elaine sheds light on the silent battles endured by military spouses. The conversation explores the impact of multiple deployments, inadequate clinician preparation, and the importance of seeking therapy and support. Tune in as they unmask the unspoken struggles faced by military couples and provide valuable insights on navigating relationships in this unique context.Relationship Renovation DiscordTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt ambivalent about staying in it? How did you navigate those feelings?How do you think attachment styles and personal history influence our relationships and decision-making processes?In this thought-provoking episode, Tarah and EJ are joined by special guest Teresa Jansen LAC, as they delve into the complex topic of ambivalence in relationships. They explore the challenges faced by individuals who choose to remain in a relationship despite their partner's uncertainty, and how attachment and personal history play a role in shaping these dynamics. With their trademark empathy and expertise, Tarah and EJ discuss the importance of self-awareness, effective communication, and meeting individual needs to foster a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Tune in as they offer insights and practical advice on navigating ambivalence and creating the love and connection we all desire.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Join Tarah and EJ as they embark on a captivating exploration into the boundless power of narratives and their profound influence on our relationships. Uncover the illuminating insights that lie within the realm of narrative as our hosts unveil the secrets to dismantling troublesome narratives that often fuel negativity while unveiling the art of cultivating uplifting ones.Through heartfelt discussions and a shared commitment to growth, EJ and Tarah guide us toward a refreshing perspective. They reveal how deliberately reshaping our narratives can liberate us from the clutches of pessimism, fostering a radiant environment for positive thoughts and emotions to flourish.Get ready to ignite a new chapter in your journey as you tune in to this enriching conversation. Let EJ and Tarah embolden you to embrace your strengths and kindle the flame of healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode promises to be an invigorating voyage of self-discovery and love - don't miss out! Your transformation awaits.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Are you tired of tip-toeing around difficult conversations with your partner?Is the fear of potential conflicts keeping you from addressing sensitive topics?Welcome to a transformative episode of Relationship Renovation, where we unlock the secrets to enhancing your bond through open communication.Join us as we embark on an eye-opening journey into the heart of successful relationships. EJ and Tarah share their personal experiences of avoiding vital issues in their own relationship. Together, we'll explore how understanding each other's perspectives is the key to unlocking new levels of intimacy and connection.Discover the surprising impact of habituation and how assuming we know everything about our partner can hinder growth and exploration within the relationship. Uncover the truth about suppressing issues and learn why confronting them head-on is the gateway to growth and harmony.Get ready to embrace conflicts as opportunities for personal development, where we'll show you how these challenges can actually strengthen the foundation of your love. We'll unveil the power of forging agreements that foster unity and ignite the flames of passion.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How have your perspectives on asking for emotional support and expressing your needs changed over the years?How do you navigate conflicts in your relationship? Are you able to express your feelings and needs openly?How do you approach conversations about sex drive differences in your relationship? Are you able to have open and honest discussions about your needs and desires?In this episode, EJ and Tarah dive deep into the power of open communication, focusing on shifting perspectives and understanding expectations within relationships. Get ready to be inspired and learn how expressing your needs can strengthen your connection with your partner. Discover how to navigate differences in sex drive, overcome shame, and embark on a journey of self-discovery together. This episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies to create emotional safety, address difficult topics, and rekindle the romance in your relationship. Looking to renovate your relationship? Look no further! Check out Relationship Renovation at Home, a comprehensive program designed to help couples navigate important conversations and transform their relationship. With exercises, videos, lessons, and prompts, this program offers practical tools and insights to create lasting change. Begin your own transformational journey by visiting relationshiprenovation.com and exploring the online programs tab, where you'll find a free sample to get started. Join EJ and Tarah as they unpack the dynamics of relationships, from understanding your past to shaping your future. Discover the power of communication, emotional safety, and embracing differences to build a stronger, more fulfilling partnership. Don't miss out on this eye-opening episode of Relationship Renovation!To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this enlightening episode of "Relationship Renovation," join hosts Tarah and E.J. Kerwin as they explore the profound impact of time and intentionality on relationships. From navigating expectations to healing after infidelity, the hosts provide thought-provoking answers to four crucial relationship questions:Can time truly heal all relationship wounds, even in cases of infidelity?Is it possible to solve all problems with the right amount of time and intentionality?Should we expect our partners to instinctively know our needs without communicating them?How does attachment theory influence our relationship expectations?The hosts stress the significance of active communication, seeking help during difficult times, and harnessing the power of time and intention to address both big challenges and minor issues. Don't miss their introduction of the "Relationship Renovation at Home" course, designed to foster meaningful conversations and enhance relationships.Gain valuable insights into fostering healthier connections, discussing crucial topics, and finding resolutions. Uncover the impact of unmet childhood needs and learn effective ways to express your needs clearly. This engaging and informative episode promises to deepen your understanding of communication's potency and the significance of investing in your relationships. Tune in now!To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Welcome to Relationship Renovation, the podcast that takes you on a transformative journey. In this exciting episode, our hosts EJ and Tarah introduce you to the powerful concept of Relationship Renovation and the vital role of establishing a new narrative. Our groundbreaking program aims for long-lasting changes in relationships, going beyond quick fixes. Join us as we uncover the boundless possibilities that emerge when dedication and time are invested. Get ready to be inspired!In this captivating installment, we are privileged to feature a remarkable couple, Lew and Ginny, who graciously open up about their counseling experience at our renowned center. They bravely delve into their own emotional tendencies and reveal the profound connection that emerges when both partners embrace their struggles. Their authentic journey serves as a testament to the potential for breakthroughs, even in the darkest moments. Surprisingly, within just six months, Lew and Ginny have experienced a remarkable transformation in their connection and personal growth. Tune in as they recount their pivotal moment in therapy, offering invaluable insights into the inner workings of the brain and the crucial need to break free from repetitive patterns. They also highlight the significance of distinguishing between issues that require fixing and normal conversations, providing practical advice that listeners can implement in their own relationships. Don't miss this enlightening episode packed with wisdom and actionable tips for relationship success.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How can I effectively support my partner who is experiencing depression during life transitions?What are some practical strategies for offering language and check-ins to provide support?How can I differentiate between my partner and their depression, and why is this important?Join hosts EJ and Tarah on an insightful episode of Relationship Renovation as they tackle the topic of supporting a depressed partner. They stress the importance of awareness during life transitions, offering language and check-ins as a means of support. They share their personal experience with depression, discussing challenges at work, the need for a support system within relationships, and the significance of seeking individual support. Throughout the episode, they address the impact of shame on mental health, encourage partners to differentiate between the person and the depression, and emphasize the importance of patience, love, and care. Discover valuable insights on navigating the complexities of maintaining a healthy relationship during challenging times.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How can recognizing dysfunctional patterns in a relationship lead to positive change?What are some common communication barriers that hinder open and productive conversations between partners?How can experiencing serious health issues impact a relationship and the way couples support each other?What strategies can couples employ to navigate challenging circumstances and come out stronger on the other side?In this episode of Relationship Renovation, we explore the transformative journey of Erin and Michael, a couple at a pivotal point in their relationship. Erin, a therapist and mother, and Michael, a father, share their relatable experiences, offering valuable insights to our audience. They reflect on dysfunctional patterns that affected their relationship and explore the benefits and the power of awareness for positive change. Amidst Erin and Michael’s successive cancer diagnosis’s, the couple faced the challenges of blending a family. Despite their sickness, they bravely shouldered the responsibility of caring for their homeschooling children during the pandemic, inadvertently causing strain between her and Michael. They learned how to confront avoidance of difficult conversations, fear of constructive criticism, and challenges with an ex-spouse. Realizing the importance of open communication, Erin and Michael confronted their avoidance and fear, paving the way for a healthier future together. Throughout their narratives, their relatability shines, amplified by the complexities of their blended family dynamic. Erin and Michael's vulnerability and determination inspires us, proving that even imperfect beginnings can lead to a more fulfilling relationship. By unraveling their past issues and embracing the lessons learned, they forged a smoother, stronger path forward.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands