Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication

What is internal dialogue, and how does it impact our relationships?How does negative internal dialogue affect emotional safety and connection with our partner?How can we become aware of and address negative self-launching thoughts to improve our relationship?In this compelling episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, E.J. and Tarah Kerwin delve into the fascinating topic of internal dialogue and its profound impact on our relationships. They explore how our self-launching thoughts often pull us away from our partners, leading to feelings of disconnection, confusion, and perceived threats. By sharing personal experiences and insights, E.J. and Tara reveal how negative internal dialogue can erode emotional safety and hinder intimacy in a relationship, offering valuable guidance on identifying and addressing these destructive thought patterns. Tune in to discover how our automatic thoughts and narratives influence our interactions with partners and learn practical steps to become more aware of our internal dialogue. E.J. and Tarah's candid discussion highlights the power of communication and self-reflection in navigating challenging moments with our partners, ultimately fostering growth, understanding, and deeper emotional connections. Don't miss this episode as it offers invaluable insights and tools to help you transform your relationship and cultivate a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Are you wondering how to create emotional safety within your relationship? Are you looking for strategies to cultivate a sense of security and acceptance with your partner? Do you want to understand why emotional safety is vital for a healthy and thriving relationship? In this episode of "Relationship Renovation," hosts EJ and Tarah dive deep into the crucial topic of emotional safety in relationships. They explore its definition, the impact of its absence, and the path to building trust and connection. Tune in to this insightful episode where EJ and Tarah provide expert advice, practical tips, and thought-provoking discussions to help couples enhance their emotional safety and strengthen their bond.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this episode, EJ and Tarah answer three key questions about the impact of having children on a relationship:1. How does becoming parents affect the dynamics of a relationship?2. What are some common challenges couples face when they have children?3. How can couples stay connected and prioritize their relationship while raising a family?In this episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts EJ and Tarah delve into the topic of how having children can impact your relationship. They discuss the common challenges that arise when couples become parents and share their own experiences as a blended family with four children, including twins. Through their unique perspective as relationship experts, they provide valuable insights and strategies for staying connected, maintaining intimacy, and making your relationship a priority, even amidst the chaos of parenting. If you’re a couple navigating the ups and downs of parenthood, this episode is a must-listen.Tune in to gain expert advice and practical tips on navigating the transformative journey of parenthood while keeping your relationship strong and thriving. Don't miss out on the valuable insights that will help you and your partner stay connected, loving, and intimate with one another.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Have you or someone you know experienced hormone fluctuations that affected their relationships? How did you navigate through that time?How can partners stay connected and support each other during periods of emotional upheaval caused by hormonal changes?In this thought-provoking episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts EJ and Tarah delve into the challenging topic of hormones and a woman's menstrual cycle and its impact on relationships. Join them as they share personal experiences, offer psychoeducation, and provide valuable tools for couples to navigate hormonal changes. From fertility treatments to perimenopause and menstrual cycles, they explore the emotional toll hormone fluctuations can take, and how it can disrupt even the strongest of relationships. Discover how to maintain emotional safety, improve communication, and reduce reactivity during these tumultuous times. Don't miss this insightful episode that will not only help you understand the dynamics of suffering in relationships but also provide practical guidance for maintaining a strong, loving connection.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How does the past affect our ability to commit in relationships?Is it common for couples to have different beliefs about marriage and commitment?How do childhood experiences impact our attachment styles in relationships?What factors contribute to one's readiness for marriage and long-term commitment?On this episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah dive into a listener's email about the struggle to commit deeper in a relationship. They explore the idea of knowing if someone is "the one" and discuss the different perspectives and expectations around marriage. EJ and Tarah share their insights on the impact of childhood experiences and how they can shape our attachment styles in relationships. They also reflect on their own early relationship dynamics and the challenges they faced. Tune in to gain valuable advice on navigating commitment and understanding the complexities of partnership.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - LoveSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Are you struggling with dating in the modern world?Do you feel overwhelmed by the endless options on dating apps?Are you looking to reignite the spark in your current relationship?If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you don't want to miss this episode of Relationship Renovation. In Episode 141, our hosts EJ and Tarah sit down with guest Celeste Moore, a renowned personal image and dating consultant, to explore the challenges of dating, finding authentic connections, and reviving stagnant relationships.Join them as they delve into the secrets of successful dating, from asking open-ended questions to going on activity-based dates that foster connection and ease of conversation. Celeste shares expert advice on boosting confidence through personal image and body language, as well as the importance of authenticity in dating. Whether you're single and navigating the dating world or in a relationship seeking to reignite the passion, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips to take your love life to the next level. Tune in now and get ready for a relationship renovation like no other!Celeste Moore Consulting.The Down and Dirty PodcastTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What role does trust play in having open and honest conversations with your partner?How can individuals improve their ability to express their needs and emotions to their partner?In what ways can couples support each other during difficult times, even when they don't have control over the situation?In this highly anticipated follow-up episode, EJ and Tarah dive deeper into the art of communication within relationships. Drawing from their own experiences, they explore the importance of being open, honest, and assertive when it comes to expressing needs and navigating challenges as a couple. From discussing difficult topics to checking in with one another, they share personal anecdotes that highlight the significance of effective communication in creating stronger, more resilient connections. Join them as they provide valuable insights, practical advice, and relatable stories that will help listeners on their journey to renovating their own relationships.Please note that this episode is part two of a series on communication within relationships. If you haven't listened to episode 138, "Taking a Close Look: Boundaries as the Foundation of a Healthy, Intimate Relationship Pt. 1", we highly recommend checking it out as a valuable precursor to this insightful discussion. So grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and get ready for another episode packed with illuminating conversations, relatable experiences, and actionable takeaways on Relationship Renovation!Relationship Renovation DiscordTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Are you tired of constantly facing conflict in your relationships?Do you struggle to communicate your needs without resorting to criticism or complaints?In this empowering episode, our dynamic hosts EJ and Tarah, alongside the incredible Dr. Jessica Higgins, embark on a transformative journey through the labyrinth of criticism in relationships. Get ready to unlock the secrets to fostering deep understanding, forging unbreakable connections, and nurturing unwavering support!Discover the WHY behind the often pesky presence of criticism in your most cherished relationships. Explore how criticism can sometimes become a stubborn roadblock on the path to secure, loving connections with your partner. Dr. Jessica Higgins, a true luminary in psychology, will draw you into her own personal odyssey, sharing her profound experiences of conquering criticism and wielding it as a mighty tool for effective communication.Through riveting stories and heartfelt anecdotes, she'll guide you through the powerful process of self-inquiry and self-reflection. You'll uncover the hidden emotions lurking beneath the surface, steering criticism's course. And what's more? Dr. Jessica will empower you with the wisdom to provide feedback that nourishes growth and enhances understanding.Learn more about Dr. Jessica HigginsLink to the Shifting Criticism guide: https://drjessicahiggins.lpages.co/shifting-criticism-for-connected-communication/Empowered Relationship Podcast link: https://drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/Website link: https://drjessicahiggins.com/To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Have you ever thought about the importance of boundaries in your relationship?How do you typically approach difficult conversations with your partner?Do you feel comfortable expressing your boundaries to your partner?On this episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah delve into the important topic of boundaries. Drawing from their Relationship Renovation at Home program and workbook, they guide listeners through a series of thought-provoking questions to help them better understand and communicate their boundaries with their partners. Tune in as EJ and Tarah share their own experiences and provide valuable insights on the significance of boundaries in maintaining healthy and intimate relationships. Don't miss out on this episode filled with practical exercises that you can implement in your own relationship right away. Get ready for a deep dive into the world of boundaries on Relationship Renovation!To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Have you ever experienced a moment of disconnection after a period of being closely connected with your partner? How did you handle it?What are some strategies for cultivating patience in difficult moments within a relationship?How can resourcing, such as visualization or other techniques, help regulate emotional reactions during challenging times?Join us as we embark on an exhilarating journey into the heart of relationships with EJ and Tarah! 💑 They're about to reveal the ultimate secrets to fortifying your love, especially when life throws curveballs your way.💫 Imagine going from the sun-soaked, carefree days of summer to the grind of everyday life. 🌞✈️ EJ and Tarah spill the beans on the rollercoaster ride of post-vacation blues and how it affects your bond with your partner. 🌅🏖️But don't fret! 💪 They're not just diving into the challenges; they're arming you with game-changing techniques to supercharge your relationship. Learn about the incredible power of "resourcing" and gain a treasure chest of practical tools to nurture patience and trust in your love story. 🛠️💖This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom you won't want to miss. Tune in now and ignite the spark that keeps your relationship sizzling through life's ups and downs! 🔥📻💑To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands