The New Rules Podcast

This week, we're bringing you a special Holiday Q&A Episode, featuring real questions from our listeners about navigating family, old patterns, and emotional pressure during the holidays. This is an episode that helps you lead yourself well and navigate the old patterns and challenging environments that the holidays often resurface. Listen for language, tools, and perspective to stay grounded, lead yourself well, and show up as the healthiest version of you. For your own growth or to be someone that encourages the people around you. We cover: How to stay grounded when you feel reactive or disconnected. Whether irritation means you haven't forgiven someone. How to set boundaries without creating unnecessary conflict. How to be around family members who are estranged from one another. What to do when you've outgrown old friendships back home. How to measure your resilience and self-awareness in real time. How to show up authentically without expecting others to change. How to care for yourself before and after the holiday environment. This episode is honest, practical, and full of wisdom for anyone walking into environments that pull on their history or test their growth. 📲 Connect with Us: We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri dive into one of the most overlooked forces shaping our lives: belief. Not blind optimism. Not hype. But the deep, internal conviction that fuels calling, direction, resilience, and identity. Starting with Winston Churchill's outrageous belief at 19 that he would one day save England, the conversation unpacks how belief forms, why it wavers, and how you can build it in your own life. Adrian opens up about his lifelong struggle with self-belief, how ADHD shaped his confidence, and the role others played in helping him see what he couldn't see in himself. They explore: Why belief often looks irrational from the outside. The tension between bold belief and foolishness. How belief anchors identity, especially in seasons of doubt. Why those with strong belief often experience deep lows. How belief in others (kids, spouse, team) shapes their future. Why calling needs both conviction and evidence. The role of time in confirming or correcting your belief. How to choose belief when the evidence isn't there yet. This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply human—helping you understand how belief works and what it will take to become who you're designed to be. 📲 Connect with Us: More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri unpack the truth behind one of the most overused ideas in culture: being "one of one." Everyone says they want to be different, but few are willing to fight the internal war it takes to truly become who they were designed to be. This conversation explores the cost of authenticity, the battle between your past and your future, and what it really means to live as a whole person, not a performance. They discuss: Why most people are chasing uniqueness for the wrong reasons. The real difference between being different and being whole. The war between your past and your future and how to win it. How pain, purpose, and calling are connected. Why becoming 1 of 1 isn't about fame, but transformation. This is a raw and hopeful episode about the fight to be real in a culture of copies. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

Mark Sayers, pastor of Red Church in Melbourne and author known for his insights on faith and culture, delves into the complexities of leadership in today's uncertain world. He discusses the spiritual hunger sparked by global chaos and how this drives people towards community and faith. Sayers also examines the impact of AI on leadership, emphasizing the need for integrity and authenticity. Highlighting rising tribalism and nostalgia, he advocates for local connections and honest dialogue as vital responses to cultural challenges.

MAJOR MILESTONE: 100 EPISODES Today, Bri and Adrian reflect on how the show started, the doubts they had, the lessons learned along the way, and the growth they've seen in themselves and their audience. From filming on Clorox boxes to building a set, from almost quitting to finding their rhythm, this episode is about perseverance, purpose, and the power of just taking the first step. We're talking: The fears and insecurities that almost stopped the podcast early on. How commitment for one year changed everything. The evolution of authenticity and communication. What it means to take risks and be "seen trying." The role of mentorship, feedback, and intergenerational trust. How seasons of uncertainty can still lead to clarity and conviction. Why building something that lasts matters more than going viral. This episode is a thank you to every listener, every share, every message, and every person who's believed in this journey. Here's to the next hundred. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri sit down with innovator, creator, and futurist, Vince Hunt, to talk about AI and the future of leadership. Instead of reacting to technology with fear, this conversation explores how we can lead with curiosity, responsibility, and courage in an era defined by rapid innovation. They unpack: The tension between fear and curiosity in how we approach AI. What AI reveals about human creativity, control, and insecurity. How faith and ethics can guide innovation. Why authentic leaders must embrace, not avoid, technological change. How to stay human while leveraging the power of machines. This is a forward-looking and deeply human conversation about progress, purpose, and the kind of leadership the future demands. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri dig into one of the most powerful but misunderstood concepts in our culture: authenticity. We hear the word everywhere—but what does it actually mean to live authentically? And why is it so difficult in a world obsessed with image, branding, and performance? Adrian and Bri unpack: The true definition of authenticity (beyond "just being yourself") The hidden costs of living authentically—and the freedom it brings Why vulnerability is essential to authenticity How leaders can model authenticity without oversharing Guardrails that keep authenticity from becoming performance Why authenticity is the key to trust, connection, and real growth This episode is a challenge to stop performing, let go of the need for approval, and step into the wholeness of living authentically. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Bri and Adrian dive into the aftermath of the assassination of Charlie Kirk and wrestle with one of America's most charged conversations: freedom. Is our idea of "freedom" really making society better or is it fueling violence, division, and selfishness? From political hypocrisy to the misuse of Christianity in culture wars, Bri and Adrian ask the tough questions about faith, politics, and power in today's America. They explore: Why America's definition of freedom is unraveling. The political and faith-based reactions to Charlie Kirk's death. The parallels between today's unrest and historical violence. The dangers of weaponizing Christianity in politics. How leaders can choose resilience, responsibility, and restraint in moments of chaos. This is a raw, challenging, and necessary conversation for anyone navigating leadership, faith, or cultural tension in America today. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this raw episode, Bri and Adrian take an honest look at what the last few months have been like. From internal battles with fear and shame to external pressures of leadership, parenting, and running a growing company, they open up about the weight they've been carrying. This conversation covers the reality of mental health, the cycles of fear that resurface even with growth, and the paradox of showing up for others while struggling internally. It's an inside look at the cost of leadership, partnership, and authenticity when life feels overwhelming. If you've ever faced seasons where fear, pressure, or self-doubt made you question everything, you're not alone. This episode is a reminder that resilience is forged in the fire, and authenticity often looks like admitting when life feels too heavy. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

This week on the New Rules Podcast, we flipped the script. Our incredible producer Lauren stepped in front of the mic with full permission to ask Adrian anything with no prep, no rules, no limits. From the lighthearted "What five items would resurrect your ghost?" to the deeply personal balancing calling, insecurity, and vanity, this conversation goes everywhere: marriage, parenting, community, leadership, childhood memories, and even Lauren's obsession with fire. It's unscripted, unfiltered, and unexpectedly vulnerable. If you've ever wondered what Adrian really thinks when he's off the cuff, this is the episode for you. In this episode: Marriage lessons + parenting reflections What he's learned from watching his kids grow up Childhood imagination, courage, and calling Why self-doubt and waiting felt like torture AI, authenticity, and the future of leadership Community as joy and inconvenience Why you can't force someone's growth 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules