Explore why toddlers have selective hearing due to seeking autonomy, tips for improving toddler listening skills, effective communication strategies, and the importance of consistent routines for toddlers' development.

Struggling with bedtime battles? Discover an incredible bedtime hack that transforms chaos into connection, making bedtime one of the best parts of your day.Episode Number: #28Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the challenges of bedtime routines and reveals a transformative hack to turn bedtime battles into moments of deep connection with your child. He discusses the reasons behind kids' resistance to bedtime and shares a practical, brain-based technique that not only helps kids fall asleep faster but also strengthens the parent-child bond.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction And Importance Of Bedtime 02:04 - Personal Anecdotes About Bedtime Chaos And Routines 04:56 - Common Bedtime Resistance Issues And Practical Solutions 06:31 - The Bedtime Story Hack Explained 18:21 - Practical Steps For Implementing The Bedtime Story Hack 26:12 - The Importance Of Sleep For Children's Development 35:28 - Closing Remarks And Call To ActionKey Takeaways:The Bedtime Story Hack:Tell your child the story of their day in a calm, soothing voice to help them transition to sleep.Engage their memory and language centers to regulate their emotional state.Consistently use this technique to turn bedtime into a positive, connecting experience.Why Kids Resist Bedtime:Novelty and learning: Kids resist sleep because they are constantly learning and don't want to stop.Routine and regulation: Maintaining a consistent bedtime routine helps prevent resistance.Hormonal factors: Avoiding overtiredness and managing cortisol levels is key.Benefits of Sleep:Essential for physical, mental, and emotional development.Improves memory, emotional regulation, and overall health.Creates opportunities for deep attachment and bonding with your child.Links to Resources Mentioned:The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine AronKinetic SandWhat episode should you listen to next?Effective Discipline Without PunishmentUnderstanding Your Child's BrainHow to Connect:Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERESubscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who struggle with bedtime routines.Episode Transcript: The full transcript of this episode is available here.Connect with Whole Parent:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comSocial Media Links:Instagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentSend us a text

Episode Number: #27Description: In this guest episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon welcomes KJ from Big Life Journal. They discuss the transformative power of reparenting, the difference between gentle and conscious parenting, and the resources available to support parents on their journey. KJ shares her personal experiences transitioning from authoritarian parenting to gentle parenting, offers her top reparenting tip, and explores how journaling can help parents and children develop resilience and growth mindsets.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction to KJ and Audio Disclaimer 02:34 - Conversation with KJ begins03:12 - KJ's background and journey in reparenting04:21 - Difference between gentle parenting and permissive parenting06:15 - Importance of questioning authority and fostering safe challenges09:09 - Explaining the difference between gentle and conscious parenting14:48 - The necessity of effective and conscious parenting today16:21 - The role of journaling in reparenting and parenting19:26 - Discussion on the downloadables and free resources from Big Life Journal23:33 - KJ's number one reparenting tip: Recognizing what’s happening in your body30:22 - Conclusion and final thoughts on reparenting and gentle parentingKey Takeaways:Reparenting: A crucial step in becoming a better parent by understanding and addressing one’s own triggers and reactions.Gentle vs. Conscious Parenting: Gentle parenting is what children experience, while conscious parenting involves the internal work parents do to improve their interactions with their children.Journaling: An effective tool for parents and children to develop resilience, growth mindsets, and critical thinking skills.Big Life Journal Resources: Offers journals and free printables to help children and parents on their growth journey.Resources Mentioned:Big Life Journal: WebsiteKJ’s Instagrams: @gentlehealingmom and @biglifejournalFree Printables and Sign up for the Big Life Journal NewsletterWhat to listen to next?How to Stop Yelling at your Kids #001 Calls to Action:Subscribe: Subscribe to the Whole Parent Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review to help other parents find the podcast and benefit from the content.Share: Share this episode with fellow parents who might benefit from learning about reparenting and gentle parenting.Email List: Join the email list to receive updates on new episodes and resources.Contact Information:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comInstagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentThank you for tuning in to this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast. We hope you found it insightful and helpful in your parenting journey. See you in the next episode!Send us a text

Episode Number: #26Take the quiz to find our if your kid is Highly SensitiveDescription: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the concept of collaborative consequences, explaining why this method is a powerful tool for effective parenting, especially for highly sensitive children. As a strong advocate for the abolition of punishment in parenting, discusses how to differentiate between punishment and consequences and introduces the idea of working with children to set boundaries collaboratively. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Jon illustrates how this approach fosters a child's growth, understanding, and self-discipline.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction to the Whole Parent Podcast and the highly sensitive kid quiz02:24 - Definition and importance of collaborative consequences03:53 - Difference between punishment and consequences05:27 - Why punishment is ineffective06:48 - Explanation of consequences and their role in teaching07:29 - Steps to implement collaborative consequences11:58 - The importance of seeking a child's input13:44 - The significance of a child's buy-in in the discipline process16:10 - Long-term goals of using collaborative consequences17:37 - Personal example: Collaborative consequences for cleaning up messes26:18 - Personal example: Collaborative consequences for managing screen time32:52 - Conclusion and final thoughts on collaborative consequences33:09 - Call to action: Subscribe, rate, review, and join the email listKey Takeaways:Collaborative Consequences: Involve your child in setting boundaries and consequences to ensure they understand and agree with them, which increases their effectiveness.Difference from Punishment: Unlike punishment, which is retributive and ineffective in the long-term, collaborative consequences focus on teaching and guiding children to make better decisions.Child's Buy-In: When children have a say in their own discipline process, they are more likely to adhere to the agreed-upon boundaries and learn self-discipline.Practical Examples: Jon shares real-life examples of implementing collaborative consequences in his household, providing a clear model for listeners to follow.Resources Mentioned:Take the Highly Sensitive Kid QuizHow to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will TalkRecommendations for the Next Episode:Episode #11: Discipline Part 1Calls to Action:Subscribe: Subscribe to the Whole Parent Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review to help other parents find the podcast.Share: Share this episode with fellow parents who might benefit from learning about collaborative consequences.Email List: Join the email list to receive updates on new episodes and resources.Contact Information:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comInstagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentThank you for tuning in to this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast. We hope you found it insightful and helpful in your parenting journey. See you in the next episode!Send us a text

Want to know if your child is Highly Sensitive? TAKE THE QUIZ! Parenting a Highly Sensitive ChildEpisode Number: #25Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the world of highly sensitive children. He explains what high sensitivity is, how it manifests in kids, and shares practical strategies for parents to help their highly sensitive children thrive. Jon also highlights the groundbreaking work of Dr. Elaine Aron, who introduced the concept of high sensitivity, and provides insights into the emotional, physical, and social needs of highly sensitive kids.Timestamps:00:01 - Introduction to highly sensitive kids01:24 - Acknowledging Dr. Elaine Aron's work on high sensitivity02:48 - Improved show notes and additional resources03:17 - Understanding what high sensitivity is05:14 - Symptoms and characteristics of highly sensitive kids07:40 - Evolutionary perspective on high sensitivity10:03 - Sensory amplification in highly sensitive kids12:31 - Behavioral signs of high sensitivity22:47 - Emotional, physical, and social needs of highly sensitive kids31:52 - Practical tips for parenting highly sensitive kids41:58 - Benefits of being highly sensitive (IT'S A SUPER POWER!)43:26 - Conclusion Key Takeaways: Jon's Three Practical Tips for Parenting Highly Sensitive Kids:Establish Routines: Create a predictable home environment to provide a sense of security for highly sensitive kids.Take Breaks: Allow for regular downtime to help highly sensitive kids process and cope with sensory input.Focus on Emotional Intelligence: Teach kids to recognize, label, and express their emotions to manage their heightened sensitivity.Links to Resources Mentioned:Is Your Kid Highly Sensitive Quiz!The Highly Sensitive Child by Dr. Elaine AronThe Highly Sensitive Parent by Dr. Elaine AronWhat episode should you listen to next?Raising Emotionally Intelligent KidsHow to Connect:Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERESubscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who have highly sensitive children or might benefit from learning about high sensitivity.Connect with Whole Parent:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comSocial Media Links:Instagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentSend us a text

Do you want to know how you can successfully navigate sibling conflict? This is the episode for you. Episode Number: #24Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon delves into the challenging topic of sibling conflict. He shares practical strategies for parents to navigate and resolve conflicts between siblings effectively. Jon also talks about the importance of fostering a team-centric environment and being a safe person for your children to express their frustrations.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction and Jon's return to podcasting01:30 - Review of Raising Siblings Part One03:53 - Principle 1: Foster a team-centric environment09:49 - Principle 2: Be the safe person17:13 - Quick call to action: Subscribe and review20:24 - Principle 3: Be a mediator, not an arbitratorKey Takeaways: Jon's Three Principles for Handling Sibling Conflict:Foster a Team-Centric Environment: Emphasize that the family works as a team and avoid creating winners and losers among siblings.Be the Safe Person: Ensure that children can express their feelings without fear of punishment or judgment.Act as a Mediator, Not an Arbitrator: Facilitate communication between siblings to help them resolve conflicts themselves.What episode should you listen to next?Raising Siblings Part 1Adding a New BabyHow to Connect:Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERESubscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform.Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who would benefit from learning about handling sibling conflicts.Links to Resources Mentioned:Mr. Rogers' Song About FeelingsSiblings Without Rivalry BookConnect with Whole Parent:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comSocial Media Links:Instagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentSend us a text

Raising Emotionally Intelligent KidsEpisode Number: #23Description: In this episode of the Whole Parent Podcast, Jon discusses the importance of raising emotionally intelligent kids. Jon shares personal insights and practical steps on how parents can foster emotional intelligence in their children. Jon also opens up about his recent break from podcasting, the challenges he faced, and how taking time for self-care has impacted his parenting.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction and Jon's return to podcasting00:34 - Focus on topical episodes and the importance of emotional intelligence01:32 - Understanding and processing emotions03:31 - Personal updates (Why I ghosted)08:43 - Step 1: Recognizing and understanding emotions17:56 - Step 2: Naming and labeling emotions30:03 - Step 3: Expressing emotions in a healthy way36:00 - Encouraging kids to express their emotionsKey Takeaways:Jon's Three Step Process for kidsRecognize Emotions: Check in with your body to identify physical signs of emotions.Name Emotions: Labeling emotions helps in processing and understanding them better.Express Emotions: Find healthy ways to express emotions, avoiding explosive outbursts.Links to Resources Mentioned:Dr. Mark Brackett's work on emotional intelligenceWhole Brain Child by Dan Siegel and Tina Payne BrysonAtlas of the Heart by Brené BrownWhat episode should you listen to next?Punishment-Free Parenting with Tina Payne BrysonHow to Connect:Never Miss a New Episode: CLICK HERESubscribe: If you haven't subscribed to the podcast yet, please do so on your preferred platform. Rate and Review: Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Share: Share this episode with friends and family, especially those who would benefit from learning about emotional intelligence.Episode Transcript: The full transcript of this episode is available here.Connect with Whole Parent:Email: podcast@wholeparentacademy.comSocial Media Links:Instagram: @wholeparentTikTok: @wholeparentSend us a text

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson discusses punishment-free parenting, emphasizing discipline as a means to teach skills rather than punishment. The podcast explores the importance of emotional regulation, setting boundaries, and building secure attachments. It also delves into the delicate balance of being firm yet approachable, fostering resilience in children through positive discipline. The discussion highlights the joy and purpose found in the parent-child relationship.

To subscribe to the Whole Parent Podcast community:CLICK HERE Ever felt like it's all on you and your kids ONLY wants you?OR Ever felt like, no matter what you do, you're always just second best in your child's eyes? You're not alone. In this episode, we examine the emotional rollercoaster of the attachment hierarchy in families. Sharing my own experiences as a non-preferred parent, I peel back the layers of this complex dynamic. As we traverse the spectrum of parenting challenges, from feeling like the backup to handling jealousy, you'll uncover strategies and reassurance that will redefine your approach to these sensitive situations.Parenting is not a competition, yet it can certainly feel that way. This episode sheds light on the evolutionary underpinnings of why children may gravitate towards one caregiver and how this is not an indictment of your parenting prowess. We'll navigate the tricky emotions that come with parental comparisons, offering insights into fostering secure attachments and empowering both preferred and non-preferred parents.Then I address preferred parents and non-preferred parents directly and ask "What can you do, based on your role, to support your child and your partner?" This was one of the most vulnerable episodes for me to record; I hope that you are encouraged and helped through listening!Send us a text

Join the Whole Parent community for updates and free weekly resources.  CLICK HEREThe resource Jennifer mentioned:Picky Eater ScreenerFollow JenniferHave you ever felt like you're in a mealtime showdown with your toddler, armed with nothing but a spoon and the "wrong" color cup? Me too. Every day.Today I'm joined by Jennifer Anderson of Kids Eat in Color to arm you with the strategies you need to turn mealtime battles into family building fun. We dissect the mystery behind toddler diets, discussing ways to make eating fun and how parents can lead by example to encourage adventurous food choices. This isn't just about getting peas onto their plate; it's about setting the foundation for a lifetime of healthy eating.Let's be real—feeding a picky eater can feel like trying to solve a Rubik's cube blindfolded (where the colors change every meal). Jennifer and I get personal, sharing our own experiences with the challenges of nurturing diverse palates. We tackle the rainbow of eating behaviors from choosy to chowhound and offer a fresh perspective on introducing new foods. This chat goes beyond the plate, delving into how to build a positive body relationship with your kids, ensuring they grow up with confidence in their food choices and themselves.Forget what you've heard about sugar and hyperactivity, or the myths that red dye is the root of all meltdowns. We're here to debunk these and other common misconceptions about kids' diets. Plus, we're dishing out practical tips like using micro portions and engaging kids in meal prep to encourage a more varied diet. By the end of our conversation, you'll have a toolkit filled with strategies to support your child in developing a healthy, resilient relationship with food—one joyful bite at a time. Join us on this culinary adventure and watch your little ones flourish into wholehearted, healthy eaters.Send us a text