Anxiety Rx

What if someone can make you feel something, and the real problem is pretending they can’t?In this episode, I talk about a phrase I used to hear all the time: “Nobody can make you feel anything.” I break down why I no longer believe that’s true, and what actually happens in the brain and body when we’re triggered. I get into how emotional responses are often reflexive, how easily anxiety hijacks intense feelings, and why staying grounded in the body, not the mind, is what really gives us choice.You’ll Learn:The real reason “nobody can make you feel anything” doesn’t hold up to neuroscienceWhat happens in your brain when someone triggers a strong emotional reactionWhy fear responses can bypass your thinking mind entirelyHow anxiety often hijacks other emotions and turns them into alarmThe quiet damage of suppressing anger in childhoodWhat it feels like to lose your rational mind in a moment of overwhelmWhy grounding in your body is more effective than “just thinking differently”The difference between emotional reflexes and how you choose to respondWhat the physiological sigh does for nervous system regulationWhy emotional regulation takes practice and why that practice has to start before the trigger hitsTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[11:31] Why intense emotions often get mistaken for anxiety and feed the victim loop[14:26] How to break the fear habit by practicing emotional awareness and response[17:01] Why intense emotions shut down your rational brain and how to stay in control[20:37] How to stay grounded and choose your response when you're triggered [21:54] How to train your body to stay calm during emotional overwhelmFind more from Russell:Russell Kennedy | LinkedInRussell Kennedy | Facebook The Anxiety MD | WebsiteThe Anxiety MD | InstagramThe Anxiety MD | YouTube

Welcome back! In today’s episode of Anxiety Rx, we’re diving into the real root of social anxiety…and spoiler alert: it’s not just about being shy at parties. Social anxiety is often misunderstood as a surface-level fear of people, but it runs much deeper than that. It’s a fear of connection - especially with yourself. In this episode, I break down how social anxiety stems from a body-based alarm, not just overthinking or awkwardness. If you grew up feeling like love had strings attached or rejection was around every corner, your nervous system probably learned to associate connection with danger. I’ll walk you through why that happens, what’s really going on in your body, and how to gently start rewiring that alarm. We’ll talk about courage (not confidence), co-regulation, and why healing starts with reconnecting to the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding. Because you can’t truly connect with others until you start feeling safe inside your own skin. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Understanding Social Anxiety 07:16 The Role of Childhood Experiences 13:39 Connecting with Your Inner Child 18:50 Courage and Connection in Social Situations

Hello everyone! You’ve probably heard me talk about alarm - that raw, uncomfortable sensation in the body that actually drives anxiety. But in this episode, I break it down further into two distinct types: foreground alarm and background alarm. Foreground alarm is the big, loud stuff (like someone jumping out and scaring you, or feelings of unease before a big presentation). It’s sharp, intense, and impossible to ignore. Background alarm is quieter. It hums under the surface (like chronic tension, unease, a vague sense that something’s off, even when nothing obvious is happening.) These two types of alarm shape your experience with anxiety in very different ways, and in this episode, I’ll walk you through how they interact, why they often go unrecognized, and how they can make it feel like anxiety is coming out of nowhere. More importantly, I’ll share what to do about it. Not by trying to outthink it (you know how I feel about that), but by learning how to soothe the alarm in your body - through presence, breath, and connection. If you’ve ever felt blindsided by panic or trapped in chronic anxiety without knowing why, this episode will help you finally understand what’s really going on. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Understanding Anxiety as Alarm 07:58 Foreground vs Background Alarm 15:39 Panic Attacks and Their Triggers 17:26 Understanding the Alarm in Your Body 17:55 Metabolizing Your Feelings 18:52 Healing Through Acceptance

Hello everyone! In this episode of the Anxiety Rx podcast, I talk about something we cannot heal anxiety without: faith. Not necessarily religious faith (unless that’s your thing) - I mean the kind of faith that says, I can handle what’s coming. I’ll figure it out. I’m not alone in this. But if you grew up in chaos, unpredictability, or even emotional disconnection, that faith (especially in yourself) might have never had a chance to grow. And when there’s no faith, there’s fear. Anxiety steps in to fill the gap, and your nervous system whispers, you’re not safe, and your mind scrambles to make sense of it with endless worry. In this episode, I walk you through how that loss of faith happens, how it wires itself into your body, and most importantly, how to begin building it back. Not through thinking, but through feeling. Through self-soothing, grounding, and connecting with the younger part of you that still needs to hear, you’re safe now. Because real healing—the kind that actually lasts—doesn’t come from managing symptoms. It comes from restoring faith, so you can feel safe in your body, and in your adult self’s ability to handle whatever comes your way. In your ability to stay present, even when life gets wobbly. If you’ve lost that inner knowing, this one’s for you. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 The Power of Belief and Faith in Healing Anxiety 02:41 Understanding the Alarm System in Our Bodies 05:06 The Cycle of Worry and Anxiety 07:25 The Role of Childhood Experiences in Anxiety 09:52 Faith as a Tool for Managing Uncertainty 12:13 Connecting with the Inner Child for Healing 14:52 The Importance of Trusting Love 16:47 Creating Safety Through Self-Love 19:31 Breaking the Cycle of Alarm and Anxiety 21:52 Embracing Uncertainty for Growth 23:47 The Journey to Healing Anxiety 26:27 Conclusion: Awareness, Self-Compassion and Faith as Keys to Healing

Welcome back everyone! In this episode, I dive into the sneaky nature of worry—how it masquerades as a helpful strategy when really, it’s just our nervous system trying to avoid the discomfort of uncertainty. Worry gives us the illusion of control, but underneath it is a scared, younger part of us that never learned how to feel safe in the unknown. I talk about how this starts in childhood, when unpredictability wires us to constantly scan for “what ifs” as a way of preparing for the worst. But the problem is, this habit doesn’t actually keep us safe—it just keeps us stuck. Instead of spiraling in our thoughts, the way out is through the body. I’ll explain why real healing from anxiety happens when we learn to feel our way through it, not think our way out. And yes, that means learning to sit with discomfort and build a new relationship with uncertainty—not as a threat, but as a doorway to deeper trust in ourselves. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Understanding Worry and Anxiety 05:43 The Paradox of Worry and Uncertainty 12:51 Healing Through Sensation Without Explanation 20:12 Breaking the Cycle of Alarm and Anxiety

Hey Everyone! In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the real driver of anxiety: the overprotective, fire-breathing ego dragon we forged in childhood. We talk a lot about anxiety being in the mind—but it’s not. It’s a body-based response, rooted in old pain and fear that never got processed. That pain creates a background alarm in your system, and in comes the ego dragon: a powerful internal protector built by a scared, overwhelmed child. Its job? Keep you safe. Its strategy? Constant hypervigilance, control, and worry. The problem is, the ego dragon doesn’t know the danger is over. So it keeps you stuck in fear, biting your own tail, creating more alarm through the very worries you hope will save you. In this episode, I show you how to unmask this dragon—not to slay it, but to soothe it. To recognize that your anxiety isn’t weakness. It’s your nervous system doing too good a job of trying to protect you. We talk about how to come back to the present, connect with that inner child, and melt the alarm that fuels your thoughts—so you can finally step out of survival mode and into something that feels more like peace, and living. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction to Anxiety RX Podcast 00:27 Understanding Anxiety: Mind vs Body 02:00 The Concept of Background Alarm 03:03 The Alarm Anxiety Cycle 05:07 The Iceberg Analogy of Anxiety 05:42 The Ego Dragon: Protection vs. Fear 06:56 Hypervigilance and Its Effects 08:23 The Role of the Ego in Anxiety 10:29 Present Moment Awareness as a Tool 12:21 Understanding the Fear Bias 13:42 Healing Through Connection with the Inner Child 16:40 The Importance of Feeling to Heal 18:07 Conclusion: Taking Control of Your Healing

Welcome back! In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my own anxiety story—from growing up with a father who had schizophrenia, to nearly losing myself during medical school, and finally (after many failed attempts) learning how to actually heal anxiety, rather than just manage it. I talk about how my early life wired me for chronic alarm in my body, long before I even knew what “anxiety” was. I share what it was like navigating that as a physician and neuroscientist who, ironically, couldn’t fix his own mind with logic. (Spoiler: healing doesn’t happen in the mind.) This episode is personal. It’s the origin story of the work I do now—and a love letter to anyone who’s ever felt like they were broken. You’re not. But you are likely carrying a scared inner child who needs you to come back for them. Let’s talk about what that really means—and how reconnecting with your alarm is where real healing begins. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG and TikTok here: @theanxietymd P.S. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 5000+ anxiety HEALERS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Russell's Personal Journey with Anxiety 09:53 The Impact of Childhood Trauma 19:58 Navigating Medical School and Anxiety 30:05 Understanding Alarm and Healing

This discussion delves into the immobilizing grip of anxiety and its roots in trauma. It highlights how feelings of helplessness can keep us stuck in a cycle of victimhood. Emphasizing the transformative power of healthy anger, the conversation offers practical strategies to reclaim movement, both physically and emotionally. Listeners are encouraged to break free from anxiety's hold and take charge of their lives, reconnecting with their inner strength and potential.

Dive into the intricate connection between anxiety and victim mentality. Discover how early emotional wounds can trap your nervous system in a protective loop, leading to feelings of helplessness. Explore the alarm-anxiety cycle and learn how unresolved pain fuels anxious thoughts. Gain actionable insights on using awareness and grounding techniques to shift from merely coping to thriving. Reclaim your power by reconnecting with your body and embracing the journey of healing without judgment.

In this engaging discussion, psychiatrist Dr. Dimitrios Tsatiris, an expert on anxiety and overachievers, shares insights from his work on burnout in the healthcare system. He tackles the societal obsession with success and how it damages mental health, emphasizing the 'arrival fallacy'—the fleeting happiness that comes from achievement. They explore mindfulness practices to counteract stress and the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships. Listeners will find practical tools for managing anxiety and rethinking their priorities in the pursuit of fulfillment.