131: 5 Things That Are Preventing You From Healing Anxiety
Sep 1, 2025
Explore how certain coping mechanisms can hinder your journey to overcome anxiety. Discover the concept of MADDS: medication, addiction, distraction, dissociation, and suppression. Learn why medications might numb emotional healing and how worry can become addictive. Uncover the effects of dissociation and the consequences of suppressing emotions. Most importantly, find out how awareness, acceptance, and a compassionate approach can pave the way for genuine healing and reconnect you with your younger self.
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Survival Tools Can Block Healing
MADDS are unconscious survival strategies that protect you short-term but block healing long-term.
Recognizing them lets you move from surviving to healing by feeling stored pain.
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Use Medication As A Bridge, Not A Crutch
Use medication to lower alarm enough to connect, not to permanently numb emotions.
Reassess meds regularly and avoid relying on them to replace emotional processing.
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Medication Masks Symptoms, Not Causes
Psychiatric meds can mask symptoms without healing root causes and often need dose increases.
Some people benefit greatly, but many stay numbed and avoid needed emotional work.
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What if the very things that feel like they’re protecting you are actually keeping you stuck?
In this episode, I break down the five unconscious strategies that block healing from anxiety. I call it MADDS: medication, addiction, distraction, dissociation, and suppression. Each of these starts as a survival tool, but over time they numb us, disconnect us from our bodies, and cut us off from the younger self that needs our attention. I get real about the role medication plays, why worry itself can become addictive, and how dissociation becomes a default setting for many of us. Most importantly, I show how awareness, acceptance, and compassion can start to break the cycle so we can finally move toward real healing instead of just coping.
You’ll Learn:
The five nervous system strategies that quietly block anxiety healing
Why medications can help in crisis, but often numb long-term emotional recovery
The surprising link between worry and the brain’s dopamine reward system
How addictions form as self-medication for the body’s stored alarm
The subtle ways distractions like social media pull you further from your body
What it feels like to live in dissociation and why it’s so hard to stop
How suppression of emotion can lead to deeper anxiety and physical illness
The role of awareness and acceptance in breaking the anxiety coping cycle
A simple ABC method to reconnect with your younger self and release the need for coping strategies
Timestamps:
[00:00] Introduction
[03:30] The role and limits of medication in healing anxiety
[09:17] How addictions and worry become coping mechanisms for anxiety
[13:00] How distraction masks anxiety and deepens disconnection
[14:58] How dissociation protects us from pain but blocks healing
[17:10] How suppression of emotions leads to disconnection and illness
[19:11] How awareness and self-compassion break the cycle of anxiety coping strategies
Anxiety Rx