The Suzanne Venker Show

Online dating is a multi-billion dollar industry, but understanding what men really want can be tricky. Men are often more active than women on these platforms, yet they prioritize looks and attitude over career status. An intriguing study reveals that traditional partner criteria remain unchanged. Women should beware of those who overly praise their accomplishments, as it might indicate a lack of genuine interest. Authenticity is key; crafting a profile that reflects true relationship goals can make a significant difference in attracting the right partner.

Suzanne and her daughter Emma, 21, talk about social media's effect on relationships and, in particular, on young women. IN THIS EPISODE: 6:20  What is it like to be Suzanne’s daughter? 9:00  What is “sexting”? 10:50  Social media and its effects on young women. What does Emma see in her world/age group? 11:30  Social media is all consuming 13:00  Smartphones make it hard to focus 15:35  Social media can cause body image issues 16:50  Young girls are exposed to thousands of images a day 21:30  What is the solution to help young girls? 24:20  Your parents are your model for how you feel about yourself 25:40  “Catfishing”: Face-altering filters and why they’re problematic 29:40  What's good and what's bad when it comes to  texting in a relationship 36:00  You don’t have to develop courage or have hard conversations when you’re texting 40:40  What is the #1 problem women have today when it comes to dating on college campuses? 42:40  When girls post on social media in a sexual manner, they're trying to impress men 48:10  For the average person, it is much easier to have casual relationships in college 49:30  Social media creates mental health issues 53:50  Suzanne to Emma: Do you ever wish there was no such thing as social media?

Exploring the challenges of modern motherhood and societal expectations for women. Discussing the impact of women in the workforce on household income. Highlighting the importance of support for mothers to enjoy motherhood. Encouraging women to think outside the box and consider leaning out if their husband is a steady breadwinner. Reflecting on the lessons learned during the pandemic about living on less.

Why are more men choosing to stay single? A recent Pew study reveals shifting gender dynamics, showing men are at a disadvantage in a world where women are outpacing them academically and professionally. The discussion also emphasizes the impact of father absence and single motherhood on male identity, contributing to a perceived crisis in masculinity. With a focus on negative cultural narratives surrounding men, the conversation calls for a reassessment of how society views masculinity and its role in relationships.

#1 -  My boyfriend and I are dating with the prospect of getting married, and I am moving to his country to be with him. I want to prioritize my family but have a side hustle. What is your advice re: side hustles? #2- My fiance and I have small arguments constantly that turn into half a day of us not speaking.  Do you have any tips? #3 - I used to have a feminist mindset and dreamed of pursuing a career in music. My parents are pressuring me to get higher ed in music. How do I communicate to my parents about my desire to be a wife and mother someday? #4 - I am a wife who screwed things up in the beginning of my marriage. I have been married for 15 years. I never wanted to be a “disrespectful nag” and I didn’t realize I was being one until my marriage nearly fell apart. My husband is distant and we could be roommates. Do I just accept this? #5 - I keep encountering men who have gotten used to dating a lot of feminists. When I talk to them about having families and wanting more traditional gender roles, they consider that as “being a dictator over the wife”.  This is frustrating because men have become feminist without even knowing it.  What should mid-thirties women do because men don’t lead? What do we do? #6-  I’m a 34-year-old single woman. I was raised by a “hen-pecked” father and I became a feminist, went to grad school, etc. I want to get married and have kids but I don’t know any young single men, I am overweight and have student loans.  Is it unreasonable to think I might meet a man who wants to take care of his wife and kids?

Suzanne talks about the power of silence in a marriage or relationship. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:25  Silence is powerful 3:15  Women talk much more than men 3:50  When you don’t talk as much you become a better listener 6:40  Your husband is NOT your girlfriend! 7:40  You don’t have to air every thought you have 8:40  Your husband does not need to hear about everything that happens to you during the day 10:20  Ask yourself: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? 10:40  The goal is to help you take stock of your speech

Suzanne explains why being agreeable, rather than being a “challenger” or offering alternative thoughts to your husband’s all the time, is a boon for your marriage. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:30  Stop saying no 9:20  Suzanne talks about what a typical conversation sounded like in the past with her husband compared to now 11:30  Know when to give in or let go in order to create peace 13:15  The more we say yes instead of no, the more receptive your husband will be 13:55  The approach a woman needs to get ahead at work is the exact same approach that will screw up your marriage 16:00  Men do not like to fight with women

Suzanne and her assistant Kelsey discuss the life of the entrepreneur. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:50  Suzanne’s assistant, Kelsey, discusses her background 8:20  You don’t have set hours when you have your own business. You basically work all of the time 9:10  The pros: No boss, make your own hours, license to be creative 9:35  The cons: you work for a long time with very little payoff, can be financially straining 12:30 Building a business and having young kids. Is it logistically possible? 13;10  Failure is part of being an entrepreneur 13:40  Social media makes it look easy 15:00  A strong passion is necessary to sustain you through ups and downs 15:45  It usually takes about three years to see any revenue 16:10  You can’t please everyone. Suzanne discusses her experience with dealing with others’ expectations 18:35  You have to be able to deal with delayed gratification 20:00  You have to be disciplined with your time 23:35  You can’t let your business bleed into your personal life 28:40  Entrepreneurship is pushed to women without explaining the caveats of this lifestyle 33:00  Jobs are underrated 36:45  Suzanne dreams of being a waitress!!!!!

Explore the fascinating link between money and marriage. Discover how your upbringing shapes financial beliefs and behaviors. Learn why aligning financial goals is vital for relationship harmony. Dive into the impact of high expectations on financial success, and understand how husbands and wives perceive income differently. Finally, uncover the transformative power of changing your attitude towards money for a healthier partnership.

Suzanne addresses the many requests she's had from folks who’ve asked, “What do we do about our sons?” and “How can we best raise our sons in these times?” IN THIS EPISODE: 1:50  Suzanne reads listener/reader emails 4:35  Millennial men have been acculturated to the equality mindset 5:30  A lot of women have to convince their husbands that staying home is the right thing to do. 9:10  When you're dating, find out if the man is more traditional or if he has fallen for the feminist script 10:04  Talk to your boys from Day 1 about everything they’re seeing in the culture and counteract this with truth 10:45  Model a traditional family dynamic 11:10  Do not get in the way of a father’s relationship with his son 13:30  How you talk to your husband matters, as does how you talk about your role as a mother 15:40  Honor and respect your son’s masculine nature