The Suzanne Venker Show 139. How NOT to Find a Quality Man on a Dating App
Nov 16, 2021
Online dating is a multi-billion dollar industry, but understanding what men really want can be tricky. Men are often more active than women on these platforms, yet they prioritize looks and attitude over career status. An intriguing study reveals that traditional partner criteria remain unchanged. Women should beware of those who overly praise their accomplishments, as it might indicate a lack of genuine interest. Authenticity is key; crafting a profile that reflects true relationship goals can make a significant difference in attracting the right partner.
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Men Prioritize Different Traits
- Men are largely indifferent to women's job status or education when seeking a serious relationship.
- Women's looks, demeanor, and attitude towards marriage and children are primary factors for men.
Townsend's Status vs. Looks Experiment
- An experiment showed women preferred high-status men even if less attractive, while men preferred looks over status.
- Women were willing to marry a homely doctor, men were willing to marry a good-looking fast food worker.
Don't Overemphasize Career
- Avoid emphasizing your career or education too much on dating apps.
- If a man fixates on your career, he may just want a hookup or to be financially supported.