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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

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Oct 12, 2023 • 39min
#276: Stronger, Hotter Relationships and Understanding Consent
With a depth and breadth that may surprise you, today’s podcast guest, Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud, delves into everything from consent to discovering your erotic landscape, to help men have stronger relationships and a hotter sex life!

Oct 5, 2023 • 32min
Men’s Stories as a Path to Healing for All
Every man has experiences in life that shape the unique and courageous man he has become. Sharing these stories can be freeing and healing, not only for the man who shares them, but for other men who hear and identify with the pain, triumph and possibility they illuminate. What stories are you holding on to, that in sharing would set you free?

Sep 28, 2023 • 41min
#275: How to Evolve by Choice When Sex is Hardwired by Nature
How can heterosexual men develop more meaningful sex and conscious relationships, even when they are hardwired for sex? Today's podcast guest, author of Sexed, talks about how to get beyond conditioning from media, porn, and the sexual industrial complex, so sex can not only be more pleasurable, but also more intimate, and even transformational.

Sep 21, 2023 • 33min
#274: Overcoming Men's Collective Fear of Pleasure
Because pleasure is so enjoyable, it can be surprising to know that many people are afraid of, or have some kind of resistance to, pleasure. Overcoming the blocks to experiencing pleasure is something every man deserves! Today's podcast guest focuses on showing you how.

Sep 14, 2023 • 38min
Shining Light On Sexual Blindspots
Talking about sex as a man, whether in the realm of your desires or health, can be embarrassing or even seem to threaten your manhood. But this leaves many men at risk of everything from an unsatisfying sex to risk of early death. Bryan Stacy's sudden diagnosis changed his life and made him an advocate for helping you feel safe to have conversations about sex.

Sep 7, 2023 • 40min
#273: Beyond Superficial Sex: Creating Real Intimacy
Many men spend a whole lifetime having sex that is superficial or one dimensional, missing out on emotional and energetic levels of pleasure, and the exponential experience of feeling your partner's pleasure in your body, in addition to your own. Today's Man Alive guest talks about how to get beyond this, to go where most men don't know they can go in intimacy and sexuality.

Aug 31, 2023 • 50min
How to Stop Love From Fading or Falling Apart
Relationships are challenging! What if you had a lens to look through, where you could see your partner clearly, in a way that allowed for more love and connection? What if it helped you have fewer fights and made it less likely you'd become one of the 50% of marriages that end? This conversation gives you that lens and helpful frameworks for a relationship that lasts!

Aug 24, 2023 • 38min
#272: The Necessity of Embodiment for Modern Men
Embodiment is one of the most powerful resources a man can tap into, but most men don't understand what embodiment actually is. Today's guest is a Navy Seal turned mental health expert, who has tapped into the wisdom of the body for stress-relief and success. He looks at health from a different perspective, incorporating the ancient traditions and philosophies of Africa, India, Europe, and North and South America to support our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being.

Aug 17, 2023 • 38min
Radical Brilliance: How To Discover Your Unique Purpose In Life – Arjuna Ardagh
What is YOUR Purpose? When you learn and follow the natural cycle of life you are more likely to both feel brilliant AND bring your impactful creations to the world. Arjuna Ardagh has distilled a powerful map that allows you to step into your brilliance!

Aug 10, 2023 • 47min
#271: How to Make Sure You're Not Losing Yourself
How much are you currently creating your life based on your own truth and aliveness, versus going along with a life that someone else expected or demanded of you? There's no time like the present to check in with yourself. You may not need a major life overhaul, but in each relationship and situation you can start to make sure to honor yourself and make choices that are good for you.
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