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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

Aug 17, 2023 • 38min
Radical Brilliance: How To Discover Your Unique Purpose In Life – Arjuna Ardagh
What is YOUR Purpose? When you learn and follow the natural cycle of life you are more likely to both feel brilliant AND bring your impactful creations to the world. Arjuna Ardagh has distilled a powerful map that allows you to step into your brilliance!

Aug 10, 2023 • 47min
#271: How to Make Sure You're Not Losing Yourself
How much are you currently creating your life based on your own truth and aliveness, versus going along with a life that someone else expected or demanded of you? There's no time like the present to check in with yourself. You may not need a major life overhaul, but in each relationship and situation you can start to make sure to honor yourself and make choices that are good for you.

Aug 3, 2023 • 34min
Vulnerability That Works at Work
Many men experience being vulnerable as a huge risk, especially at work. In this episode we discuss the types of vulnerability that make you more respected and create an effective and enjoyable work environment.

Jul 27, 2023 • 40min
#270: BEDucation: Pleasure Based Sex Education For Adults
High-quality, up-to-date, and accessible sexual education resources for adults is not always easy to come by. This is the mission of BEDucated, a company founded to empower grown-ups with pleasure-based sex education. In today's episode we talk about adult sexual phases, how to open beyond taboos and what makes it more likely for you to experience more connection and pleasure.

Jul 20, 2023 • 44min
What Women Want That Men Often Overlook or Don’t Understand
Tobin Zivon, an expert on understanding what women want, talks about how to please a woman without sacrificing personal boundaries. They discuss the challenges men face in meeting women's expectations, the importance of open communication, and embracing vulnerability. The chapter also explores the paradox of pleasing a woman while taking care of oneself and the benefits of being emotionally responsive in relationships.

Jul 13, 2023 • 34min
#269: Overcome Life's Biggest Challenges Rather Than Being Overcome By Them
When you are suddenly faced with a challenge you don't know how to overcome it's easy to go into overwhelm, or be overtaken by fear or grief.

Jul 6, 2023 • 41min
Strength, Freedom and the Hero’s Journey
As we get older, life becomes more complex. We find ourselves in the midst of loss, challenges, heartbreak — inevitable experiences that are not easy to deal with. Today’s guests walks men through these challenging times to reclaim their power and innocence.

Jun 29, 2023 • 36min
#268: The Importance of Men Taking off Their Masks
Most men are taught to wear masks from a young age, to prove their worth through a societal construct of "manliness." These days we can see the pain and isolation this has caused men. Today's guest shows you how to break down these constructs to reclaim yourself and your life.

Jun 22, 2023 • 41min
Speak Your Truth Without Losing Love or Business
Telling the truth can be one of the hardest things to do, especially when you’re afraid to lose a relationship, job or something that matters to you. Dr Susan Campbell is a master of truth telling in a way that creates MORE connection and ultimately makes sure you don’t lose yourself!

Jun 15, 2023 • 38min
#267: Being Real is the New Sexy
Men who love women have often been taught to play games and learn lines to catch a woman's attention. But it's ultimately exhausting and unsatisfying to keep up a facade and then you never get to be known or loved for who you really. These days women are looking for authenticity and today's guest talks about how to bring it.