

Time For You: Nurturing Presence, Love, and Well-Being
Shailia Stephens & Lea Wernli
Embark on a journey with Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli as they unravel the secrets of inner peace, loving connections, and lasting well-being. "Time For You" is your guide to a beautiful life.
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Sep 19, 2025 • 38min
54 – Self-Care in the Midst of Challenges
In this episode of TIME FOR YOU, Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli reconnect after summer breaks to share stories of rest, challenges, and deep insights from both family life and their ongoing projects. From struggles to joyful breakthroughs, they reflect on the ups and downs of the creative process and how presence changes everything. Through laughter, honesty, and reflections on the Three Principles, they explore how to care for yourself while navigating life’s constant waves of creation.
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We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Sep 5, 2025 • 48min
53 – From Activism to Evidence: Jeanne Catherine-Gray’s Journey with the 3 Principles
In this episode, psychologist and researcher Jeanne Catherine-Gray, PhD, co-founder and CEO of Innate Health Research, shares how real-world studies bring evidence to the Three Principles. Jeanne explains how her team measures “innate health” (our built-in capacity for resilience, clarity, and connection) and tracks its impact across high-risk settings — from prisons to unemployment programs and addiction recovery.
We also explore Jeanne’s activist heart: why she believes curiosity over polarization prevents harm, how small civic actions restore agency, and why lived-experience voices belong at the center of mental-health solutions.
If you care about science with a soul, bridging advocacy with data, and turning insight into compassionate action, this conversation will leave you steadier, kinder, and more empowered.Innate Health Research:https://innatehealthresearch.org/
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Aug 22, 2025 • 53min
52 – Letting Go of Painful Thoughts: A Simple Shift That Transforms Stress & Life
Feeling stuck in heaviness, stress, fear, or overwhelm? In this heartfelt episode of Time for You, Shailia Stephens sits down with coach Sandra Liane Braun to explore how one powerful insight completely shifted her life. From holding onto painful thoughts for years to finally letting go, Sandra shares how the Three Principles helped her find peace, love, and clarity—even in challenging times. This conversation is about real transformation that doesn’t require endless tools or effort… just a new way of seeing.If you want to find out more about Sandra Liane Braun and get in contact with her, here you will find her:
https://sandralianebraun.de/E-Mail: kontakt@sandralianebraun.de
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
We created the “My Secret Life” interview series to share a new understanding of human psychology, making insights and change easier for everyone, no matter where they are in their journey. Take a leap of faith, listen to our stories, and discover the hope that – if we can come out of the darkness and into the light – you can too!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.leawernli.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

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Aug 8, 2025 • 36min
51 – Grace, Friendship, and Finding Hope When the World Feels Heavy
Orit Eschel, a coach and mentor known for her soulful conversations, joins Lea Wernli to explore the essence of friendship and self-love. They discuss the challenges of forming genuine connections as we grow, and the need for more women in leadership roles. Orit emphasizes the power of authentic expression and the importance of embracing one's true self, even amidst external pressures. The conversation flows with humor and warmth, inviting listeners to navigate their emotions and relationships with grace and compassion.

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Jul 25, 2025 • 33min
50 – Motherhood, Neurodiversity, and Coming Home to Yourself
Orit Eschel, a coach based in Berlin, shares her expertise on ADHD and motherhood in a heartfelt conversation. They explore the concept of 'dolphinning'—a playful style of conversation that celebrates creativity and joy. Orit discusses the journey of embracing neurodiversity while navigating family life. They also delve into the power of visual metaphors for understanding emotions, highlighting how self-awareness can transform parenting. Through laughter and insights, the discussion emphasizes authenticity in relationships and the beauty of personal growth.

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Jul 11, 2025 • 18min
49 – Stop Forcing Clarity in Love Relationships: Finding Peace in the Unknown Together
The hosts delve into the pressure of seeking clarity in romantic relationships, questioning the need for rigid life plans. They share personal stories emphasizing that true connection thrives in the present moment. Embracing uncertainty is presented as a pathway to deeper emotional bonds, while self-acceptance fosters harmony in love. The conversation also touches on the complexities of maintaining individuality amidst societal expectations, particularly in the age of social media. Ultimately, they invite listeners to navigate love with an open heart.

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Jun 27, 2025 • 23min
48 – Why Saying Less Can Save Your Relationship
Discover the surprising benefits of saying little during tense moments in relationships. The hosts explore how silence can sometimes heal better than words. They share personal stories that illustrate how insecurities often lead to over-communication, instead of connection. Learn how stepping back can transform conflicts into opportunities for intimacy. With humor and vulnerability, they encourage embracing calmness and presence to foster deeper understanding in relationships.

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Jun 13, 2025 • 26min
47 – Every Puzzle Piece Matters: Sharing What You Know Exactly As You Are
In this engaging discussion, the hosts emphasize the freedom in sharing knowledge without needing to be an expert. They highlight the joy of embracing a beginner's mindset and the significance of each person's unique voice in collaborative efforts. Personal anecdotes add warmth to their insights about the balance between intellect and inner wisdom. Listeners are encouraged to express their truths and see themselves as vital pieces of a larger puzzle, reminding us that every contribution matters.

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May 30, 2025 • 24min
46 – Finding Your Way: Between Universal Truth and Personal Purpose
Delve into the beautiful interplay of universal truths and personal purpose. The hosts share their insights on embracing individuality despite societal pressures. They stress the importance of self-discovery and authenticity, inviting listeners to explore their true selves. Inspiring stories from coaching highlight unique expressions of life, even in challenging circumstances. Creativity emerges as a beacon of hope, encouraging everyone to find their own path and fully embrace who they are.

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May 16, 2025 • 34min
45 – How to Stop Losing Control: What Anger Is Really Telling You
Dive deep into the complexities of anger and emotional outbursts with Shailia and Lea. They explore the struggles young adults face and the urgent need for emotional understanding. A captivating snow globe metaphor illustrates how internal chaos clouds judgment. The traffic light approach teaches listeners the power of pausing before reacting, promoting clarity and community support. This conversation highlights that embracing emotional awareness may be the true key to transforming frustration into peace.