How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

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Nov 18, 2024 • 1h 4min

How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special Series

Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!In this episode, Connell will tell you:(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”Quotes"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation Website:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Oct 24, 2024 • 27min

How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected

So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women22:11 - Outro
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Oct 21, 2024 • 33min

3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro
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Sep 23, 2024 • 31min

The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid

Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Intro01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time27:07 - Outro
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Jun 23, 2024 • 28min

How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
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May 20, 2024 • 41min

How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity

Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
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May 15, 2024 • 26min

10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach

Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro Powered by Heartcastmedia
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Apr 15, 2024 • 39min

The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!

If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule38:40 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia
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Apr 12, 2024 • 24min

Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”

Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits24:00 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia
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Apr 8, 2024 • 34min

The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Inrtoduction00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication33:24 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia

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