How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

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Apr 8, 2024 • 34min

The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly

If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Inrtoduction00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication33:24 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia
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Mar 26, 2024 • 24min

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’

Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell BarnettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.23:21 - OutroPowered by Heartcastmedia
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Mar 22, 2024 • 50min

How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren

Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?Today’s special guest can help!Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriendQuotes"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney WarrenFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationFeatured GuestCortney WarrenWebsite: http://www.drcortney.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/Chapters00:00 - Introduction04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene46:11 - ConclusionPowered by Heartcastmedia
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Mar 18, 2024 • 29min

How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out

You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts downThe top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia
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Mar 12, 2024 • 29min

5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women

The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners26:11 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia
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Feb 23, 2024 • 53min

Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Featured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationRobbie KramerLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/Chapters00:00 - Introduction00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating52:10 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com
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Feb 20, 2024 • 31min

Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge

If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3QuotesFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity31:17 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com
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Jan 22, 2024 • 37min

The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!

Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!Quotes"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite:https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey37:00 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com
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Jan 15, 2024 • 37min

The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women

If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…2:17 The first rule of flirting4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection7:31 The right posture and eye contact8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into youListen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactQuotes"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile31:03 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com
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Jan 9, 2024 • 59min

LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!

Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send17:10 Why authenticity is what women want21:00 How NOT to overshare with women35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

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