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Jun 18, 2023 • 54min

How Nutrition Healed My Multiple Sclerosis with Kate McDowell

Have you ever wondered if there's a way to recover from Multiple Sclerosis (MS) through natural health? Join us on this amazing episode as I sit down with Kate, a holistic nutritionist who shares her incredible journey of healing from MS. At the young age of 22, Kate was faced with the challenge of finding a solution outside traditional medicine, ultimately leading her to change her beliefs and focus on her nutrition. Kate reveals how she took control of her health by making significant changes to her diet and incorporating holistic nutrition. You'll hear about her struggles, successes, and the impact these changes have had on her life. We also touch on the importance of advocating for your own health and not simply accepting the "it's all in your head" response from doctors. One fascinating aspect of our conversation is our exploration of quantum nutrition testing, a modality based on energy and frequency that taps into the body's innate intelligence. Kate shares some amazing success stories, demonstrating the power of natural health and holistic approaches in healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and hope in their own journey towards better health and well-being. Follow Kate McDowell WEBSITE: ⁠https://www.alignednaturalhealth.com/ INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/kate.mcdowell.wellness/ ⁠FACEBOOK: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/AlignedNaturalHealth YOUTUBE: ⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@alignednaturalhealth If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Jun 4, 2023 • 57min

A Journey Through Women's Sexual Health and Emotional Stability with Aoife Drury

What does it mean to truly understand women's sexual health and how does it connect to our mental well-being? Today, i'm joined by Aoife, a psychosexual and relationship therapist, to shed light on this often under-discussed yet vital aspect of women's lives. In our conversation, we explore the intricate world of women's sexual health and its connection to mental health, focusing on individual experiences and addressing the impact of sexual issues on self-esteem, anxiety, stress, and depression. We also delve into societal expectations surrounding women's sexual well-being, touching on the importance of recognizing your sexual identity and the psychological aspects of self-care. Aoife guides us through the historical messages associated with the female orgasm, the impact of post-birth stress and body image on a woman's sexual well-being, and the topic of female pelvic pain. We discuss the myths and misconceptions about pelvic floor physiotherapy and the process of a satisfactory sexual experience for women. As we navigate this enlightening conversation, Aoife emphasizes the importance of active listening and compassion in relationships, particularly when it comes to discussing sexual health. Together, we explore the power of active listening in creating an open and compassionate environment for sexual health conversations and offer tips on finding the right therapist for you. Don't miss this episode that tackles an often under-discussed but essential aspect of women's well-being. Follow Aoife Drury: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/drurytherapy/ WEBSITE: www.drurytherapy.com TWITTER: https://twitter.com/drurysextherapy If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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May 14, 2023 • 1h 14min

The Father Wound: Understanding its impact with Jennifer Nurick

Are you struggling with emotional regulation, difficulty expressing your emotions, or negative self-belief? It might be time to face your unresolved father wounds. In this episode, Jennifer, a clinical psychotherapist and energy healer, talks about the effects of father wounds on a child's development and how it can carry down through generations. She provides insights from her personal and professional experience, including discussing the impact of different family constellations, cultural structures, and the changing role of fathers in modern society. Jennifer also explores how intergenerational trauma and relational dynamics can contribute to father wounds and how to overcome them. Whether you're a father dealing with your own unresolved trauma or a child of a father who was emotionally absent, this episode will help you understand what you're going through and how to start the healing process. Topics Discussed: Father wounds, different family constellations, cultural structures, modern society, intergenerational trauma, coping mechanisms, therapy, relational dynamics. Connect with Jennifer Nurick: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/ WEBSITE: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/psychotherapy.central If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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May 7, 2023 • 55min

Motherhood and Extreme Anxiety with Melissa Giller

How do we navigate the challenges of motherhood, anxiety, and finding our own path in life? Join me as I discuss these topics with Melissa, a personal development and life coach with a powerful story to share. Melissa's journey through motherhood and caregiving has been a transformational experience, driving her mission to have conversations about the reality of caregiving and the value society places on it. Together, we explore the pressures women face in choosing whether to stay at home with their children or continue working and providing for their families. Melissa shares her personal story of transitioning from a consulting career to motherhood, and how she had to shift her identity and mindset in response. We also delve into the emotional and financial stress that comes with being a stay-at-home parent, and how we can balance the expectations of being the "perfect" mother with our own needs. Follow Melissa Giller: WEBSITE: https://melissagiller.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_giller/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.may27 BIO: https://bio.site/melissa_giller If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Apr 16, 2023 • 59min

Unpacking People Pleasing with Ilaria Petrucci

In this episode of the "Don't Be Afraid to Talk" podcast, James is joined by Ilaria, a trauma-informed coach, to discuss people-pleasing. The conversation explores the idea of honoring oneself in relationships, whether they be romantic, familial, or friendships. Ilaria emphasizes the importance of questioning whether a connection is real if one feels they cannot honor themselves in it. The episode aims to inspire listeners to take charge of their wellbeing and grow as human beings through conversation and listening. Questions: 1.    What is People pleasing? 2.    What is at the root of people-pleasing? 3.    What are the signs You Might Be a People-Pleaser 4.    How can People Pleasing Hurt You? 5.    How does this create nonhealthy relationship Patterns? 6.    What is the distinction between Being Nice vs. Being a People-Pleaser 7.    What People-Pleasing Looks Like 8.    How to stop being a People Pleaser Follow Ilaria Petrucci: WEBSITE: ⁠ https://ilariapetruccicoaching.com/ INSTAGRAM: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/ilariapetrucci_coaching/ ⁠FACEBOOK: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/stoppleasingstartliving/ LINKTR: ⁠ https://linktr.ee/Ilariacoaching If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Apr 2, 2023 • 57min

Loving someone with Bipolar Disorder with Raiya Iverson

Raiya is a Transitionist, Reiki Master & Energy Worker, Student Midwife, and Herbalist. In this episode, Raiya shares her story of loving someone with a man with Bipolar Disorder The loss it created and the forgiveness and love that it gained 💚 Follow Raiya Iverson: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/earthsideholistic/ WEBSITE: https://www.earthsideholistic.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/EarthsideHolistic/ LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/earthsideholistic If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/   Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS):  01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Mar 12, 2023 • 59min

Emotionally Immature Parents with Dr. Stephanie Carinia

How often do we consider the emotional image of a parent and the impact it has on a child's development? We had an incredible conversation with Stephanie Carlinia, a clinical psychologist and trauma specialist from the Netherlands, who provided valuable insights on this topic and more. From parentification to emotional immaturity, join us as we dive deep into the emotional aspects of parenting and their consequences on children. Stephanie led us through a fascinating discussion on parentification and its symptoms, revealing how it can rob children of their joy and even lead to feelings of guilt. We also explored different types of emotionally immature parents, such as driven and passive parents, and the effects they may have on a child's self-worth and sense of security. Furthermore, Stephanie shared her thoughts on healing from parental rejection and the importance of becoming a better parent to our inner child first. As we wrapped up our conversation, we touched on the concepts of reactive versus mature parenting, self-regulation, emotional safety, and the role of a therapist in the healing process. With her expertise and compassionate approach, Stephanie encourages us all to reflect on our own parenting styles and prioritize emotional well-being for both ourselves and our children. Don't miss this insightful and transformative episode with Stephanie Carlinia. In this episode we speak about the 4 Types of Parenting types: The Emotional Type of Parent The Driven Type Parent The Passive Type Parent The Rejecting Type of Parent What does each look like and How you can start working on each Follow Dr. Stephanie Carinia: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/psychologiststephanie/ WEBSITE: https://www.psychologiststephanie.com/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/psychologiststephanie If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/ Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS): 01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Mar 5, 2023 • 1h 3min

Living with obsessive compulsive disorder with Simon Rinne

Living with mental illness sucks! It’s draining, stigmatising, and scary. It impacts our well-being, our relationships, our focus and drive. Because I’ve lived with mental illness for over 30 years. Depression, Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Burnout are all challenges I’ve been working through over the years… and I still am! Simons share is a personal story about living with OCD Importance of Talking about Mental Relationship with Alcohol Simon is also Cognitive Behavioural Therapist Follow Simon Rinne: WEBSITE: https://mindful-men.com.au/ INSTAGRAM:  https://www.instagram.com/mindful.men.aus/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/mindful.men.aus If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/ Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS): 01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Feb 19, 2023 • 58min

What is Imposter Syndrome? with Dr Emee Vida Estacio

Impostor Syndrome is characterized by a set of feelings of self-doubt about one's skills, talents, and competence, and/or a persistent fear of being 'found out' or exposed as a 'fraud'. From time to time or throughout their career, academics suffer from Impostor Syndrome, forcing some to never reach their potential and others to leave academia altogether.  Dr Emee Vida Estacio is Author | Psychologist | Founder, Self-Publishing Made Simple Follow Dr Emee Vida Estacio: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/emee_estacio/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/selfpublishingmadesimple YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@thepamecode6302 If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/ Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS): 01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539
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Feb 5, 2023 • 53min

Relief from Seasonal Depression and Grief with Naomi Geidel

I've navigated many transitions in life that include major moves to new countries, changing jobs, relationships, and building a business.   The most profound season I've walked through is extended singleness which leaves me childless not by choice.  This loss has touched every area of my life and in the depths of grief, it changed the confidence I had in myself and most things in the world.  It was super hard and not pretty, but I leaned into this difficult season and have come out the other side .... not perfect, yet stronger....not fully healed, yet healing. I am experiencing joy again, have the energy to create, and see better days ahead.  I want the same for others and know there is a path forward.  I'm here to walk with you and witness what needs to be witnessed so that healing can start to happen.  Get in touch with Naomi Geidel WEBSITE: https://www.naomigeidel.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/acreativepurpose/ LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/acreativepurpose FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/acreativepurpose/ If you would like to share your story and help inspire others or have a perspective on Mental Health, please contact me for our conversation. Follow The Show: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dontbeafraidtotalk/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Dontbeafraidtotalk/ WEBSITE: https://www.podpage.com/dontbeafraidtotalkpodcast/ Your Mental Health information line - Ireland Mental Health Ireland: 01 284 1166 Pieta House: 1800 247 247 Suicide or Survive (SOS): 01 272 2158 Aware: 1800 80 48 48 Samaritans: 116 123 LGBT Ireland: 1800 929 539

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