

her Self: IFS & Spiritual Entrepreneurship
Sara Avant Stover
Her Self is your go-to resource for deep, essential conversations (infused with a healthy dose of practicality), about spiritual women’s entrepreneurship that no one else is having.
Join author, Certified Internal Family Systems practitioner, and business strategist, Sara Avant Stover to explore the intersection between entrepreneurship and fulfilling your potential– so you can become the woman you truly are.
We’ll talk about how to get out of your own way so you can grow a business that’s abundant and sustainable while allowing you to be a force for good in the world.
Tune in and get inspired, while receiving actionable strategies to help you root into your wholeness, lead from your values, and work in ways that feel deeply aligned, so you can bring your true Self into the world through your business – and in every area of life.
Join author, Certified Internal Family Systems practitioner, and business strategist, Sara Avant Stover to explore the intersection between entrepreneurship and fulfilling your potential– so you can become the woman you truly are.
We’ll talk about how to get out of your own way so you can grow a business that’s abundant and sustainable while allowing you to be a force for good in the world.
Tune in and get inspired, while receiving actionable strategies to help you root into your wholeness, lead from your values, and work in ways that feel deeply aligned, so you can bring your true Self into the world through your business – and in every area of life.
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Jun 26, 2022 • 22min
108 | Creating a Daily Practice You Actually Do (and Enjoy)
Today I'm sharing an excerpt of a dharma talk I gave on the final morning of my retreat at Shambhala Mountain Center this May.
In it, I share practical ways to integrate these teachings and perspectives into your daily life– in ways that are both enjoyable and sustainable.
May this be of benefit!
Women's Yoga & Meditation Teacher Training: www.womensyogateachertraining.com
Sara's website: www.SaraAvantStover.com
Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#newsletter
Sara on Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara on Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthorMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Jun 19, 2022 • 59min
107 | Embodying All of Your Parts through IFS with Crystal Jones
As the second part in our series on Internal Family Systems, I've invited Certified IFS Therapist and the Assistant Trainer, Crystal Jones, to join us.
Crystal and I speak about her upcoming summer sabbatical (which I find very inspiring and sense you will too), what it's like to be the second BIPOC individual in a leadership role within the Internal Family Systems Institute, how she wants to use that role to serve and amplify more voices of those like her, and what it looks and feels like when we aim to embody all of our parts.
Crystal's joy and open-heartedness are infectious. I know you'll enjoy our connection as much as I did!
Crystal's website: www.lifesourcecounselingcenter.com
Abortion Healing Kit: www.womensyogateachertraining.com/abortionkit
Women's Yoga & Meditation Teacher Training: www.womensyogateachertraining.com
Sara's website: www.saraavantstover.com
Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#newsletter
Sara on Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara on Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthorMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
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May 22, 2022 • 1h 17min
106 | Transforming Your Inner Critic & Perfectionist through IFS with Chris Burris
Chris Burris, an expert in Internal Family Systems therapy, discusses transforming inner critics and perfectionists into allies through IFS therapy. He shares practical ways to use IFS for daily self-care, emphasizing the importance of compassion and connection in personal growth.
May 8, 2022 • 2h 48min
105 | Calling on the Divine Mother
In this dharma talk, an excerpt of one I offered in my online feminine spiritual practice community, Women's House of Wisdom, in the spring of 2020, I speak on the importance of calling on the archetype of the Divine Mother at this time in history, as well as practical ways to do that.
We touch on ancestor reverence, devotion, cultivating self-trust and spiritual authority, and more.
On this Mother's Day, may this remind us of the mother within us all, and She who loves and cares for us all, always.
France retreat: www.womensinsightretreat.com
Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#subscribe
Sara's website: www.saraavantstover.com
Sara on Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara on Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthorMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Apr 24, 2022 • 1h 15min
104 | Healing Codependency & Cultivating a Healthy Relationship with Carista Luminare
One of the themes I’ve worked with a lot in both my personal life, as well as in my private practice over the years is healing from narcissistic abuse and codepenency. And, the flip side, on cultivating a secure, healthy relationship (first with oneself, and then, ultimately, with an intimate partner).
To help go deeper into this exploration as a larger community, I’ve invited to join us today Carista Luminare, who has been nicknamed “The Narcissism Whisperer.”
Carista Luminare, Ph.D., has more than 40 years experience as a counselor, consultant and educator to individuals, couples and families. In her private counseling practice, she integrates her lifelong research on how our early bonding patterns profoundly impact our self-identity and adult relationship dynamics. She uses her unique attachment approach to rewire relationships from insecure to secure love and well-being.
Carista and I speak about:
-The four main attachment styles, which she calls LoveStyles
- How to heal your attachment style to become secure, if you had a traumatic or wounding experience in childhood
- Why narcissism needs to be explored as a spectrum, and how low-level narcissism can be healed (while more extreme levels cannot)
- Ways to recover from codependency and to reclaim your voice and sovereignty in an intimate relationship
- How to apply these pro-relational tools outside of intimate relationships
-And much more
If you’re wanting to experience healthy, secure relationships– romantically and otherwise, you’ll receive a lot from Carista’s wisdom today. Enjoy!
Carista's websites: www.confusedaboutlove.com & www.healingnarcissismandcodependency.com
France retreat: www.womensinsightretreat.com
Sara's website: www.saraavantstover.com
Sara on Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara on Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthor
Subscribe to Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#newsletterMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Mar 20, 2022 • 1h 16min
103 | Living a Feminine Approach to Spiritual Surrender with Miranda Macpherson
Here we are on the equinox, welcoming the season of rebirth in the Northern Hemisphere. In addition to introducing a new name and look to the podcast today, I'm also introducing you to Miranda Macpherson, a true modern-day embodiment of the divine feminine.
Miranda's an author, teacher with the Shift Network, kirtan musician and singer, and spiritual guide who shares a holistic approach to spiritual surrender and non-dual realization based on the practice of Ego Relaxation. She's the "real deal"– bringing three decades of teaching experience in what truly works to liberate unnecessary suffering and gain traction on the path of awakening.
In our conversation today we explore everything from major(positive)life shifts Miranda has made during the pandemic, key practices that have been sustaining her during this time, what a feminine approach to non-dual spirituality looks and feels like, how she approached menopause, ways to cultivate more trust in life (especially amidst all that's erupting in the world right now), and much more.
I know you’ll receive so much from Miranda's wisdom today. Enjoy.
Miranda's website: www.mirandamacpherson.com
Miranda's new mantra album: https://mirandamacpherson.com/streams-of-grace-album/
Sara's website: www.saraavantstover.com
Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#newsletter
France retreat: https://www.womensyogateachertraining.com/annualretreat
Sara on Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara on Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthorMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Feb 20, 2022 • 32min
102 | Overcoming Resistance to Your Spiritual Practice
Today, I want to speak about something that I get asked about a lot– and that’s how to cultivate a regular (ideally daily) spiritual practice. And, in turn, how to overcome resistance to this when it inevitably arises.
With the increasing levels of uncertainty we're facing in our world, grounding more deeply into ourselves through daily practice is more essential now than ever. We not only need it personally but also to help us show up in more skillful, open-hearted ways collectively.
In this talk, I share nine things you can focus on to help you start, or enhance, your practice. May this be of benefit!
Women's House of Wisdom & the Wisdom Circle: www.WomensHouseofWisdom.com
Annual Women's Insight Retreat in France: www.WomensInsightRetreat.com
Becoming Whole in 2022 (Free Workshop): www.BecomingWholeIFS.com
Sara's website: www.SaraAvantStover.com
Sara on Instagram: www.Instagram.com/SaraAvantStover
Sara on Facebook: www.Facebook.com/SaraAvantStoverAuthor
Join Sara's newsletter: www.SaraAvantStover.com/#newsletterMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Feb 13, 2022 • 1h 10min
101 | How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relationships with Jayson Gaddis
In time for Valentine’s Day, today's conversation is aimed to help us all have more fulfilling, connected relationships– by turning towards conflict (rather than running in the other direction!).
Plus, today I’m welcoming our first male guest (during the interview I share why I’m shifting towards having mixed genders on the podcast from now on).
Jayson Gaddis, a fellow Boulderite whom I’ve known for many years, is an author and relationship export and coach. He's joining us to speak about his new book, “Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relationships.”
We talk about the one thing that has been helping him the most throughout the pandemic, ways to navigate a recent fall-out I had with a friend recently, what the price tag of avoiding conflict is, a few essential skills you can start incorporating right away, and more.
May our conversation be of benefit!
Jayson's website: www.jaysongaddis.com
Jayson on Instagram: www.instagram.com/jaysongaddis
Jason on Facebook: www.facebook.com/jaysongaddisfanpage
Women's House of Wisdom & the Wisdom Circle: www.WomensHouseofWisdom.com
Annual Women's Insight Retreat in France: www.WomensInsightRetreat.com
Becoming Whole in 2022 (Free Workshop): www.BeconingWholeIFS.com
Sara's website: www.SaraAvantStover.com
Sara on Instagram: www.Instagram.com/SaraAvantStover
Sara on Facebook: www.Facebook.com/SaraAvantStoverAuthor
Join Sara's newsletter: www.SaraAvantStover.com/#subscribeMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Jan 30, 2022 • 51min
100 | Ask Me Anything: Red Flags, Skincare, Favorite Books, Daily Practices & More
Welcome to the 100th episode of the podcast! In celebration of this, I answer your questions-- on everything from spotting red flags (to avoid destructive relationships), my favorite skincare products, the books I gift most often, the daily rhythms and practices that help me feel my best, and more.
Thank you for listening during these first 100 episodes, and, if you're new here, welcome. Enjoy!
Women's House of Wisdom & The Wisdom Circle: www.WomensHouseofWisdom.com
Free Workshop: www.BecomingWholeIFS.com
Sara's website: www.SaraAvantStover.com
Sara's newsletter: www.SaraAvantStover.com/#newsletter
Instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/SaraAvantStoverAuthorMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular
Jan 9, 2022 • 1h 6min
99 | 2022 Astrology & Creating More Spaciousness with Heidi Rose Robbins
Hello friends: Welcome to 2022. I’m inviting on the podcast as the first guest of the New Year, a long-time friend and colleague, Heidi Rose Robbins.
Heidi and I met about 14-ish years ago while attending a retreat with our shared teacher, Sofia Diaz, at the Mount Madonna Retreat Center just outside of Santa Cruz, California.
We’ve stayed in touch since then, and I have always appreciated Heidi’s poetic way of living, her compassionate and concise astrology readings, and her heart-full presence.
In today’s conversation, we speak about what to keep an eye out for in terms of the astrology for 2022, as well as a review of what came to pass in 2021.
We talk about the rituals and practices that have been helping Heidi and me the most during the pandemic, and about some big, brave shifts she’s making in her life this year to better fulfilling her intention of deeper listening and spaciousness.
Enjoy our conversation!
Women's House of Wisdom & The Wisdom Circle: www.SaraAvantStover.com/#wisdomcircle
France Retreat: www.SaraAvantStover.com/#francertreat
Heidi's website: www.heidiroserobbins.com
Heidi's Instagram: www.instagram.com/heidiroserobbins
Sara's website: www.saraavantstover.com
Sara's instagram: www.instagram.com/saraavantstover
Sara's Facebook: www.facebook.com/saraavantstoverauthor
Sara's newsletter: www.saraavantstover.com/#newsletterMentioned in this episode:DYDB 2026 Regular


