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Jun 20, 2023 • 21min

Episode 131: The #1 Threat to Marriage (Or Any Relationship, Really!)

Welcome to Episode 131 of the Being Human Podcast:  The #1 Threat to Marriage (Or Any Relationship, Really!) This week Dr. Greg reveals the greatest threat to marriage, relationships, and living out our universal call to holiness while also breaking open how to combat this danger through following the example of Christ.    Highlights from the episode:  The purpose and goal of marriage as a vocation through which we’re called to become saints;  Singlehood as a time to focus on understanding oneself and one's purpose while cultivating intimacy with God; Dating as a time of discernment in which you can learn more about yourself and another person to determine if they are a potential recipient of one's full gift of self; Engagement as a time to discover the dreams of your partner;  Following the example of Christ in that He came “to serve rather than to be served”; The importance of overcoming our urge for immediate gratification and learning to sit with and learn from our desires;  Marriage as a vocation of mutual self-service while parenthood (whether biologically or spiritually) is a unidirectional self-gift.   Resources mentioned or relevant: Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of Love) by Pope Francis;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to Built to Last - Dr. Greg’s 8-part relationship course, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE (weekly Mentor-hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more)! Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more; Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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Jun 13, 2023 • 29min

Episode 130: How to Stop Internally Beating Yourself Up

Welcome to Episode 130 of the Being Human Podcast:  How to Stop Internally Beating Yourself Up Each of us has different internal parts, and some parts - especially our critical parts - can seem louder than others. How are we supposed to love all of these parts of ourselves, especially if certain parts want to act in unhealthy ways? This week, Dr. Greg takes a deeper dive into the concept of “parts work” while breaking open how it’s possible to love every part of ourselves - even those parts we consider to be “bad.”    Highlights from the episode:  We all have different parts of ourselves, and none of them are “bad”;  Why it’s healthy to allow all of our parts to give voice to their perspective, even if what a particular part wants is not what we decide to do;  How taking time to understand where our desire for certain unhealthy behaviors comes from can help to reveal the deeper reasons for the behavior;  Healing as a process of reframing and “repurposing” parts to help them take on a different job;  The importance of self-awareness in the process of creatively redirecting problematic parts; Loving and accepting all parts of ourselves helps build rapport to work with them towards positive change.   Resources mentioned or relevant: Past Being Human Episodes on Internal Family Systems and Parts Work:  Episode #34: A New Theory! With a Catholic Lens;  Episode #35: Why Do I Feel Like I Have Conflicting Parts? w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski;  Episode #47: How to Turn Your Inner Worst Enemies Into Your Inner Best Friends;  Episode #98: Are You Gaslighting Yourself? Introduction to Internal Family Systems by Richard Schwartz; No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz;   Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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Jun 6, 2023 • 43min

Episode 129: The Importance of Staying Close to the Poor

Welcome to Episode 129 of the Being Human Podcast:  The Importance of Staying Close to the Poor What can we learn by staying close to the poor? Find out in this week’s episode! We’re sharing part of a lecture from our new CPMAP Certification Program in which Dr. Greg opens up about the powerful impact of the life and work of Fr. Benedict Groeschel, including how he exemplified recognizing the presence of Christ in the poor and why it’s important for us to do the same.   Discussed in the episode:  The danger of believing we can create solutions for every discomfort; Self-sufficiency as a roadblock to dependence on God;  Being close to the poor as an important aspect of following Christ; What we can learn from Fr. Benedict Groeschel’s example of living out the gift of poverty; Fr. Benedict’s attempts to reform the Fransicans and the suffering at the end of his life due to dementia;  How suffering can purify us is we allow it; A reflection and meditation from Fr. Benedict Groeschel with journaling questions from Dr. Greg.   Resources mentioned or relevant: What is the CPMAP? Episode #82: Changing the Rules: Creating a Catholic Standard for Mental Health Listen to the first episode in our 12-part series breaking open the content in the CPMAP curriculum; Spiritual Passages: The Psychology of Spiritual Development by Fr. Benedict Groeschel;   Need help? Schedule a free 30-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more; Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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May 30, 2023 • 20min

Episode 128: Can I Just Pray It Away? (A Mentorship Message)

Welcome to Episode 128 of the Being Human Podcast:  Can I Just Pray It Away? (A Mentorship Message) Is it possible to “pray away” the difficulties in our life? This week, Dr. Greg opens up the archives to share audio from a Mentorship** message addressing this question. In the episode, he offers insight on how we can best approach suffering using principles from St. Ignatius of Loyola’s discernment of spirits.   **For those new to Integrated Daily Dialogic Mentorship (IDDM or “Mentorship”), our model offers daily accompaniment through the exchange of private, voice-recorded messages shared between you and a trained Mentor. This message from Dr. Greg to his client is shared with permission.    Discussed in the episode:  Distinguishing between spiritual and non-spiritual desolation;   The importance of initiating small changes to improve non-spiritual desolation; Looking for moments when change can be made vs. waiting for change to happen;  How ruminations add weight to our burdens and increase suffering;   A reminder that change does not happen overnight; Noticing the reaction of the different parts within ourselves.     Resources mentioned or relevant: Interested in IDDM (Mentorship)? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to learn more and discuss how we can support you! Discover more about how IDDM (Mentorship) works;  One Simple Way to Deal With Feeling Overwhelmed blog article;  Read The Mindful Catholic by Dr. Greg Bottaro;  More on Healing Through Catholic Mindfulness on the blog;   Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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May 23, 2023 • 20min

Episode 127: "I'm Gonna Want to Divorce You At Some Point," w/ Barbra Bottaro

Welcome to Episode 127 of the Being Human Podcast:  "I'm Gonna Want to Divorce You At Some Point," w/ Barbra Bottaro In this week’s episode, Dr. Greg gets personal on the podcast! His wife Barbra joins him to discuss some of the difficulties they grappled with as they entered marriage, highlighting the need for awareness of how our own family of origin issues can impact our vocations.    Discussed in the episode:  Being aware of the “language” one learns in one’s family of origin;  How experiences in our life teach us what to expect when relationships get difficult;  The importance of open communication;  Specific hurdles Dr. Greg and Barbra overcame during their engagement;   The temptation to self-reliance in marriage;  Importance of seeking healing from family of origin wounds;  The sacrament of marriage as a purification of one’s self-centeredness.    Resources mentioned or relevant: Respond to let us know if you want to hear more from Dr. Greg and Barbra!  Download The Integrated App to access the free Marriage Mini-Course;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to A Marriage Built to Last - Dr. Greg’s relationships course; Read Living the Sacrament of Marriage on the blog; Watch How Mindfulness Can Impact Relationships on YouTube; Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available; Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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May 16, 2023 • 1h 6min

Episode 126: Part 2 of Following the Holy Spirit, Theology of the Body, CatholicPsych…and Other Tangents: Interview w/ Dr. Greg

Welcome to Episode 126 of the Being Human Podcast:  Part 2 of Following the Holy Spirit, Theology of the Body, CatholicPsych…and Other Tangents: An Interview w/ Dr. Greg Continued from last week, here’s Part Two of Dr. Greg’s conversation with Fr. Sam Kachuba and co-host Matt Sperrazza on The Tangent podcast! In this episode, the group dives deep into discussion on topics ranging from death anxiety, Matt’s ADHD, Catholic mindfulness, Fr. Sam’s experience in Mentorship, and how Dr. Greg was able to publish the early plays of Pope St. John Paul II.    Discussed in the episode:  Fr. Sam’s comparison of the sacrament of confession and Mentorship;  IDDM as more personal and requiring more vulnerability than regular therapy despite being a voice-only modality; The spiritual exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola;  Overview of the CPMAP and Dr. Greg’s business “plan”;  How do I follow the Holy Spirit if paying attention is intrinsically hard? Misconceptions about mindfulness and what paying attention actually looks like;  The goal of Catholic Mindfulness and how it differs from the Buddhist notion of mindfulness;  How death anxiety is at the root of every defense mechanism, personality disorder, and negative psychological experience; The resurrection of the body as the antidote and solution to our deepest fear;  The importance of becoming aware of your interior life without judgement;  Overview of Pope St. John Paul II’s personalism and what it means to “become who you are.”   Resources mentioned or relevant: The Tangent w/ Fr. Sam Kachuba - a podcast by Veritas; Setting the Stage: Early Plays of St. John Paul II;  Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat;  Being Human Episode 119: The Trouble with TikTok;  Books by Dr. Greg: The Mindful Catholic, Consecration to Jesus Through St. Joseph, and Sitting Like a Saint; Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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May 9, 2023 • 52min

Episode 125: Following the Holy Spirit, Theology of the Body, CatholicPsych…and Other Tangents: An Interview w/ Dr. Greg (Part 1)

Welcome to Episode 125 of the Being Human Podcast:  Following the Holy Spirit, Theology of the Body, CatholicPsych…and Other Tangents: An Interview w/ Dr. Greg (Part 1)   In this week’s episode, Dr. Greg goes on a tangent (lots of them actually)! As a recent guest on his pastor’s podcast, The Tangent with Fr. Sam Kachuba, Dr. Greg shared his thoughts about the field of psychology, why integration is important, what we can learn from brain research, and much more.  Here’s part one of the re-published conversation with Fr. Sam Kachuba and co-host Matt Sperrazza!   Discussed in the episode:  Do people rooted in their faith tend to avoid therapy? The need to balance incorporating one’s faith into therapy while also avoiding over-spiritualization of issues;  Resistance that happens when your therapist’s beliefs don’t align with your own; The path toward perfection as being in and through our humanity; The integrated, incarnational way to approach problems (you are your body, but you are not JUST your body); What is a telomere (and what can it tell us about the faith)? Why integrating scientific research into an understanding of psychology can help us in how we live out the Catholic faith;  The history of the CatholicPsych Institute and the development of IDDM.   Resources mentioned or relevant: The Tangent w/ Fr. Sam Kachuba podcast;  The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis;  Books by Dr. Greg: The Mindful Catholic, Consecration to Jesus Through St. Joseph, and Sitting Like a Saint; Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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May 2, 2023 • 38min

Episode 124: A Letter to Catholic Mental Health Professionals

Welcome to Episode 124 of the Being Human Podcast:  A Letter to Catholic Mental Health Professionals It’s time to clear the air! In this episode, Dr. Greg extends a peace offering while sharing a heartfelt message with Catholic mental health professionals.    Discussed in this episode: A mea culpa from Dr. Greg; Why it’s important to acknowledge the morally questionable developments in the field of secular psychology in order to determine a way forward for Catholic professionals;   Isolation and loneliness as one of the many challenges that mental health professionals encounter in their field; The siloing effect that happens in ministry and mental health care and the importance of maintaining connection and collaboration with one another; Recognition that more support is something Catholic mental health professionals are in need of;  Dr. Greg’s desire to nurture deep engagement and conversation around an approach to Catholic mental health care; What’s needed to build a truly Catholic approach to psychology;   Faith, reason, and science as three parts of a whole that bring us to the truth about the human person;  A call for older Catholic professionals in the field of psychology to acknowledge recent developments that have made it difficult for younger generations to pursue a career in mental health;  Dr. Greg’s goal of providing aid and support to all Catholics in vocations or careers in which they are bearing the emotional burdens of others.    Resources mentioned or relevant: Past Being Human Episodes:  Episode 123: Fake Science and Real Compassion; Episode 122: There Is No Real Marriage Therapy; Episode 121: How the APA is Schizophrenic; Episode 81: The Lies of the American Psychological Association;  Episode 72: The DSM Disease (Part One); Catholic Psychotherapy Association;   Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  
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Apr 25, 2023 • 42min

Episode 123: Fake Science and Real Compassion

Welcome to Episode 123 of the Being Human Podcast:  Fake Science and Real Compassion In this week’s episode, Dr. Greg is launching grenades at organizational evils in the field of secular psychology! In it, he outlines the need for both philosophy and science in discovering objective truth while also reminding us all about the importance of compassion and mercy towards individual persons.    Discussed in this episode: Who gets to decide what is defined as ordered for the human person?  The error of secular culture’s ascribing the fullness of truth as that which comes through science; The role of philosophy in arriving at objective truth; Why we need both reason and faith to arrive at eternal, immaterial and invisible truths;  The APA as a political, pseudo-scientific organization fueled by cultural sentiment; The lack of objectivity in the social sciences; Rejecting state-defined paths and modalities as the only way to help those who are suffering from mental health burdens; The core distinction between a Catholic worldview vs. a secular worldview; How the courage to decry organizational evils needs to be balanced with a  recognition and reverence for the dignity and goodness of the individual person; The call of Christians to stand up for truth, even to the point of death, while remaining loving until the end.   Resources mentioned or relevant: Past Being Human Podcast Episodes: Episode 121: How the APA is Schizophrenic; Episode 81: The Lies of the American Psychological Association;  Episode 72: The DSM Disease (Part One);  What Is A Woman? documentary by Matt Walsh;  Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!
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Apr 18, 2023 • 53min

Episode 122: There Is No Real Marriage Therapy

Welcome to Episode 122 of the Being Human Podcast:  There Is No Real Marriage Therapy On this week’s podcast, Dr. Greg continues to uncover issues in the secular field of psychology by breaking open ways that marriage therapy as it exists today lacks what is necessary to truly support married couples. First on the list? Lack of a proper understanding of marriage.    Discussed in this episode: The purpose of marriage; How all “marriage therapy” research, publications, modalities, and techniques are not actually focused on marriage;  The lack of understanding about what it means to be a man or woman made in God’s image in a vocation leading to union with Him; What's missing from Relationship Enhancement Therapy, Gottman Institute research, and Imago Institute theory;  Catholic magisterial teaching on marriage vs. misinformation commonly taught;  What does it mean that through marriage we’re called to become saints? How errors in the writings of St. Thomas Aquinas related to women have impacted our understanding of gender roles; The current demonization of masculinity as a retaliation against the demonization of women in the past; The importance of the complementarity between men and women in marriage; What does a truly Catholic marriage therapy look like?         Resources mentioned or relevant: Register for our upcoming Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Church documents referenced:  Mulieris Dignitatum by Pope St. John Paul II Amoris Laetitia by Pope Francis Letter to the Bishops of the Catholic Church On the Collaboration of Men and Women in the Church and in the World, by Cardinal Ratzinger (Pope Benedict XVI) The Theology of the Body by Pope St. John Paul II Sections of the Summa Theologiae referenced:  The production of the woman (Prima Pars, Q. 92) The vices opposed to perseverance (Secunda Secundae Partis, Q. 138) Episode #96: Yes, I Was Wrong (Dialectic w/ Brian Butler);   Episode #75: Gender Fluidity or Complementarity (part one of a four-part series); The Gottman Institute, Imago Relationship Therapy, Relationship Enhancement Model;   Need help? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;  Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more;  Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more!   Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!  

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