
Charting Toward Intimacy
Looking for answers to the questions you don't want to Google? Not sure where to get help when your sexual life is on the rocks and everything the secular culture has to offer is only making things worse? Welcome to Charting Toward Intimacy where you learn to actually enjoy and desire good, holy sex with your spouse. Hosted by Ellen Holloway, Catholic Sex and Intimacy Coach.
Latest episodes

May 31, 2022 • 31min
Prudence vs Generosity | Ep. 72
Ever had the thought that Prudence and Generosity are opposites? So have we, but after careful study, we've realized they are inextricably linked and one really leads to the other if we are practicing a life of virtue! Did you listen to last episode? The FREE Little Way of Marriage Workshop is available at any time, head to http://www.littlewayofmarriage.com/cti___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

May 23, 2022 • 33min
Licit and Illicit acts with Dr. Sarah Bartel (Part 1) | Ep. 71
Dr. Sarah Bartel joins us to chat about licit and illicit acts when it comes to sex. With her doctorate in moral theology, she's definitely a great person to ask these questions to! Sarah also shares about she and her husband's marriage workshop in which they have a great module on sex which includes licit and illicit acts. I picked Sarah's brain about a couple common questions I get on the topic namely female orgasm, manual stimulation, and lingerie! Interested in checking out the premium Abundant workshop? https://abundant.canafeast.com/ctiIf you purchase the abundant workshop though this link you'll also get a 1-hour coaching session with me.If you have more questions about licit and illicit acts, book a coaching session with me below!___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

May 16, 2022 • 36min
Your Pelvic Floor is NOT a Magical Unicorn | Ep. 70
Jenn of Tighten Your Tinkler joins us to talk about the pelvic floor and how pelvic floor disfunction is something that is common, but not normal. I repeat, NOT NORMAL. If you're seeing signs of pelvic floor disfunction, that's something you need to start looking into so that it doesn't become a bigger issue later in life.Personal disclaimer: I signed up for their signature program and I cannot sing its praises enough. I loved the program and it helped with my personal symptoms I was seeing after 2 children. I highly encourage all of you to check out the Tighten Your Tinkler program and consider signing up!Purchase the Tighten Your Tinkler Signature Program here!Here's the quiz we mentioned on the episode.___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

May 2, 2022 • 38min
Sex and Arousal in the Different Phases | Ep. 69
Sex and arousal is very different throughout the cycle and Kathleen and I get into specifics about things that will work and things that won't during different phases of the cycle. **Marked explicit because we talk about specific positions, as always, please exercise prudence when listening to Charting Toward Intimacy episodes where others can hear**___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Apr 25, 2022 • 23min
Christy's Infertility Story - Natural Remedies and Restorative Medicine | Ep. 68
This Infertility Awareness Week, we're sharing another story of a woman who has been through infertility and found help in natural remedies and restorative medicine, especially diet and rest! Listen in as Christy Murray shares her journey with us and her tips.Links:www.healthylifequiz.comChristy's Website: www.blueveilwellness.comFree download mentioned on the episode www.fertilityboostingfoods.com___________________________________Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions!Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or something we talked about in this episode?Click here to schedule a free 15 minute coaching call. Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comThe Charting Toward Intimacy Patreon Community is now closed, if you would like to support the podcast, please consider purchasing one of our courses. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Apr 18, 2022 • 34min
It felt like the church kept saying no... | Ep. 67
This is a follow up episode to episode 66! If you haven't listened to Tricia's story, be sure to go back and take a listen to the episode right before this! We have Tricia back to share the thoughts and feelings of facing infertility, especially the feeling that God and the church kept saying no instead of actually helping her. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Apr 11, 2022 • 31min
Tricia's Infertility Journey | NaPro, IUI, IVF, varicose seals, and perforated condoms, oh my! | Ep. 66
Tricia joins us to share her NFP and infertility journey and how NaPro played a huge roll in her and her husband being able to conceive a child. Interested in learning more about IVF or perforated condoms? Check out the episodes on IVF with Melissa Buccan episodes 50 and 51! Part 1 and Part 2___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Apr 4, 2022 • 32min
Stories of Living NFP in Real Life with Kids (and Other People) | Ep. 65
Get ready to laugh. Kathleen and I are sharing stories from the trenches of NFP life. The stories that happen when your kids find your "stuff," the stories that happen when you host a podcast about NFP and someone recognizes your name at a wedding, the stories that happen when you meet another Catholic mom and finally breach the "do you use NFP?" question. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Mar 28, 2022 • 35min
Cycle Syncing Your Life | Ep. 64
We're joined by Kerigan (@catholicgirlwellness) to talk about working your life in step with your cycle can change everything! Listen in for tips on scheduling around your cycle and modifying things like workouts, social engagements, and work if you can! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses

Mar 21, 2022 • 33min
Crappy Charting (and how to overcome it) | Ep. 63
Raise your hand if you're a crappy charter! Kathleen and Ellen both are sometimes and we talk about why it's not good to be a crappy charter and how to overcome it if you're in a season of crappy charting. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Reach out at instagram.com/chartingtowardintimacy/ or email us at ellen@vinesinfullbloom.comReady to improve your sex life and take it to the next level? Check out our courses: vinesinfullbloom.com/courses