

Girls Gotta Eat
Dear Media
Consider this your (comedic) education in dating, sex, and relationships. Girls Gotta Eat is a top podcast since 2018 co-hosted by Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg and covering everything from breakups to bl**jobs, finances to fetishes. New episodes drop every Monday so you can start your week EATING, then dive into The Snack (a lighter episode about pop culture) on Thursdays!
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Jan 22, 2024 • 1h 36min
The Truth About Millennials with Kate Kennedy
We are so excited to have the queen of millennial musings herself, Kate Kennedy, back on the show. We discuss her new book One in a Millennial, the motivation for sharing the nostalgia and real stories behind this generation of woman, the paradox we've faced in our career paths, body image in the 90s/early aughts and its effects on us today, and how religion/purity culture can shape your sexuality to the point of confusion at best and trauma at worst. We reminisce on the mall glory days, our favorite Bath & Body Works scents, why Ashley was a fashion icon in high school, and where Rayna got her prom dresses. Kate also opens up about her indecisiveness to have children (spoiler alert: she had one), and the advice NOT to give someone struggling with this decision. Before Kate joins us, we are revealing how long we stayed on the family plan, ranting about the pet peeve all guys do around the house, and having an important discussion about plane safety and flight attendant humor. AND we debut the Vibes Only cock ring and spill the tea on its name. Enjoy! Find Kate on instagram @katekennedy, check out her podcast Be There in Five, and get her new book One in a Millennial. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for more info and shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Wildgrain: Get $30 off your first box, plus free croissants in every box, for a limited time at wildgrain.com/gge to start your subscription. Chomps: Get 20% off your first order and free shipping at chomps.com/gge. Blueland: Get 15% off your first order at blueland.com/gge. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 15, 2024 • 1h 25min
Should You Make a List for Finding a Partner?
Should you make a list when looking for a partner? The hosts discuss the pros and cons, share their own lists, and talk about misconceptions. They also dive into pop culture, talk about the best lighting for hot sex, and share foreplay pet peeves. Plus, they discuss their criteria for finding a partner, the importance of acknowledging personal trauma, and the evolution of priorities in different life stages.

Jan 8, 2024 • 1h 13min
Getting Sober and Dating After Divorce with Brittany Schmitt
Comedian Brittany Schmitt shares her story of getting sober and navigating dating after divorce. They discuss the challenges of making new friends after a relationship ends, getting sober when your spouse isn't, and the difficulties of dating while sober. They also delve into the importance of finding love beyond superficiality and share hilarious experiences with sliding into DMs and discussing body counts.

Jan 1, 2024 • 1h 42min
Stop Trying to Be a “Good” Woman feat. Author Elise Loehnen
Author Elise Loehnen discusses the misconceptions around being a 'good woman' and how the seven deadly sins can actually be empowering. Topics include embracing pride, using envy to figure out desires, owning lustfulness, and the societal policing of women's bodies. They also discuss the challenges of conforming to beauty standards, the pressure around female sexuality, and the importance of expressing emotions in a healthy way.

Dec 18, 2023 • 1h 15min
All the Tea of 2023
In this podcast, the hosts recap their personal lives, pop culture moments, and the snackhead community. They share highlights and lowlights, discuss important celebrity breakups, and reflect on their friendship. They also talk about a mind-blowing tarot reading, dating experiences, and changes in their audience's lives. Other topics include crying on voice memos, experiences with Hinge dating app, personal and professional highlights, and reflections on the past year. They discuss menstrual side effects, slowing down and prioritizing quality of life, and 2023 pop culture moments. The importance of making decisions and taking control is also emphasized.

Dec 11, 2023 • 1h 35min
How to Break Cycles and Have Empowered Relationships with Dr. Nicole LePera
Dr. Nicole LePera, holistic psychologist and bestselling author, discusses topics such as understanding unhealthy relationship patterns, fear of rejection, trauma bonding, misinterpreting behaviors, and the dynamics of her throuple. The hosts also share stories about a plane altercation, observations about sisters, and attending a star-studded event.

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Dec 4, 2023 • 1h 37min
Why We Fake Orgasms and How to Stop feat. Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin joins the hosts to discuss faking orgasms, how to stop doing it, and how to talk to your partner about it. They also touch on men having difficulty reaching orgasm. Other topics include funny Thanksgiving experiences, new merch, iPhone features, silicone handcuffs, sex toys, and exploring different sexual activities.

Nov 27, 2023 • 1h 16min
How Much Should You Share About Your Partner to Your Friends?
Should you tell your friends the size of your partner’s d*ck? What about their political beliefs? We’re discussing all the things you share about your partner with friends and family, from sexual details to fights to politics to cheating. We break down the differences in what you should share/shouldn’t share, the impact oversharing can have, the types of friends you can tell certain things to, and more. Before we get into the topic, we’re joined by a special guest (Rayna’s hot neighbor!) and he tells us some of his turnoffs and clears up a beef with Ashley. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Zbiotics: Get 15% off at zbiotics.com/gge and use the code GGE. Microdose: Get free shipping and 30% off your first order at microdose.com and use code GGE. Hello Fresh: Get free breakfast for life at hellofresh.com/ggefree + code GGEFREE. One breakfast item per box while subscription is active. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Nov 20, 2023 • 1h 27min
Shift Your Energy, Change Your Life feat. Alyssa Amoroso
Relationship and dating advice expert Alyssa Amoroso joins the hosts to discuss the power of shifting your energy and making positive changes in your life. They touch on topics such as dating app advice, insecurities, moving to LA, letting go of therapy, and navigating relationships. The hosts also share Thanksgiving hookup stories and personal updates. Follow Alyssa on Instagram at @publyssity.

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Nov 13, 2023 • 1h 23min
Understanding (and Healing) Your Original Wounds with Therapist Vienna Pharaon
Therapist Vienna Pharaon discusses healing work and original wounds, sharing her own story. She explains how to understand and heal these wounds, stop holding yourself back in relationships, and highlights the positive side of red flags. Breakups are not failures.