

Girls Gotta Eat
Dear Media
Consider this your (comedic) education in dating, sex, and relationships. Girls Gotta Eat is a top podcast since 2018 co-hosted by Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg and covering everything from breakups to bl**jobs, finances to fetishes. New episodes drop every Monday so you can start your week EATING, then dive into The Snack (a lighter episode about pop culture) on Thursdays!
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Nov 6, 2023 • 1h 23min
Have We Overcorrected When It Comes to Dating?
In this podcast, the hosts discuss the concept of overcorrecting in dating and setting too many boundaries and rules. They talk about their recent product launch and share highlights from their Halloween shows. The hosts also discuss their attraction to Libra men and their appreciation for their Libra friends. They touch on topics such as coordinating Thanksgiving plans, reality shows, and recommended comedy specials. They discuss first date ideas and dating boundaries, and promote their tour and products.

Oct 30, 2023 • 55min
When Nudes Go Wrong
If you’ve ever experienced the nightmare of sending a nude to the wrong person (or just have the fear inside of you), you’re not alone. We’re chatting all about nudes gone wrong – sending to the wrong person (family included), uploading to social media, accidental airdrops, and more. We’re also giving tips on how to avoid these incidents, and on the other (aka toxic) side, purposely using the “oops wrong person” as a power play in a situationship. Before we go full send on nudes, we’re talking about our multiple Halloween costumes and unpacking a shocking birthday cake incident. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Living Proof: Get 25% off all orders over $50 at livingproof.com/gge and use code GGE25 to take advantage of their biggest sale of the year. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 23, 2023 • 1h 33min
Glowing Up and Growing Up with Andrew Collin
We have the hilarious and beloved Andrew Collin back in studio for another banger. We’re talking about glowing up later in life, self-confidence, moving across the country and going through transitional (and often tough) times with your partner, and the fights you get in when you live with someone (especially about food). We’re also talking about the journey from being a binge drinker to a moderate drinker and sharing crazy drunk stories from our past. Before he joins us, we catch up on Rayna meeting a guy on a plane, an accidental/embarrassing message Ashley sent to her bf, and comparing current relationships to past ones. Enjoy! Follow Andrew on Instagram @andrewtcollin and check out his podcast Puddles with Andrew and Brenna. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/gge. Hello Fresh: Get 50% off plus free shipping at hellofresh.com/50gge and use code 50GGE. ZBiotics: Get 15% off at zbiotics.com/gge and use the code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 16, 2023 • 1h 19min
The Lies We’re Told About Sex
In this episode, the hosts debunk common myths about sex, from blowjobs to body counts. They discuss the importance of communication and using lube for a pleasurable experience. The speakers also touch on the timing of blow jobs in relationships and the misconception that both partners need to orgasm for great sex.

Oct 9, 2023 • 1h 34min
Do You Feel Like You’ve Lost Yourself? with Dr. Sara Kuburic
Existential psychotherapist Dr. Sara Kuburic joins the hosts to discuss self loss, self discovery, healing, and finding happiness. They explore the concept of losing oneself in compromises and relationships, living for experiences rather than outcomes, and the importance of self-acceptance and body appreciation. They also discuss the trend of therapists as social media influencers and touch on Taylor Swift's relationships and the nostalgia for 90s supermodels.

Oct 2, 2023 • 1h 32min
Breaking Down Birth Control with Dr. Jolene Brighten
We have the long-awaited Dr. Jolene Brighten in the studio to break down what’s normal (and not normal) when it comes to birth control and our bodies. We’re covering menstrual cycles, how birth control affects our sex drive and lubrication, the fertility awareness method, Plan B, and even “whisky vagina.” Jolene also explains how to get off the pill and how to optimize your health both on and off the pill. Before she joins us, we discuss our own birth control methods (and Ashley has a big update). Enjoy! Follow Jolene on Instagram @drjolenebrighten, get her latest book Is This Normal?, and find more on her website. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE. Buffy: Get $20 off your order visit buffy.co and enter promo code GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 25, 2023 • 1h 15min
Getting On and Getting Off the Apps
Fire up your phone, it’s an app episode! We’re talking about getting on the apps (the energy to put out and headspace to be in when you’re looking for someone, getting back out there after a breakup and the type of people to look for) and getting OFF the apps (when to pause or delete your account, talking to someone you’re dating about their app status, and more). We’re also discussing whether you’d match with your current partner on an app, and Rayna’s elite Hinge prompt answer. Before we get into the topic, we’re sharing the full update on Rusty (IYKYK), and recapping our Europe trip with a shocking thing Ashley found out about Rayna, plus revealing our new Vibes Only products. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: HelloFresh: Get 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months at hellofresh.com/50gge and use code 50GGE. AG1: Get a free one-year supply of Vitamin D3 + K2 and five free travel packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/gge. Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at quince.com/gge. Hinge: Download Hinge https://hin.ge/GirlsGottaEat and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 18, 2023 • 1h 28min
Serial Cheating and Interracial Dating with Ciara Miller and Mya Allen of Summer House
We absolutely loved chatting and laughing with Ciara Miller and Mya Allen of Bravo’s Summer House! We discuss serial cheaters (being cheated on with multiple people, crazy levels of lying and deception, being blindsided, shame around telling your family and friends, being able to trust again), as well as interracial dating and when partners don’t understand your life experience. On the lighter side, we talk about reality TV, not liking your bestie when you first met them, fingering, butt stuff, vibrators in the bedroom, and more. We also play a ridiculous, sex-themed round of Would You Rather? Before our guests join us, we’re popping off about Beyoncé, boxers, and bat mitzvahs. Enjoy! Follow Mya and Ciara on Instagram @myallen and @ciaramiller___ and listen to their podcast Codependents. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Jenni Kayne: Get 15% off your first Jenni Kayne order at jennikayne.com and use code GGE at checkout. Lume: Get $5 off your starter pack when you use promo code GGE at lumedeodorant.com/offer/gge. Daily Harvest: Get up to $65 off your first box at dailyharvest.com/gge. Helix: Get 20% off all mattress orders + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/gge with code HELIXPARTNER. Living Proof: Get 15% your first purchase at livingproof.com/gge and use code 15GGE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 11, 2023 • 1h 31min
When You Know You Know feat. Matteo Lane
We are SO excited to welcome back the incomparable Matteo Lane! He fills us in on his recent whirlwind romance and wedding (with a special call-in from the new husband himself), gives us all the impressions (Barbara Corcoran, anyone?), and opens up about his insecurities. We also talk/laugh about flying and crying on planes, Selling Sunset, his career taking off, hair implants, and more. Before Matteo joins us, we’re talking about liking/not liking your best friend’s partner, Rayna’s recent dating energy, and Ashley’s airport hookup, plus new recs. Enjoy! Follow Matteo on Instagram @matteolane and visit his website for tour dates and more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Fresh: Get 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months at hellofresh.com/50gge and use code 50GGE. Buffy: Get $20 off your order at buffy.co with promo code GGE. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE. Hinge: Download Hinge https://hin.ge/GirlsGottaEat and share your dating intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. Skims: Get free shipping on orders over $75 at skims.com. AG1: Get a free 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D and five free travel packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 28, 2023 • 1h 30min
Free Yourself From Family Drama feat. Nedra Glover Tawwab
She’s baaack! We’re so excited to be joined again by therapist and bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab to talk about family – identifying and addressing unhealthy relationships, setting boundaries, and being able to live a more drama-free life. We discuss what dysfunction looks like, sibling conflicts, having guilt and shame surrounding unhealthy family relationships, why “just get over it” doesn’t work, when your parents don’t accept your lifestyle, and more. Before Nedra joins us, we’re discussing the topic of talking about exes with your current partner, getting excited about Beyoncé and Blue, and sharing an update on our friend who is battling cancer. Enjoy! Follow Nedra on Instagram @nedratawwab, get her latest book Drama Free, and find more at her website. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. MUD\WTR: Get 15% off your MUD\WTR order at mudwtr.com/gge and use code GGE at checkout. Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at quince.com/gge. Hinge: Download Hinge at hin.ge/GirlsGottaEat and share your dating intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.