Join Serena Kerrigan, confidence expert, as she shares tips on confidence in relationships, meeting people in the wild, and using card games to elevate dates. The hosts discuss phone behavior, define 'doing it for the plot,' and play a spicy game with listeners. A fun and insightful chat on confidence and relationships awaits!
Confidence can be cultivated by projecting a strong image and self-esteem boost.
Age is not a barrier in relationships; emotional intelligence and maturity are vital.
Embracing vulnerability on social media can lead to empowerment and self-discovery.
Small ventures can lead to significant accomplishments; starting with simplicity is key.
Deep dives
Building Confidence through Reinvention
Serena Kerrigan reinvented herself in college by adopting a confident persona, 'Serena fucking Kerrigan,' to boost her self-esteem and project a strong image. This shift allowed her to gain confidence and reshape her self-perception.
Finding a Partner that Embraces Confidence
Serena Kerrigan's boyfriend, despite being younger, embodies emotional intelligence, maturity, and respect due to his upbringing by a strong, emotionally intelligent mother. His inherent qualities complement Serena's confidence and create a supportive dynamic in their relationship.
Traversing Online Dating during COVID-19 Lockdown
During the COVID-19 lockdown, Serena Kerrigan ventured into online dating by going on 50 live-streamed dates on Instagram. This unique approach, turning her dating life into a TV show, entertained her audience and provided insights into the challenges and experiences of modern dating.
Empowering Self-Confidence through Vulnerability
By sharing her dating experiences openly on social media, Serena Kerrigan expresses vulnerability and authenticity, creating a platform for self-growth, confidence, and connection with her followers. She demonstrates how embracing vulnerability can lead to empowerment and self-discovery.
Pursuing Passions and Business Ventures from Simple Beginnings
Starting from a place of simplicity, the podcast delves into how pursuing interests can evolve into substantial business ventures. It highlights the speaker's journey from launching card games and an audience community out of lighthearted activities during turbulent times, emphasizing the essence of initiating small endeavors that can snowball into significant accomplishments.
Navigating Unusual Dating Scenarios for Engagement and Fun
The episode explores unique dating encounters, including kissing five people in one night and spontaneous trips within hours of meeting someone. These experiences, considered 'plot-worthy,' contribute to engaging storytelling and provide insights into navigating distinctive and adventurous dating scenarios with humor and spontaneity.
Relationship Dynamics, Work-Life Separation, and Reactions to Situational Challenges
Navigating relationship dynamics, including encounters with bosses and travel companions, the podcast brings attention to the complexities of workplace romances and personal boundaries. It sheds light on handling challenges such as meeting ex-partners' new significant others on social media and maintaining professionalism amidst personal and romantic entanglements.
If you’ve ever asked “How can I be more confident?”, this episode is for you. We are so f*cking excited to have Serena F*cking Kerrigan to talk about how to be confident and why it’s crucial for finding the right partner (and filtering out the wrong ones). We discuss her relationship (how they met, dating a younger man, and the “screenshot” test for knowing if someone is right for you) as well as tips for meeting people in the wild (eye f*cking, anyone?). She shares how she turned a Covid dating strategy into a business and why her card games are the perfect way to elevate a date, your sex life, and more. Then we define what “doing it for the plot” really means and play “Plot to Not” to determine if our listeners’ spiciest scenarios qualify. Before Serena joins us, we’re breaking down phone behavior and deciding what’s “normal” or not when it comes to charging, texting, and more, plus talking about invisible string theory. Enjoy!