

Girls Gotta Eat
Dear Media
Consider this your (comedic) education in dating, sex, and relationships. Girls Gotta Eat is a top podcast since 2018 co-hosted by Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg and covering everything from breakups to bl**jobs, finances to fetishes. New episodes drop every Monday so you can start your week EATING, then dive into The Snack (a lighter episode about pop culture) on Thursdays!
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Jul 24, 2025 • 1h 10min
The Snack: Coldplay, Colbert, and Psychotic Trends
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: A Labubu “situation” That crazy Nicki Minaj balance challenge Coldplay CEO scandal Colbert being canceled Megan Stalter is the new Carrie Bradshaw The Summer I Turned Pretty tea Bachelor in Paradise (and Dale Moss) New dating shows coming out: Marrying Harry Jowsey, age gaps, and virgins Headlines: WNBA, Charli XCX, Pete Davidson, and the Epstein files Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Wix: Go to https://www.wix.com/ to start building your website. Skims: Get our favorite bras and underwear at https://skims.com/. Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/gge. Bilt: Get points by paying rent at https://joinbilt.com/GGE. Simply Pop: Go to https://cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try Simply Pop.

Jul 14, 2025 • 1h 32min
Is He Boyfriend Material? with Harry Jowsey
Harry Jowsey is here and he’s not holding back! We have the reality TV star and podcaster join us for a wild conversation about everything from having threesomes with friends (does it make it awkward afterward?) to what he’s looking for in a partner (or is he not looking at all?) to why he’s faked orgasms before (yes guys do it, too). He defends his fuckboy reputation and offers advice to the ladies for how not to get love bombed, and we find out what he actually knows about women’s bodies, from what we like in bed to what an IUD is for. And then we break down two juicy listener emails and decide whether the guys in question are boyfriend material. Before Harry joins us, we’re offering advice for a tough situation submitted from a listener – her partner made plans to propose (still hasn’t) and she’s struggling with staying in the relationship. Enjoy! Follow Harry on Instagram at @harryjowsey and listen to his podcast Boyfriend Material. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Shopify: Go to https://shopify.com/GGE and start building your own empire today. ZBiotics: Get 15% off your first order at https://zbiotics.com/gge with code GGE. Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at https://quince.com/GGE. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping at https://nutrafol.com with code GGE10. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://rocketmoney.com/gge. Vegamour: Get 20% off your first order at http://vegamour.com/gge with code GGE.

Jul 10, 2025 • 56min
The Snack: Summer Travel, Devil Wears Prada Sequel, and the Real Mr. Big
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Our Greece trip (Rayna’s crush, Ashley’s dorm room, hiking footwear fail) TSA rolls back shoe removal at the airport Brooks Nader’s period mishap at Wimbledon The Devil Wears Prada sequel The real-life Mr. Big lives on a farm The Bear season 4 review A book that really pissed us off Headlines: Lululemon sues Costco, new TikTok app, new Summer House cast Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at http://article.com/gge. Skims: Get our favorite bras and underwear at https://skims.com/. Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/gge. Liquid IV: Get 20% off your first order at https://liquidiv.com with code GGE. Helix: Get 27% off at https://helixsleep.com/gge.

Jun 30, 2025 • 1h 34min
Threesomes, Kinks, and “Cheating Together” with Weezy and Mandii B
Strap in for a wild ride with Weezy WTF and Mandii B, hosts of Decisions Decisions podcast and authors of their debut book No Holes Barred, as we discuss all things sexual exploration. We talk about open relationships – what “cheating together” means, jealousy as a turn-on, and what people don’t understand about being open/polyamorous. We also discuss threesomes, cucking (and light cucking by way of telling your partner about other sexual experiences), being a side chick, drunk sex, and on the deeper side, settling for toxic relationships and getting out of threatening situations with men. And we ask them a burning question – “Are you actually friends?” Before Mandii and Weezy join us, we’re talking about hooking up at work and sharing our past experiences, previewing our upcoming European trip, and we have an Azul update (don’t worry, he’s fine). Enjoy! Follow Mandii on Instagram @fullcourtpumps and Weezy @weezywtf, listen to their podcast Decisions Decisions, and get their book No Holes Barred. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Wix: Go to wix.com to start building your website. Bilt: Get points by paying rent at https://joinbilt.com/GGE. Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at https://quince.com/GGE. Simply Pop: Go to https://cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try Simply Pop. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription + free shipping when you subscribe at https://nutrafol.com with code GGE10. Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + get a free item in every box for life at http://hungryroot.com/gge with code GGE.

Jun 26, 2025 • 57min
The Snack: Engagements, Labubus and GRWM for WW3
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Rayna’s cashier crush + Ashley’s farmers market hall pass All the recent engagement and pregnancy announcements (including former GGE guests) Tr*mp tweeting to Israel and Iran Could Gen Z handle WW3? The Labubu craze (and our feelings) What we’re watching/excited to watch Headlines: Jeff Bezos wedding drama, Karen Read acquitted, DCC pay raise, and Beyoncé’s Euro shows Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Shopify: Go to https://shopify.com/gge and start building your own empire today. iRestore: Get a huge discount on the iRestore Elite at https://irestore.com with code GGE. Olive Ave: Get 15% off your first order at https://oliveavejewelry.com with code GGE.

Jun 23, 2025 • 1h 31min
What is Human Design and How Can It Guide Your Life? with Erin Claire Jones
Do you know your Human Design? Knowing and understanding your unique makeup can help you live your most authentic and successful life, and we’re joined by Erin Claire Jones, author and leading expert in Human Design, to explain. Erin educates us on what Human Design is, how to figure out your design, and how it influences and guides our lives. We go over the 5 types of people and discuss how each of these types move through the world. We then discuss the types of decision makers and how they make life and career decisions, navigate friendships, date, and choose romantic partners. And we call out which types of people are most likely to ghost, love bomb, people please, and more. Before Erin joins us, we have some show announcements (!!!) and we break down a frantic DM from a listener who accidentally sent a text about a guy finishing too quickly TO HIM instead of her friend. Enjoy! Follow Erin on Instagram @erinclairejones and @humandesignblueprint, and read her book How Do You Choose? Discover your human design at humandesignblueprint.com and get a discount with code GGE. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Cakes Body: Get 20% off your first order at http://cakesbody.com with code GGE. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://rocketmoney.com/gge. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at http://article.com/gge. Quince: Get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order at https://quince.com/GGE. Boulevard: Get 10% off your first year subscription when you book a demo at http://joinblvd.com/gge. Simply Pop: Go to https://cokeurl.com/simplypop to find out where you can try Simply Pop.

Jun 19, 2025 • 1h 1min
The Snack: Raynapalooza vs. Tr*mp’s Bday Party
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Raynapalooza (aka Rayna’s birthday festival) Ja Rule headlining the party Trump’s birthday parade + No Kings protests America’s Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders is back Donna Kelce cast on Traitors Tourists break a crystal chair in Italy Celeb headlines: Pedro Pascal lookalike contest, Glen Powell’s ex pops off, Sabrina Carpenter’s clapback Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Cort Furniture: Build your own furniture rental package today at https://www.cort.com/podcast. America’s Sweethearts: Watch season 2 of America’s Sweethearts on Netflix. Simply Pop: Go to https://cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try Simply Pop. Skims: Check out the Skims Ultimate Bra Collection at http://skims.com/gge.

Jun 9, 2025 • 1h 18min
It’s SPICY GIRL SUMMER (how to do it right)
This summer, dive into the fun with tips for achieving your top ten goals, from surviving weddings to exploring intimacy. Discover packing hacks and valuable solo travel advice that brings confidence to your adventures. The hosts discuss their personal milestones while sharing hilarious dating stories and introducing exciting new products. Get ready for a vibrant, health-conscious summer filled with spontaneous escapades and summer self-care tips, all while embracing independence and body positivity!

Jun 5, 2025 • 60min
The Snack: Commencement Speeches, Cringe Phone Sex, and Kylie’s boobs
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Rayna’s beef with her neighbor The “Clean Girl” influencer lawsuit Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively update Chrisley family pardon 50 Cent won’t let Diddy get pardoned Best (and worst) commencement speeches of 2025 And Just Like That is back (and is it good now?) Headlines: Taylor’s masters, Sydney Sweeney’s bath water, naked dancing flight attendant, Ellen Pompeo detained, Kylie’s breast implants Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Aura Frames: Get $30 off the Carver Mat frame at https://auraframes.com with code GGE. Bilt: Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to http://joinbilt.com/GGE. Live Conscious: Get 15% off at https://liveconscious.com with code GGE.

Jun 2, 2025 • 1h 38min
How to Trust the Timing of Your Life with Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik of Almost 30
No matter what stage of life you’re in (but especially if you’re feeling lost/unbalanced/behind at all), this episode will help guide you. We loved recording with Krista and Lindsey of Almost 30 podcast again and talking about all the changes that have happened in our own lives over the years in friendships, career, romantic relationships, breakups, and more. We discuss Saturn Returns and what age this personal transformation happens, how to trust your own timeline in life even when you feel like you’re “behind,” knowing when a relationship isn’t right and when to leave, communicating with a partner effectively, body image and changes, and being at your “peace weight.” We also talk about Krista’s dating life post-divorce and Lindsey’s motherhood journey. Before they join us, Rayna shares a story about meeting a guy in the wild and the pickup line she used, and Ashley spills some tea on a throuple who came to her recent show. Enjoy! Follow Almost 30 on Instagram @almost30podcast, listen to the Almost 30 podcast, and get their new book Almost 30: A Definitive Guide to a Life You Love for the Next Decade and Beyond. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Boulevard: Get 10% off your first year subscription when you book a demo at http://joinblvd.com/gge. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at http://article.com/gge. Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/gge. Simply Pop: Go to https://cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try Simply Pop. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://rocketmoney.com/gge.