Girls Gotta Eat

Spending the Holidays with Partners and Families … Or Not?

Dec 15, 2025
As the holiday season approaches, the hosts dive into the drama of juggling family dynamics when in a relationship. They share hilarious and shocking listener stories about holiday mishaps with partners' families. The discussion touches on family estrangement, boundaries, and the nuances of prioritizing peace, highlighting the challenges of blending traditions. Amidst some light-hearted debates on shower habits, they emphasize the importance of communication and compromise when coordinating holiday plans.
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INSIGHT

Internet Judgment Is Misplaced

  • Public judgment about private holiday choices is common and often misplaced.
  • Ashley and Rayna stress nuance: personal choices aren't moral attacks on others.
INSIGHT

Estrangement Often Follows Long Effort

  • Estrangement from family often follows repeated attempts to repair relationships.
  • Rayna and Ashley argue that leaving toxic dynamics can be a brave, necessary choice.
ANECDOTE

Ashley Keeps Christmas Morning Tradition

  • Ashley values waking up at her parents' house on Christmas morning and keeps those traditions.
  • She balanced that priority with her relationship by negotiating shared time and hosting plans.
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