

Confidently Insecure
Kelsey Darragh
the podcast where we're absolutely sure we don't know everything
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Aug 1, 2022 • 48min
f*ck heteronormativity | MARLEE LISS & EVA BLOOM
Are you tired of "being straight"? Do you FEEL THE GAYNESS IN UR BONES?? DO YOU FEEL LIKE SOCIETY HAS MADE YOU ADOPT COMPULSORY HETERONORMATIVITY (...and what is that giant word anyway?) ?! Then we've got the pod episode for you! Marlee Liss (sensuality and somatic coach, friend of the pod) and Eva Bloom (Queer-Inclusive Sex-Ed coach) are 2 besties and fellow queers who both came out and RE-came out during the pandemic. After their new arrivals into the queer space, they wanted to know WHAT WHO WHEN WHERE AND WHYYYYY compulsory heteronormativity exists and how they could help others undo what the patriarchy has done...and drumroll...Marlee & Eva created and now run the F*ck Comp Het Support club: https://www.patreon.com/FckComphetSupportClub !!!! And this episode, they're here to tell us all about it!WHAT IS COMP HET? It's the theory that heterosexuality is assumed and enforced upon women & non-binary folk by a patriarchal and cisheteronormative society. The term was popularized by Adrienne Rich in her 1980 essay titled "Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence".FOLLOW MARLEE & EVAhttps://www.marleeliss.com/https://www.evabloom.ca/BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life!https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.co
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Jul 25, 2022 • 55min
under the...INFLUENCER... | WHITNEY ECKIS
Whitney Eckis (host of Under The Influence podcast) has built a career in marketing for some of the biggest brands on EARTH! But what about YOURSELF?! How do you go from being a global social media queen for the coorporate life into starting your own business and following? Whitney's here to break it all down as we learn the power of community! FOLLOW WHITNEY: https://msha.ke/whitneyeckis/https://www.instagram.com/whitneyeckis/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/undertheinfluence.pod/?hl=en@eckismarketing @getsupr @melaBUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 18, 2022 • 38min
a gay stripper gets divorced | JACQ "THE STRIPPER" FANCES
Her new show is as intimate as the episode title its self! Jacq "the stripper" Frances talks us through her life as a famous stripper (who came out as queer during her career) who fell in love...and out....and ultimately made a show out of it! From Dancing to Divorced, Jacq is a wild ride! FOLLOW JACQ:http://www.jacqthestripper.com/https://www.instagram.com/jacqthestripper/SEE JACQ'S SHOW: ⭐ Divorced in Paradise ⭐7/19 Nashville7/22 Chattanooga7/23 Atlanta7/24 Charlotte7/28 Philly7/29 BrooklynBUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 11, 2022 • 46min
SELF-SABOTAGE!!!!!!! | AMY FIEDLER
HELLO DO YOU LIKE TO SELF-SABOTAGE JUST LIKE YOUR DEAR OLD HOST, KELSEY DARRAGH?! (bonus points tell me how many years you've been listening by knowing that I always call my inner voice the C-word!) What does self-sabotaging look like? Why do we do it?? AND MOST IMPORTANT HOW THE HELL DO WE STOP?! FRET NOT! We have expert, podcast host, Certified Trauma Support Specialist, Holistic Life Coach and Reiki Master Practitioner AMY FIEDLER here to teach us how to connect the dots, bitch! FOLLOW AMY: Podcast: Connect The Dots Bitch! https://anchor.fm/amy-fiedlerhttps://linktr.ee/amythelifecoachhttps://amyfiedler.com/https://www.instagram.com/amythelifecoach/BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 5, 2022 • 47min
working moms NEED TO HEAR THIS | JESSICA MCKAY
CALLING ALL WORKING MOMS AND MULTI-TASKER SUPER PEOPLE!!!! Parent or not, we all know the scene that this society paints onto women & caretakers - YOU CAN’T WORK AND RAISE HUMAN LIFE AT THE SAME TIME! While obviously we all know thats BS, we can’t help but sometimes feel guilty or ashamed for finding the balance of being a working parent, caretaker and busy mom (dog moms count here too!) THANK GAWD we have Jessica Mckay, author of Always With You, Always With Me to guide us on how to get through the struggle weather its from ourselves or our kids! Jessica Mckay co-wrote the book with Grammy Award–winning artist Kelly Rowland in which they have crafted a lyrical celebration of working moms everywhere and a soothing story for their children. As a mother gets ready to go to work, first she works on building the world for her child. Because it can sometimes be hard to be separated during the day, Mom collects some simple words that she and her child can repeat whenever they are missing each other or feeling overwhelmed BUY ALWAYS WITH YOU ALWAYS WITH ME: https://www.amazon.com/Always-You-Me-Kelly-Rowland/dp/0593465512BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 27, 2022 • 53min
abortion ban & holding space | PLEASURE COLLECTIVE
well confidantes...we recorded this episode a few weeks back and as if it were some ass-backwards manifestation...here we are this week with a historical move from our SC, overturning Roe! And we have 2 licensed therapists and best friends, PLEASURE COLLECTIVE (Anja & Hannah) here to talk us through it and hold to hold space for ourselves and others, FOLLOW THE PLEASURE COLLECTIVE: https://www.instagram.com/pleasure_collective/?hl=enhttps://linktr.ee/pleasurexcollectiveBUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 21, 2022 • 53min
a queer disabled SEX advocate! | ANDREW GURZA
GOOD FRIEND OF THE TRY GUY WORLD and naturally crossed over into new friendship with Kelsey, Andrew Gurza, host of disability after dark podcast and award winning Disability Awareness Consultant and the Chief Disability Officer and Co-founder of Bump’n, a sex toy company for and by disabled people, CUMS on the pod (hehe no pun intended) to chat disability awareness and what it's like to CONSTANTLY talk about having sex as a full-time wheelchair user and disabled sexy queer man!p.s. Kelsey will be on HIS podcast coming up this saturday!! check our socials for that!FOLLOW ANDREW:https://campsite.bio/andrewgurza1BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life!https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 13, 2022 • 54min
POLYAMORY a real convo | KELSEY & JENNA
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!!Polyamory and Relationship Agreements Outside of the Mononorm!!!! Jenna wrote in to the ConPod to talk about POLYAMORY and Kelsey absolutely wanted to hear more! Jenna (no socials) is an advocate for non monogamy and is polyamorous by orientation. SO HOW DO THEY DO IT?! WHAT ARE THE “RULES”? HOW CAN YOU BE POLY IF YOUR CURIOUS?! All of these questions answers and more!!! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life!https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jun 6, 2022 • 53min
fat LIBERATION & health justice | HANNAH FUHLENDORF MA LPC
You know when you have to unlearn fat phobia and challenge your own beliefs on the healthcare system and fight all the trolls in the comments section??? WELL HANNAH FULENDORF HAS! AND TEACHES US ALL HOW TO in this weeks episode!!!! Hannah talks about her experience in the healthcare system and what lead her to being the badass activist and therapist that she is! FOLLOW HANNAH: linktr.ee/HannahTalksBodieshttps://www.instagram.com/hannahtalksbodiesBUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.coSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

May 23, 2022 • 50min
narcissistic love addiction | BRYNN CICIPPIO
WOHoooHHHOOAHHHH!!! We've all known one....those people you have come across in your life that are one of the following: a narcissist, an addict, or a love addict! WHAT ABOUT ALL 3!!! WHAT IF YOU HAVE A MANIPULATIVE PERSON IN YOUR LIFE OR UPBRINGING?! How does that effect us NOW?! Fear not confidantes, we have a SPECIALIST this week - BRYNN CICIPPIO who is here to teach us everything we need to know about managing these relationships in our lives! FOLLOW BRYNN: https://bcatherapy.com/https://www.instagram.com/brynn_cicippio_lmft/linktr.ee/brynn_cicippio_lmftFOLLOW KELSEY: BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarraghSign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapskis.co Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy