
Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X
Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love! XOXO, Ms. Elle
Latest episodes

Apr 13, 2024 • 18min
Protecting the Panicked Peanut
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a young Patron understand and re-process her feelings of panic surrounding a recent trauma in a season of homelessness.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Mar 16, 2024 • 36min
Finding Confidence for the Codependent Dominant
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant re-process their rejection sensitivity and overcome insecurity in order to effectively train their submissive and provide discipline within the dynamic.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Mar 2, 2024 • 26min
Embracing the Freedom to Feel as a FemDom
In this episode, Ms. Elle inspires a female Dominant to embrace her emotions and teaches Her how to express them in a healthy way when disciplining Her submissive.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Feb 17, 2024 • 40min
No Heavy Petting: Scripting Non-Sexual Pet Play
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps an interim Handler navigate impact and service scenes with His pup without crossing the line into sexual play.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Jan 13, 2024 • 27min
Saying "Neigh" to Narcissism
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a member of her community process deep grief over the loss of her beloved animal and strategize against narcissistic manipulation using the animal as leverage for control.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Dec 30, 2023 • 38min
Choosing Kinky Cravings at the BDSM Buffet
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a switch woman explore her kinky desires without self-gaslighting or adding unnecessary judgment or regulation to her BDSM play.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Dec 9, 2023 • 21min
Dominant Harmony: Building Accountability Without Eroding Autonomy
In this episode, Ms. Elle shares Her insights about how Dominants can create accountability as a community while maintaining respect and promoting autonomy within individual dynamics.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Nov 25, 2023 • 30min
Too Bad So Sad: Shutting Down the Chronic Brat
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant create boundaries to shut down chronic and disrespectful bratting in their dynamic.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Nov 11, 2023 • 20min
Redefining the Risk of Vulnerability
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Patron process her triggers and negative associations surrounding vulnerability and exposure.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Oct 29, 2023 • 12min
Balancing 24/7 Service in the Daily Grind
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a FemDom in a 24/7 dynamic incorporate more service-oriented tasks and D/s interactions amidst two busy schedules.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X