

Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X
Ms. Elle X
Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love! XOXO, Ms. Elle
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Feb 1, 2025 • 48min
The Toxicity of Positive Projection
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a community member identify and end toxic positive projections that put her in victimized positions with dysfunctional people. Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

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Dec 21, 2024 • 26min
Crafting Submissive Communication
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a growing Dominant understand the importance of setting boundaries and training respectful communication in Her dynamic without apology.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Dec 8, 2024 • 26min
Limerence After Loss
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a fawning submissive process their latent attachment and limerence for their former Dominant after a recent breakup.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Nov 23, 2024 • 14min
Overcoming Masculine Shame as a Lesbian Dominant
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a masculine lesbian struggling with confidence in her Dominant role find her power and overcome societal shame in her D/s relationship.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Nov 2, 2024 • 37min
How to Confidently Vet a New Sub After Being Burned
In this episode, Ms. Elle shares Her insights on how to vet a new submissive with confidence while struggling with codependency and self-doubt from toxic situations with former subs.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

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Oct 20, 2024 • 22min
The Mental Game of Thrilling Domination
In this episode, Ms. Elle talks to a Lifestyle Domme in Her community about the powerful aspects of mental play in physical Domination and Dom/sub relationships. Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Oct 5, 2024 • 1h 9min
Increasing the Dom/sub Gap Without Correction or Punishment
In this episode, Ms. Elle discusses seven powerful ways to increase the power gap in your Dom/sub relationship without resorting to harsh correction or punishment!Watch Ms. Elle cover this topic on Her YouTube channel! https://youtu.be/tJDTqLt2W7s?feature=sharedSupport the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Aug 24, 2024 • 32min
Caring for the Flare-Up
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a long-distance lesbian D/s couple figure out the best way to deal with caring for the Dominant during a flare-up of a chronic illness.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Aug 10, 2024 • 39min
Getting Kinky with a Chronic Illness
In this episode, Ms. Elle discusses how to navigate sexual kinks while dealing with a chronic illness or physical limitation and shares some surprising benefits you may not realize...Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

Jul 6, 2024 • 20min
Embracing the Darkness: A Guide to Shadow Work
In this episode, Ms. Elle discusses some basic guidelines for shadow work, specifically in a kink-friendly context as a Dominant.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X