CLEANING UP YOUR MENTAL MESS with Dr. Caroline Leaf

Dr. Caroline Leaf
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Feb 21, 2022 • 30min

Podcast 358: One of the best & most easily accessible "anti-depressants"

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about something we all do: laughing! Have you ever thought about why emitting sounds from our mouths gives us so much joy? Even when those sounds can sometimes come out like a cackle, grunt, wheeze or even a snort? When we do this, we are most likely filled with joy, although there are times when people laugh out of discomfort, shock, anger, and/or sadness. In almost all these situations, however, there is something about laughing that relieves us—it releases tension and can improve our mood in tangible ways.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/laughingOFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-BiOptimizer’s Magnesium: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to http://www.magbreakthrough.com/leaf and use DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10% on your order.-Splendid Spoon: Get started and save $35 on your first order of delicious plant-based meals at SplendidSpoon.com/DRLEAF—that's only $6.66 per meal!-NOOM: Sign up for your trial and get psychology-based support and motivation to reach your goals at noom.com/DRLEAF.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:2:00 What laughter is3:45 Laughter as communication4:25, 15:00 How laughing affects the brain & body8:30 Laughing & self-regulation9:30 How laughing helps protect us13:00 Laughing, oxygen & blood flow14:00 Laughing as tension relief19:18, 24:25 How laughing helps us manage toxic stress20:45 Ho laughing helps us rest & restore21:00 Laughing as therapy24:00 Laughter & mind management26:30 Why we should all laugh more!Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf*DISCLAIMER: This podcast and blog is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. We always encourage each person to make the decision that seems best for their situation with the guidance of a medical professional. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 17, 2022 • 1h 9min

Podcast 357: Identifying, Exiting & Healing from Narcissistic Relationships (with Psychologist & Narcissism Expert Dr. Ramani Durvasila)

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this repost of one of my most popular podcast interviews, I talk to professor of psychology, licensed practitioner, international speaker, consultant and best-selling author Dr. Ramani Durvasula about the many facets of narcissism, how it damages relationships and leads to abuse, how the culture of narcissism and entitlement is making the pandemic worse, and why we are so fascinated by stories of narcissists and psychopaths.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/navigating-narcissistic-relationships-how-the-culture-of-entitlement-is-making-the-pandemic-worse-why-we-are-so-interested-in-stories-about-psychopaths-with-psychologist-dr-ramani-durvasulaFor more on Dr. Ramani: http://doctor-ramani.com/#OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Public Goods: Receive $15 off your first Public Goods order with NO MINIMUM purchase. Just go to https://www.publicgoods.com/DRLEAF.-Athletic Greens: Get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at athleticgreens.com/leaf EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:4:38 High-conflict, antagonist personalities & narcissism5:36 What is narcissism?8:38 The culture of entitlement & narcissism in our world today20:51 How collectivism can enable narcissism23:50 The two most important tasks of a parent or guardian27:00 How narcissism & entitlement can out the brain and body into toxic stress and cause brain damage29:14 The definition of narcissism32:20 How to deal with a narcissistic person45:00 Cognitive dissonance & narcissism46:00 Trauma-bonding & narcissism55:00 What causes narcissism?59:22 Dirty John, psychopaths & narcissismGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf*DISCLAIMER: This podcast and blog is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. We always encourage each person to make the decision that seems best for their situation with the guidance of a medical professional. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 14, 2022 • 44min

Podcast 356: Why You Don’t Need to Stress About Sleep

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I will give you my favorite, neuroscience-based tips to sleep better.Before I go into depth on this topic, I want to emphasize that everyone is different. Some people may need more sleep than others. Some people may find that certain tips to improve sleep quality don’t work for them—this is perfectly okay AND normal.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/why-you-don-t-need-to-stress-about-sleepOFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. That’s FRIENDS without the R – Best Fiends!-NED’s CBD products: If you’d like to give Ned a try, Cleaning Up The Mental Mess listeners get 15% off Ned products with code: DRLEAF. Just visit helloned.com/DRLEAF to get access!EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:2:03 Don’t fear not sleeping3:15 The messier our mind is, the messier our sleeping patterns will be6:00, 34:00 Why we need to manage our mind to sleep better10:00 We all need different amounts of sleep12:00 Why we need to prepare the mind & body to sleep well13:00 Techniques to sleep better18:00 How light affects sleep quality21:20 How temperature affects sleep quality25:12 Exercise & sleep27:50 Why sleeping pills should only be used as a last resortGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf*DISCLAIMER: This podcast and blog is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. We always encourage each person to make the decision that seems best for their situation with the guidance of a medical professional. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 10, 2022 • 38min

Podcast 355: How Long COVID affects our brains & minds + how to use directed neuroplasticity to wire out COVID damage

Sign up to Patreon to get access to the full session video & audio + additional exclusive bonuses: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast you will get a chance to listen to the second session I did at my recent Mental Health Retreat in Dallas, Texas.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:🧠How the COVID pandemic has affect our minds, brains, and bodies🧠How to use directed neuroplasticity (the Neurocycle) to wire out harmful COVID PTSD effects 🧠How Long COVID affects the brain + How to heal from long COVID 🧠How social interaction & cognitive stimulation can heal our brains, minds, and bodies 🧠How to help our children rewire any negative COVID effects Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Athletic Greens: To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit athleticgreens.com/leaf to take ownership over your health and pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance!-BetterHelp: I am proud to say that this podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp, and Cleaning Up the Mental Mess listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/drleaf.-Catalina Crunch: See why Catalina Crunch Cereal is the fastest growing cereal brand in America. Just go to catalinacrunch.com/DRLEAF for 15% off your first order—plus FREE shipping.ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 7, 2022 • 37min

Podcast 354: Trauma Bonding- What it is & how to break free

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleaf*Content/trigger warning: the following discussion contains talk about abuse and trauma bonding*EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about trauma bonding, and how to start healing from the trauma of an abusive relationship.Trauma bonding generally occurs in abusive relationships. It is a psychological and emotional response to abuse, when the person experiencing the abuse can develop certain attachments or sympathies for the abuser.If you are someone who has or is suffering from abuse and trauma bonding, this content may be triggering. If you are in an abusive relationship, you can call this hotline 1.800.799.7233 or visit The National Domestic Violence Hotline website for help and immediate support. For more hotlines, including international hotlines, see https://drkimmyramotar.com/list-of-hotlines/.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/trauma-bonding-what-it-is-how-to-break-freeOFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Ritual’s Essential for Kids: Get 10% off during your first 3 months. Visit ritual.com/DRLEAF to start Ritual or add Essential for Kids today.-Chime: Get started at chime.com/drleaf.-Magnesium Breakthrough by BiOptimizers: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to www.magbreakthrough.com/leaf and use DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10% and get free shipping.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:2:15 What trauma bonding is3:30 What happens when human attachment becomes toxic6:38 The cycle of abuse that can lead to trauma bonding12:05 How a trauma bond can develop13:00 Why people often find it hard to leave an abusive relationship20:00 The mind, brain, toxic stress & trauma bonds24:30 You are not to blame!26:00 Cognitive dissonance & trauma bonds29:50 How to start healing from a trauma bondGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 3, 2022 • 1h 12min

Podcast 353: Why you can't pay attention + how to think deeply again (with Johann Hari)

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I speak to journalist and best-selling author Johann Hari about his incredible new book Stolen Focus, why our inability to focus, think deeply and pay attention has dramatically decreased, and what we can do about this as individuals and as a society.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/why-you-cant-pay-attention-how-to-think-deeply-again-with-johann-hariGet Johann's book here: stolenfocusbook.comOFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-immi: Visit immieats.com/drleaf to try immi’s delicious, low carb, plant-based and fiber-rich ramen!-Splendid Spoon: Get started and save $35 on your first order of delicious plant-based meals at SplendidSpoon.com/DRLEAF—that's only $6.66 per meal!EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:3:10 Johann Hari’s fascinating history4:40 The power of curiosity6:05 What is happening to our attention spans & why it is becoming harder and harder to focus6:50 The different factors affecting our ability to pay attention in the modern world12:38 Why Johann decided to write Stolen Focus21:00 Pathologizing the individual versus dealing with social problems21:30 How the business model behind modern technology & social media is designed to steal our attention36:00 The power of working together to change society40:30 Why we all need to read more49:00 What is happening to children’s attention & focus51:50 Why children need to playGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 31, 2022 • 46min

Podcast 352: How to express intense emotions in a healthy way

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about how our emotions can affect our relationships, and how we can learn how to express our emotions while being mindful of the other people in our lives.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/how-to-express-intense-emotions-in-a-healthy-wayEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:3:30, 19:00 What an emotion is & what it isn't14:30 What happens when we express emotions15:30 How unmanaged emotions affect our health & quality of life16:20 Emotions are not illnesses17:00 How to express emotions in a healthy way23:00, 31:15 How our emotions can impact other people & how to manage this impact34:30 How to develop your emotional intelligence41:20 The power of listening43:00 Why we all need forgivenessGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Athletic Greens: To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit athleticgreens.com/leaf to take ownership over your health and pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance!-The Jordan Harbinger Show: You can’t go wrong with adding The Jordan Harbinger Show to your rotation. It’s incredibly interesting, there’s never a dull show. Search for The Jordan Harbinger Show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts, or visit jordanharbinger.com/start.ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 27, 2022 • 59min

Podcast 351: How to fall back in love with yourself & find your identity

Discover how to fall back in love with yourself and realize your true potential with bestselling author Kimberly Snyder. Explore the power of finding yourself, overcoming fear with love, building true confidence, and creating an abundant life. Dive into self-discovery, inner identity, and bridging the gap within yourself for personal growth and fulfillment.
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Jan 24, 2022 • 26min

Podcast 350: Why it’s so hard to ask for help + life-changing lessons from a rope maze experiment

Sign up to Patreon to get access to bonus ad-free podcasts, exclusive downloads, live Q&As and more: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk about the importance of asking for help, and why we all need help at times! The Beatles really got it right. There are times when we will cry out “Help, I need somebody!”. We can’t do everything alone, and we shouldn’t be shamed for needing help.Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/why-it-is-so-hard-to-ask-for-helpEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:3:30 Why it can be hard to ask for help5:00 Why we need a lot of self-compassion9:20 Learning to listen to our “wise mind”10:30 What the rope maze can teach you about asking for help17:30 Why we need each other!20:10 Why some people may find it challenging to ask for help21:28 It is not just about you—it is about you in the world22:00 The importance of the default mode network & asking for helpGet my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-Athletic Greens: To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit athleticgreens.com/leaf. -Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. That’s FRIENDS without the R – Best Fiends!ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 20, 2022 • 1h 8min

Podcast 349: How self-boundaries can help improve self-esteem, overcome self-loathing, and rebuild identity after trauma

Sign up to Patreon to get access to the full session video & audio + additional exclusive bonuses: https://www.patreon.com/drcarolineleafEPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this podcast you will get a chance to listen to the first session I did at my recent Mental Health Retreat in Dallas, Texas.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:🧠How to identify, set, and maintain healthy self-boundaries 🧠Different types of self-boundaries 🧠How to avoid common mistakes when setting self-boundaries 🧠How self-boundaries can help rebuild identity after trauma and during healing 🧠How self-boundaries can help restore balance in the brain + the neuroscience of boundaries 🧠A Neurocycle for rebuilding identity & overcoming self-loathing or low self-esteem Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.comDownload my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.appSign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF toUS: 1 (833) 285 3747UK: +447908679035Canada: 18336032953Get a free Cleaning up Your Mental Mess workbook when you subscribe to my weekly email at drleaf.com!OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS:-The Jordan Harbinger Show: ou can’t go wrong with adding The Jordan Harbinger Show to your rotation. It’s incredibly interesting, there’s never a dull show. Search for The Jordan Harbinger Show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts or click here: jordanharbinger.com/start-Try Inside Tracker today and get ready to optimize your body from the inside out in 2022! Sign up here and get 25% OFF storewide: InsideTrackerADDITIONAL RESOURCES:-Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resourcesFollow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies:-Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/--Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf-Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf-Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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