

Pure Desire Podcast
Pure Desire Ministries
Your biblically based and clinically informed approach to breaking free from compulsive sexual behavior and healing from betrayal.
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Jan 12, 2021 • 1h 2min
184 - Groups For Young Women
The rate of increasing exposure and addiction to pornography is growing rapidly in the lives of young women. Statistics say it's the fastest-growing rate among all demographics. That's a problem. What can we do? We can run Behind The Mask groups for young women. On today's episode, we discuss the content, group structure, leadership, and impact of running these groups for students/young adults in the church.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)BEHIND THE MASK (RESOURCE FOR YOUNG WOMEN WHO STRUGGLE)UNRAVELED (RESOURCE FOR WOMEN WHO STRUGGLE)MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING FOR LOCAL GROUPS (TOOL)MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING FOR ONLINE GROUPS (TOOL)STORIES FOR WOMEN (BOOK)SEXUAL INTEGRITY 101 (VIDEO COURSE)LOVE ADDICTION EVALUATION (TOOL)
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Jan 5, 2021 • 44min
183 - Growing Connection In Marriage
Intimacy in marriage doesn't just happen. It takes being intentional and working together to establish healthy intimacy in our relationships. That's why we created a resource to help: Connected. On today's episode, we talk through our Connected resource and how it helps couples build a bridge to the intimacy they've always wanted.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)CONNECTED: BUILDING A BRIDGE TO INTIMACYSEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM (STRUGGLING MEN)BETRAYAL & BEYOND (BETRAYED WOMEN)UNRAVELED: MANAGING LOVE, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS (STRUGGLING WOMEN)HOPE FOR MEN (BETRAYED MEN)
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Dec 29, 2020 • 45min
182 - 2020: In Review
The year 2020 was traumatic, painful, and stressful for so many. Loss, brokenness, and disruption were felt by all. Whether it was the Coronavirus, racial injustice, fires, presidential elections, or anything in between: 2020 was packed full of difficulty. But, were there any positives to 2020? Anything we learned? Any helpful perspectives we can carry into a new year? We talk about this and more on today’s podcast.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)PODCAST SURVEYFASTER SCALECOMMITMENT TO CHANGE
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Dec 22, 2020 • 40min
181 - Present For The Holidays: Double Binds
The holidays can easily put us in those rock-and-a-hard-place situations. Our ability to manage and maneuver through these situations is tied directly to our health. On today's episode, we identify double binds that arise during the holidays, how they impact our sexual health, and the positive outcomes of handling them well.
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Dec 15, 2020 • 48min
180 - Present For The Holidays: Managing Stress
The holidays can be stressful. There's no way around it. And stress is very connected to unwanted sexual behaviors. For that reason, managing stress during the holidays is essential to sexual health. On today's episode, we talk about stress during the holidays, how it shows up, and healthy ways to manage it.
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Dec 8, 2020 • 49min
179 - Present For The Holidays: Relationships
The holidays, though often presented as a joyous time, actually can be a stressful time for relationships. For that reason, being present in our relationships is crucial to staying in health. Today, we talk about why relationships can be so difficult during this season, how to avoid isolation, and creative ways to invest in relationships during the holidays.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)
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Dec 1, 2020 • 46min
178 - Present For The Holidays: Emotional Awareness
The holidays, though often presented as a joyous time, actually can be an extremely emotional time for so many. For that reason, being present with our emotions is crucial in maintaining health. Today, we talk about what emotional awareness is, how to get more of it, who it impacts, and why it's important in our health and recovery.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)FASTER SCALE (SELF-AWARENESS TOOL)THOUGHTS/FEELINGS AWARENESS LOG
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Nov 24, 2020 • 58min
177 - Re-Solution w/ Ben Bennett
Are we reaching the next generations? This is a scary question to ask. But if we don’t ask, we might not get the answer. Today, it’s one of the biggest areas of ministry for followers of Jesus. How do we help the next generations live into the life God has for them? Ben Bennett, director of Resolution, joins us to talk about how we can help the younger generations of our day overcome their hurts, struggles, and learn to thrive.RESOURCESTHE TOP REASONS YOUNG PEOPLE DROP OUT OF CHURCH (BLOG)LIVING FREE (GROUP RESOURCE)LIVING FREE (PODCAST)LIVING FREE ONLINE GROUPSJOIN A PURE DESIRE GROUPRESOLUTIONMOVEMENT.ORGRESOLUTION
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Nov 17, 2020 • 50min
176 - How To Start The Conversation At Your Church
If we want to create a safe place for healing from the effects of sexual brokenness in our churches, we have to start the conversation. On today’s episode, we walk through 7 steps to starting this conversation at your church.RESOURCESHOW TO START THE CONVERSATION ABOUT PURE DESIRE GROUPS (PDF)SEXUAL INTEGRITY 101 VIDEO COURSEDEVELOPING A PURE DESIRE MINISTRY (PDF)
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Nov 10, 2020 • 53min
175 - Honesty vs. Disclosure
Honesty in recovery is non-negotiable. But is honesty the same thing as disclosure? On today's episode, we talk through the difference between honesty and disclosure in the recovery process.RESOURCESHONESTLY SPEAKING (BLOG)RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (STRUGGLING SPOUSE)RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE)
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