The Kevin Miller Podcast

I grew up in the Christian church amongst celebrated Bible verses, such as, “Ask and ye shall receive,” “Knock and the door will be open to you,” and “Seek, and ye shall find.” These concepts and requests were to be aimed at God. Today we hear a lot about manifesting. This often gets friction from the religious crowd as it feels like credit is given to the individual and not God. In this episode today I have a conversation with Cathy Heller about it. We are not discussing, dissecting, or debating religion or doctrine, but really honing in on our expectations, a concept I’ve been researching again as of late. Can I have faith in God but suffer from not expecting good things to come my way? Can I not have faith in God but benefit because I do expect good things to come my way? And thus my title for this episode of asking, “Can Anything Overcome Our Expectations For Ourselves?” Cathy Heller is a renowned teacher, podcaster and author. She hosts a top spiritual podcast, Abundant Ever After. She is a practitioner of what she cites as the law of reception, and has a large following that includes a lot of the top psychologists I respect and have had here on the podcast. Her recent book is called, Abundant Ever After: Tools For Creating A Life Of Prosperity And Ease, and as I read it I just resonated with Cathy’s spirit and intrigued myself with her perspectives, so following is our discussion together. If you decide to buy her book, go to cathyheller.com/book and she has some of her courses she’ll give you for free. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevinGo to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial.Use my promo code WHATDRIVESYOU for 10% off on any CleanMyMac's subscription plansJoin millions of Americans reaching their financial goals—starting at just $3/month! Get $25 towards your first stock purchase at get.stash.com/DRIVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We often hear about morning routines and the best time for certain activities. What I mostly hear however, are people’s experiences of what works best for them, and while I’m appreciative they’ve found what works for them, I’m cautious to take anything and say it’s what everyone should do. I am interested in what research actually says though. Dan Pink is one of the most prolific researchers I know when it comes to human potential. I’ve lost track of how many best selling books he has written, such as A Whole New Mind and The Power of Regret. I’ve had Dan on this show multiple times, but this recording was my first time with him and it was around a book he wrote titled, When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing. Dan did the literal research to find statistics on when the best time was, for us as humans to perform certain activities. What times were best for certain conversations. Think of it as what time is statistically most optimal. What time will give you the best chance of success to do something. I fascinated myself with it, which is why I’m bringing this episode back for you to benefit from.Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevinGo to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial.Use my promo code WHATDRIVESYOU for 10% off on any CleanMyMac's subscription plansJoin millions of Americans reaching their financial goals—starting at just $3/month! Get $25 towards your first stock purchase at get.stash.com/DRIVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the last episode I talked with Dr Adam Dorsay about the four types of connection we want and need as humans. I hope you listened and got benefit. I’ll list them out in this short episode. But here I want to draw attention to the real type of connection we are talking about, and most of us…missing. If we don’t understand, we’ll miss the concept entirely. Imagine one person asking another if they cycle. And the other says, “Absolutely! Almost every day?” So the first person says, “Well great, want to meet back here in the morning and go cycle together?” “Sure,” says the other. The next morning they meet up. One is on a motorcycle. The other on a bicycle. I’m going to help define our connections so we understand what we really want. Dr Dorsay’s book and my muse for this episode is, Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the 4 Types of Connection and Live the Life You Love. Also find him on his podcast, Super Psyched. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevinGo to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial.Use my promo code WHATDRIVESYOU for 10% off on any CleanMyMac's subscription plansJoin millions of Americans reaching their financial goals—starting at just $3/month! Get $25 towards your first stock purchase at get.stash.com/DRIVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Adam Dorsay is a licensed psychologist and an executive coach in Silicon Valley where heserves people who have achieved all the big trophies of the world; money, status, possessions, power, and some of them, fame. And yet they are coming to him for help. Why? After all these years, he’s written a book to culminate the primary problem he sees. Lack of true connection. We are all out there trying to win the world, and in the process, we neglect our soul. We neglect the primary thing that gives us true joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Connection. This may seem elementary but so are most of the great truths of life. Adam finds there are four key areas of connection that we are missing and it’s taking the joy out of everything else; connection with yourself, others, the world, and something greater. But you can’t just hear that list and fix things. You need to understand what connection really is and how to go about achieving it, because we are all lacking connection to varying degrees and we don’t understand why. Which is why I had Dr Adam Dorsay come onto the show. I wanted to know more for myself, and as you’re about to hear, discussing connect with Adam opened my eyes more, especially in regards to my connection with myself, which is the most common thread of all my research on the human condition. Adam’s book is called Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the 4 Types of Connection and Live the Life You Love. He also has a podcast of the same name, Super Psyched, that you can check out. I invite you to join me as I talk with Dr Adam Dorsay about how we can better understand and achieve the greatest asset for our lives, connection.Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevinGo to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial.Use my promo code WHATDRIVESYOU for 10% off on any CleanMyMac's subscription plansJoin millions of Americans reaching their financial goals—starting at just $3/month! Get $25 towards your first stock purchase at get.stash.com/DRIVE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nick Vujicic, a renowned motivational speaker born without arms or legs, shares his powerful insights on confidence and vulnerability. He emphasizes that everyone's challenges are valid, urging listeners to find joy amidst adversity. Joined by Tom Ziglar, they reflect on the transformative power of love, resilience, and purpose beyond material desires. Nick's journey from contemplating suicide to inspiring millions showcases the importance of embracing one's unique gifts and the impact of intentional actions in shaping a meaningful legacy.

Explore the intricate threads of self-discovery as personal propensities are examined through the lens of nature versus nurture. Delve into the complexities of identity, shaped not just by experiences but also by genetics. The discussion highlights the impact of adopting children from different cultures, revealing how backgrounds influence behavior. Additionally, the insights from a prominent psychologist offer a deeper understanding of intergenerational trauma, encouraging reflection on why we are the way we are.

In this conversation with Mariel Buqué, a trauma-informed psychologist and author of "Break the Cycle," explore the profound impacts of intergenerational trauma. Mariel discusses how our ancestors' struggles can shape our experiences today, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these inherited challenges for healing. The discussion also includes the tension between genetic determinism and personal growth, along with strategies for breaking negative family cycles. Listeners gain insights into establishing healthy boundaries and fostering emotional reconnection within families.

In this enlightening discussion, Ben Hardy, PhD in organizational psychology and bestselling author, shares his transformative views on willpower. He likens willpower to a dwindling smartphone battery, revealing why it often fails us when we need it most. Hardy emphasizes the immense power of our environment in shaping behavior, urging listeners to create supportive settings that foster personal growth. He challenges conventional beliefs about self-control, advocating for proactive engagement over reliance on sheer willpower. This conversation is a game-changer!

Randy Blythe, a heavy metal legend, shares his evolution from a rebellious punk to a more reflective thinker. He candidly discusses his regrets about polarized views and the importance of empathy towards differing opinions. The conversation navigates the complexities of contentious issues, like COVID-19, urging compassion over judgment. Personal growth and the quest for inner peace are emphasized, prompting listeners to embrace self-awareness and challenge their own perspectives on what truly divides us.

Randy Blythe, the lead singer of heavy metal band Lamb of God, shares his transformative journey through addiction and emotional conflict. He emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and intellectual sobriety, revealing how music can help process intense emotions. Blythe discusses his evolving perspective on societal judgments and the duality of fear and contentment. He reflects on his punk rock roots, the clash with his upbringing, and the significance of self-examination, showcasing how resilience, self-compassion, and community can foster personal growth.