Piggy-backing off of the last episode, there are times when there is no good answer for the questions that she might be asking. This doesn't mean that the questions aren't worthwhile. Not even close - her questions are incredibly important because it's part of how she is working through her grieving process. "I don't remember" is not a good answer. Listen in as Jason and Shelly share three practical things to help answer the unanswerable questions.   We talk about empathy and Jason teaches a 5-week Empathy Master Class. You can get all the details here.   Our websites - rlforwomen.com and redemptiveliving.com   You can connect with Shelley on Instagram @Shelley-Martinkus   Questions for the Podcast? Email Shelly with the subject line: Podcast

Why did he do this?If you haven’t already noticed, I like to give Jason a hard time (as you will hear a couple of times throughout this episode). He’s real patient with me and just rolls with it. He’s a good guy. In this episode, we talk about a big question that women ask - “Why? Why did you do this?!" I share a couple of reasons as to why she needs to hear the reasons from her husband, we talk about how answering this question is apart of the grieving process, and we also talk about what he can do in the here and now for the why from the past to not hold so much weight moving forward. Shelley mentions the Restore Workshop which will be held next month virtually, then back to in-person in Spring 2021. “Good work in the present creates a future where there won’t be as much focus on the past.” - Jason said this during the episode and I thought it was so good. Interested in working with us or someone on our team? Find out about our services here. Questions for the Podcast? Email Shelley with the subject line: Podcast.

We are back with a candid conversation about triggers. Have you heard of a trigger-squared? Well - it’s a real thing and we want to make sure that doesn’t happen so in this episode, we talk through some practical tips to help manage triggers  in public. Links to select blog posts on triggers: here and here Questions for the Podcast? Email Shelley with the subject line: Podcast. Order the Rescued workbook here, there is a chapter devoted to understanding and working through triggers

Where is the roadmap for recovery? Is there a perfect way to go about it? Jason and Shelley unpack these questions as well as discuss what they would have done differently three months into the process and three years into the process. “The music happens between the notes”- the actual quote is “Music is the silence between the notes” and is accredited to Claude Debussy. Links to a select few of Shelley’s blog posts on self-care: here, hereand here. Questions for the Podcast? Email Shelley with the subject line: Podcast.

Welcome to Redemptive Living Radio!  A new podcast created for couples looking for hope as they heal from sexual betrayal in their marriages.  In this first episode, we share our story, talk a bit about where we are at today and our vision for this podcast. Visit Jason’s website at redemptiveliving.com. Visit Shelley’s website at rlforwomen.com. Watch a video of Jason and Shelley’s full story. Questions for the podcast?  Email Shelley with the subject line: Podcast.