The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

After BDSM teacher Andy Buru came into The UNcivilized Nation and dropped this notion for all of us, I’ve been seeing how potent of an idea this is — balancing space holding and selfishness actually is. AND how confronting it is for so many people to lean into the one that’s not their natural way. In this short solo episode I break down why being able to do both will change your sex life, your income, and your relationships at large. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.

In this podcast, Duey Freeman and host delve into the concept of men's fear of being afraid, challenging societal norms and promoting personal growth. They explore fear in therapy, wilderness encounters, relationships, and personal development, emphasizing the importance of embracing vulnerability for genuine connections and empowerment.

Making a brief return to interviewing, I get to sit down here with a man who has been a mortician since the age of 18. Wild huh? We talk a lot about grief, the power of full expression and how we can shift the societal tide that’s preventing so many people from feeling what’s only natural in their lives. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

Learn how being a Nice Guy or Cool Girl can hinder personal growth and happiness. Understand that prioritizing others' happiness can prevent you from achieving the life you want. Discover the importance of finding balance between giving to others and taking care of yourself. Embrace change and make bold choices to transform your life.

In this episode I sit down with Lama Justin von Bujdoss and talk about many things. Namely, his experience in a 49 day dark retreat, his time working in hospice, as well as his career as a prison chaplain. The man has seen and experienced beauty and loss on a grand scale. This is a fabulous interview where he talks about how we can all deal with the darker pieces of our lives and the potential challenges we will all inevitably face. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

One of the pains so many people experience is from looking back on their lives and thinking they wasted time with a particular chapter. I hear this in workshops and with my private clients.  “Gosh, if I hadn’t spent those 5 years studying agriculture and instead had 5 more years in my current profession of real estate development.” Or something like this. In this punchy solo episode I share about my own journey to becoming the founder of The UNcivilized Movement and how it was anything but a straight path. And why every “misstep” along the way was actually a crucial part of the journey. Please share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

This episode is powerful. In it I get to sit down with the great Ralek Gracie. Born into Jiujitsu royalty Ralek has spent his life on the mat, in the ring, and in the cage. His life was about little else than jiujitsu and being a Gracie. Yet a business failure and the subsequent introspection took his life down a completely separate path, one of art, authenticity, and unapologetic expression. In this episode you’ll get a VIP pass into Ralek’s journey and how you can immediately apply the lessons it’s taught him. Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠my website⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

Hey UNcivilized Fam, So many men who get themselves into Men’s Work fall into this early trap. Please give this short solo episode a listen on how you can avoid — forgetting your balls! In this episode I break down UNcivilized Ethos Tenet #8 and remind me all the beautiful benefits of living a powerful life. HHB, Fellas. Not just H. Enjoy and please share this with someone in your life. Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠my website⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

Good day and welcome to 2024. In this raw yearly opener, I invite you to join me and all of us at UNcivilized to walk along side of us in a new way. A powerful way. In this episode I share my year name and why I chose it as well as ask you to join me on your own powerful path. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠my website⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

A Christmas episode for you! Whether you’re taking a break from family or today is a hard day for you, here is an episode to lighten your heart and give you something constructive to work on. I asked the men of The UNcivilized Nation what 10 skills every UNcivilized Man should have. These are 10 (actually 11) of them. They’re solid. Enjoy and please share this episode with one person in your life. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠my website⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.