The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm cover image

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Powerful advice for Nice Guys and Cool Girls

Feb 5, 2024
Learn how being a Nice Guy or Cool Girl can hinder personal growth and happiness. Understand that prioritizing others' happiness can prevent you from achieving the life you want. Discover the importance of finding balance between giving to others and taking care of yourself. Embrace change and make bold choices to transform your life.
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Quick takeaways

  • Balancing the needs of others with one's own desires is crucial for personal fulfillment and success.
  • Embracing radical change and stepping out of comfort zones is necessary to create the life you truly desire.

Deep dives

You will not get what you want by just making other people happy

Being a nice guy or a good girl means constantly prioritizing other people's happiness. However, this approach does not lead to personal fulfillment or success. It is essential to strike a balance between being of service to others and taking care of your own needs and desires. By neglecting your goals, dreams, and unique purpose, you are not living authentically and may experience dissatisfaction and unhappiness. It is crucial to prioritize your own growth, self-love, and personal goals alongside helping others.

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